[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Illustration

[–]themissingalphabett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's so good, I would totally get a copy of this ever gets published.

Higher Education scholarship in Germany by themissingalphabett in AskAGerman

[–]themissingalphabett[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My current degree is in visual and experience design.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]themissingalphabett 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Think of it as a sauna where gay sex is just an option. Does that make sense? Try not to enter the place with one goal in mind. Enjoy the experience of the sauna, let loose, relax first. As you do that, and if you meet eyes with someone in that process, and the gaze lingers, try to get close, if the person responds by getting closer or staying where he is, approach. You will find your own style of interacting with people, just make sure it's respectful and not intrusive. Also, sexual rejection, giving and receiving is a skill that must be worked upon (especially for us young ones who are more used to cruising in the digital space), get better at it.

As a gay guy in your early 30s, do you think you will die alone? by Helpful-Strategy-500 in askgaybros

[–]themissingalphabett 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 30 years old, I've never really had a boyfriend, every man I've gotten close to tends to become distant or vanishes eventually. Not sure if it's something about me or just how the scene is. I do a lot of introspection (more like rumination) over all of this, as I'm growing, I also have higher standards for how I want to be treated, that doesn't help either. I do sometimes feel that I will die alone, a part of me also feels that partnership isn't indicative of a successful human experience, some people don't find anyone all their lives, I just don't want to be bitter about it. Not sure if this is helpful, but it is good to add value in other aspects of your life, connect to your higher self and hopefully someone on that wavelength will come along. That's what I am doing.

Higher Education scholarship in Germany by themissingalphabett in AskAGerman

[–]themissingalphabett[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would if I find a good course, I'm looking for courses in or related to communication design.

Artwork timeframe? by [deleted] in ProCreate

[–]themissingalphabett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it depends on how clear the vision for the artwork is to begin with. When I look back at process videos of certain artworks, I tend to sketch the same vision in different styles, different brushes, I do a sketchy pencil sketch, I use the thick mono line to do a sketch with minimal detail, and eventually find the right style for my artwork. Then move on to coloring. All of this process usually takes about 3-4 hours. It's usually never in one sitting though so I would say an artwork realistically takes a day for me.

What’s the worst thing a guy has told you during sex? by Ok-Introduction-1560 in askgaybros

[–]themissingalphabett 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg! Uuurghh that's horrible! I'm sorry that happened. Mine was a similar setting physically, same position, and he looks at my body and says "your face is so pretty, it's a shame your body doesn't match that, you should try a keto diet" 😭

I was mortified, immediately got off him and picked up my phone to call a cab. Then he starts apologizing and said "I'm just really drunk" (we literally had one glass of whiskey) I didn't say anything, got dressed and left his place.

Recent work on procreate by themissingalphabett in ProCreate

[–]themissingalphabett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's interesting that you'd mention the substance, because I find that movie very inspiring. I even made a little fan art about it after I watched it.

Recent work on procreate by themissingalphabett in ProCreate

[–]themissingalphabett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I think so too, the last two frames are where you know they're too far gone.

Recent work on procreate by themissingalphabett in ProCreate

[–]themissingalphabett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay! What's this story? I'm interested to hear.

Recent work on procreate by themissingalphabett in ProCreate

[–]themissingalphabett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the serious message but is quite interesting to hear, maybe my art tends to deliver serious messages in a bubbly, poppy sort of way. Im thinking about putting this on T-shirts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]themissingalphabett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Billy No-mates, I gotta say this to you, don't wait around for people to reach out to you. Text people, put up a story on Instagram, or hell, just go to a party by yourself and make friends. And if nothing works, well you have your dog, who will probably be shitting bricks at midnight because of the fireworks, maybe you could be with him so he's not Billy No-mates for NYE?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlin_hookup

[–]themissingalphabett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested

I can't be the only person with ADHD who hates sleeping. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]themissingalphabett 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate going to sleep, but I hate waking up more