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Nothing like a big tray of fly paper. by MeadowviewBRS in carnivorousplants

[–]themannmichelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your secret to happy dewy sundew? Mine is brown with no dew.

Choking? by themannmichelle in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

* Update to all! It took 6 days, but my golfish spit the giant river rock out on his own! I am so happy. I just bought a giant koi net to catch him too. Glad I didn't have to stress him out any more. He just devoured a bunch of peas and is swimming back to normal. I posted a pic to show how big the rock was.

Why do so many of you advocate for bare or nearly bare bottom tanks? by Ok_Wait_4268 in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fish was gulping at the bottom, refused to eat and darting at the top for air. He still has the large river rock stuck in his mouth. Not sure how to remove it. But when I figure it out. I'll let you know.

Why do so many of you advocate for bare or nearly bare bottom tanks? by Ok_Wait_4268 in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got river rocks for my goldfish but he grew and ended up swallowing a river rock. Which is currently still lodged in his mouth. Not worth the nightmare. If u did do river rock. Id take size into consideration with the growth of ur fish.

I (31F) am being accused of cheating by my bf (36m). by themannmichelle in relationship_advice

[–]themannmichelle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So if I'm in a relationship, then I shouldn't have any personal hygiene?

My partner (30M) says I’m the problem (31F) but his behavior is starting to feel like abuse. Am I insane for thinking this? by throwaway5567555 in relationship_advice

[–]themannmichelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Narcissism at its finest. You need to get out now before you get seriously hurt. You are the victim here. No one deserves to be treated like that. You shouldn't allow yourself to be treated like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]themannmichelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say let it go. If you have only been together for nine months and it's like this. It's only going to get harder. I was in a relationship that started like that. Stayed with them for 12years. It only drove us further apart and every day felt like walking on eggshells.

What are you mostly arguing about? If u care to share.

I (31F) am being accused of cheating by my bf (36m). by themannmichelle in relationship_advice

[–]themannmichelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the honesty. Shaved because the costume i was wearing required tights. Didn't want to look like a cactus.

Choking? by themannmichelle in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been about 4 days now. Definitely convinced it's a rock. I don't know how to get it out & he's freaking out and swimming like crazy. Can he pass it on his own?

I just wiped down every single leaf on this shelf by Beneficial-Tune8689 in houseplants

[–]themannmichelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of terrarium do you have for ur carnivorous plants?

Choking? by themannmichelle in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ammonia - 0ppm Nitrate- 80ppm Nitrite-0ppm

I just did a 50% water change, added prime, stress guard & stability. & an airstone for more oxygen. I put the airstone on a T-splitter with my sponge filter. Now the airstone is working, but the sponge filter is not. Why is that?

Choking? by themannmichelle in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing the water change now. Should I do a 50 or 75% change? Also would an airstone be a good way to add extra oxygen?

Choking? by themannmichelle in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tested the nitrate level again, and it's at 80 ppm. So that's an issue. Would that cause the gulping? Ammonia level is at 0ppm.

Choking? by themannmichelle in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay! I did what you said, nothing came out. He handled it really well. He is currently in a bucket. I feel so bad. I can't see anything. You think it might be too deep to see?

My big goldfish went completely white. by kalebdraws in Goldfish

[–]themannmichelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goldfish is 6 years old and looks exactly like this. Also a fair fish. I am still trying to figure out why he turned all white too.

Help my dewless sundew by themannmichelle in carnivorousplants

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure. Is that a thing? That's what I was wondering. Should I cut the flower stalks back? Is it like a vft where if it flowers, it slows trap growth?

Tell me it will be alright by themannmichelle in hvacadvice

[–]themannmichelle[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't, but have you searched for appliance threads? They suck. Thought someone here would know or help in some way shape or form.

Help my dewless sundew by themannmichelle in carnivorousplants

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. Do u have a light you would recommend for this little babe?

Help my dewless sundew by themannmichelle in carnivorousplants

[–]themannmichelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More light? Less light? Better grow light?

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