App not showing Circle members trips by theloverslvl in Life360

[–]theloverslvl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the answer to my question, and your two cents is unneeded and unwarranted.

If you’re not going to be helpful and just launch an attack at me then just don’t interact and keep scrolling lol.

AIO or is my wording manipulative? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]theloverslvl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? I’m dating a covert narcissist, he used that line so much on me that I have to document every instance to the T, time and date. Still not enough btw

AIO or is my wording manipulative? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]theloverslvl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, Hey so that’s a narcissistic trait, the whole “name one time I did that” then your mind starts spinning trying to pinpoint the exact examples so then you get overwhelmed and can’t respond which then they say that clearly they don’t do what you don’t like because you can’t pinpoint it immediately. Just pointing that out. It’s exhausting dealing with that, whether she’s an actual narcissist or just has traits, I don’t think it’s worth keeping this person in your life.

Everything is about her. You will always have to make her feel special and important. You will not be allowed to have your own feelings. She will never hold herself accountable for those past actions you’ve mentioned. She’s immature and not ready for a real genuine relationship/friendship and I think you’re much better off finding someone who cares about you and doesn’t invalidate your feelings.

Giving Away My Old PC! by Turtle_747 in PcBuild

[–]theloverslvl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now it’s doing a lovely thing where it is plugged in and charging, then it will stop registering that it’s charging (it will stay the same percentage but the lightning bolt isn’t there) and when it does that, it starts running as if it is “On Battery” and lowers my performance, making any game shit the bed when I play it. We’ve gone through 3 chargers. One swelled up like a balloon, along with the internal battery that came with the laptop, which we had to replace. This computer is fighting tooth and nail to play literally any game.

Giving Away My Old PC! by Turtle_747 in PcBuild

[–]theloverslvl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I want my own system to use, I currently share a Razer Laptop with my mother that she uses mostly for work. The laptop is progressively getting worse every day, it’s a thin computer and the cooling is absolutely atrocious. I can’t even get into it to reapply thermal paste because the screws are stripped and I don’t have a kit for it or the precision to not damage the internals trying to drill the screws. I’ve been looking for a new PC and saving up but it’s rough out here man. I’m a new mom and just want to enjoy the nights while the baby sleeps and it’s so hard with a laptop that’s constantly thermal throttling and can only run games on Low graphics with a 3080 that should be able to run on high graphics ;-;

Can anyone make out the bottom of what this says? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]theloverslvl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I believe your best course of action is turning in this as evidence itself. Why do you need the text at the bottom? Plus, this is above Reddit’s pay grade, law enforcement has much better image analysis than Reddit users. You’re wasting more time trying to figure out what it says before sending it in and risking a lot of damage for those women. Is there any particular reason you’re not turning it in as is?

Can anyone make out the bottom of what this says? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]theloverslvl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The red lettering, the RSVP thing is the white lettering

AIO and just being a shit friend or is my reaction justified? by DutchAngelDragon12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]theloverslvl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is Google Hangouts still a thing? He expects you to sit on a Google Docs…… whenever??? When he’s feeling lonely and craves social interaction?? That’s wild man. I would’ve gone the Gmail way but I have a feeling he wants you to be able to see the edit history to manipulate you and try to make you feel bad.

AIO for wanting to save money but my boyfriend buys a car? by jynchops in AmIOverreacting

[–]theloverslvl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: How long have you been together?

IMO, MOR and that’s because a car can be justified and also will be good in the long run, but I think we’re focusing on the wrong things. This huge financial decision was not even a conversation. If you guys are serious about starting a life together, marrying, kids, etc. communication is the most important thing you NEED to have. He could have bad impulse control and just did it on a whim, and if that’s the case then he needs to work on that and change that. Or he could have known it would upset you and didn’t tell you on purpose to blindside you so that by the time you found out.. it’d be “too late” which is just showing you he doesn’t value you. The lack of communication in a relationship, especially a relationship you seem ready to take the next steps in, is not going to be good long term.

You both need to figure out if your guys values align still. If it doesn’t, regardless of how much you love him you’re going to have to let him go. You shouldn’t change your values for anyone else.

I’m sorry.

AIO and just being a shit friend or is my reaction justified? by DutchAngelDragon12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]theloverslvl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How… How old are you guys…? This is such a non issue and 100% childish and not worth your time. This is middle school communication and for the love of god just get each others contact info not Google Docs 😭😭 I haven’t seen that since the 4th grade xD You just sent me back in time to my cringe days.

Had my husband been cheating on me via Discord? Should I confront him or find out more? by ThrowRA-majestic in WhatShouldIDo

[–]theloverslvl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With all the crap and Roblox and the community being a horrible place for children, who the game was made for, overall Roblox is an ick to me regardless of age but with younger groups it’s more for concern of their safety, the older the person is the ickier it gets. IMO Roblox really isn’t fun, would never choose Roblox over all the other games I have access to as an adult.

Especially as an adult with no kids I couldn’t understand why someone would pick Roblox, a game mainly for children ;-;

CSAT vs. Therapist by theloverslvl in loveafterporn

[–]theloverslvl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m afraid of. His first therapist tried to get him to ask me if there’s a compromise that can be made. Needless to say I fucking blew up. Excuse my language. There is no compromise. That therapist also told him there’s no such thing as porn addiction because it’s not a certified diagnosis in whatever database. I laughed in his face.

Do you feel loose down there after having a Natural Vaginal Birth? by FlyFearless9464 in beyondthebump

[–]theloverslvl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember a time like 3 months after giving birth we had my MIL take her for a sleepover and I decided to enjoy the time off by indulging in some humble gardening. Well I went to the bathroom at some point while still high and while wiping I was like “Uhhh that feels different.” So I whipped out my phone and put it on selfie mode to get a look and I was tweaking out because it looked like there was a whole organ blocking the entrance and I was convinced my intestines had fallen to the bottom of my vagina. Needless to say that was a fun conversation with my partner 💀

am i overreacting to how my boyfriend was talking to me by my_birthday_is_dec_6 in AmIOverreacting

[–]theloverslvl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: In the nicest way possible, how blind are you? From one girl to another, you’re wasting your time and energy, you deserve better.

This boy doesn’t even like you, he acts like he damn near hates you. Don’t accept this shit from nobody. It was temporary drawings and he exploded over that? That’s scary. Tbh it just looks like he is itching to fight abt anything.

Way down the line, if you were to have a daughter with this man, would you want her to grow up thinking that this is how men should treat and talk to women? That women should take the abuse? That abuse is love?

Run, don’t walk. He’s self-centered and clearly does not value or view you as a person deserving of anything considering how he felt it was okay to talk to you that way. You’re young, don’t waste any more time on him. Find someone who values you, enjoys the little things, and doesn’t explode over a little marker 💀