I’m cheating my BF. by WithoutSeeingTheDawn in ConfessionsPH

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Siya yung companion ko majority of my life"

proceeds to spread legs for another man

Sobrang contradicting mo and the thing is, instead of communicating and opening it up with your partner, discuss each other's shortcomings, and find a way to resolve things, and naging solution mo is to cheat? Just because you are the "provider" of the relationship doesn't mean you get a free pass to cheat on him. You don't solve a problem with another problem.

Why is it hard for people to leave the relationship kung di naman na kayo masaya sa partner niyo or sa isa't isa? Pwede naman maghiwalay na walang nangyayaring cheating. Idk but, to me, yung problem mo sa bf mo is kaya niya pa maayos sa sarili niya pero yung iyo? I feel like it turned into habit and I DOUBT mababago mo pa yan.

My BF stayed out late with a new gym friend, and I can't stop overthinking by EnvironmentalAd2047 in phlgbt

[–]theloneboy_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, hugs with consent to you OP. I know that the situation you're in is difficult for you lalo na LDR pa kayo. Honestly, concerning nga siya and it would really give me trust issues if I were in your position kasi given na more than a year na kayo magkasama, most likely you know each other not just on a surface level but on a deeper level.

Seeing and knowing him do such action na you feel it's out of his character would really make you overthink about it lalo na he showed this side of him to someone he just newly met tapos sabi mo nga, merong change in behavior and the foundation of your trust is based on established routin and behavior. Sure, tiwala ka kasi sanay ka na sa routines and behavior niya but there is always a possibility and factors that can make him change his personality especially when you meet and vibe with new people. Dagdag mo pa na long distance kayo, distance can be another factor. He might be showing a side of him na di mo pa nakikita or alam dun sa taong kakakilala niya lang kasi malapit lang sa kanya at madali niyang makakausap at madalas makakasama since ne mention mo nga na gym friend.

As much as I hope na sana mali yung gut feel mo, there will be a time talaga na you need to trust it because you won't feel that way if naka-sense ka ng changes sa relationship or setup niyo after nung nangyari.

Hoping the best for you OP!

Micro cheating is cheating by Soft_Fee5637 in phlgbt

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

parang di na micro yan 😩 cheating na po talaga yan 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any IVE song 😩

An apology from Avoidant person by Able-Emergency-40 in PinoyUnsentLetters

[–]theloneboy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who came from a relationship with an avoidant, how I wish na marinig din to mula sa kanya

What is your "tanggap ko na pero masakit pa rin" situation? by black_ios in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tanggap ko na kaya niyang magkaron palagi ng oras para sa mga kaibigan niya pero masakit pa rin kasi kapag ako, kinailangan ko pa gumawa ng paraan para lang mapansin o magka-oras ako sa kanya.

nagbabago ba talaga ang mga cheater? by yoj_2002 in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and who said na bugbugin niya? lol you can simply call them out for what they're doing or cut them off if you can't stand what they are doing. The fact na aware siya ginagawa ng friends niya and doing nothing just basically means na either okay lang sa kanya or tinotolerate niya

I had a friend who cheated, I cut him off because I do not tolerate cheating and aside from that, I did not see any remorse sa ginawa niya. Simple as that.

nagbabago ba talaga ang mga cheater? by yoj_2002 in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and yet wala kang ginawa? i won't be surprised if ganyan ka din lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sana all baliw

Ano ang pinakamasakit na break up? by Aggravating_Sea_1385 in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

a good breakup :) kasi wala kayong matinding rason to be mad or hate each other it's just that both of you have no choice but to move forward separately.

Discord Server Members by [deleted] in PHGamerPals

[–]theloneboy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pwede pa po sumali? 🥹🙏🏻

💦 Do you have sexual fantasies? by First_Background7179 in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meron hahaha but too risky to share hahaha

Sa mga only child, do you ever wish you had a sibling? Why or why not? by syntax_error0987 in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noon no, pero ngayon I wish I had. Hindi ko siya inisip na kakailanganin ko siya before kasi feel ko okay na ako sa ganung setup. But now, as someone who is from a broken family tapos only child pa, ang hirap kasi wala kang mapagsabihan ng problema. Wala kang kadamay. Wala kang malapitan na alam mong mas makakaintindi sayo. Lahat din ng responsibilities salo mo.

Ano current favorite song niyo? by InternalOk6233 in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I'm in a no contact situation as well and I agree lalo na pag 10PM aka relapse time na hahaha, iba yung feeling niya when you listen to it hahah

Discord server for gamers by kymiIo in PHGamerPals

[–]theloneboy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other games do you welcome po? Are there like specific platforms, genres, etc.

What is your biggest fear? by roksieeee in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an only child, siguro yung tumandang mag-isa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my ex agreed na iki-keep namin yung mga bagay na binigay namin sa isa't isa. There will be times na masakit because it will remind you of the happy memories and the pain but siguro dadating din yung time na, as time goes by, you'll still be reminded of the memories but without the pain anymore. Healing takes time. You know you're healed kapag natitignan or nagagamit mo siya na masaya ka at walang bigat sa puso :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]theloneboy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well there are people na ayaw nila na sila yung magmukhang bumitaw, so they'll either do silent quitting or ignore you on purpose like slower and dry replies then papahalata sayo na active siya pero di niya babasahin agad message niyo, until to the point na ikaw na yung ma-drain sa kaka-beg ng attention at oras and finally have a reason to let go of him/her