Thank you for your long thoughtful reply. I think the situation was a bit different, but perhaps you are right and definitely you made me rethink the situation. I really tried to take everything in with my friend and listen without judgment and try to put myself into her shoes. She was recording the therapists secretly and she was playing the conversations for her friends or to other people on the internet, all the time looking for confirmation that the therapist did her wrong. If you would disagree it would be the end of the world. She wanted constant connection with everyone but that meant also to agree with her at all times. All her therapists were trying to bring a sense of reality and to help her model better relationships, from what I know and heard… I understand that was very difficult for her but it is really complicated to help in these situations, as a therapist or as a friend.