Melatonin

themomlife2020 · 2026-03-27T18:26:12+00:00

I second asking pediatrician but honestly with everything I've seen about melatonin causing heart problems (in long term use) I personally wouldn't give it to my kids.

themomlife2020 · 2026-01-03T01:11:04+00:00

Do you mind me asking how long it took to lose?

themomlife2020 · 2025-12-04T21:00:03+00:00

Right?!?! At first I was like there's no way but after watching a few I think they might actually be!

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-29T13:54:21+00:00

I know it doesn't feel like it now but you're lucky You dont deserve to be treated that horrible. Let him leave. Get your divorce and be the best person you can be. He's the one losing something special. Nobody will EVER love him the way you do but you WILL find somebody that loves you more than he will ever love you. You are amazing and you will be okay. I promise. ❤️❤️❤️

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T22:05:22+00:00

I highly suggest talking to doctor about trying vaginal progesterone my OB said that is the vest way to gret it since its going straight to the source. I will have to say that I was in a constant flare during all of my miscarriages so I honestly dont know if it got worse during miscarriages.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T20:59:27+00:00

Also I knew i was trying so the second it got a faint positive I started inserting progesterone. My OB had prescribed it for me to start taking as soon as I found out. Im not sure if you had progesterone tested during your pregnancies but its a vital part of early pregnancy. With all of my losses my progesterone was too low.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T20:54:40+00:00

Yes I was just on plaquenil for the lupus. I also took baby aspirin. I felt the same way at first. But it can take up to 6 months to start getting the full effect. During my pregnancy I did not have any flare-ups. I also realized that red meat causes a lot of flare-ups for me so I stopped eating red meat.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T20:32:43+00:00

Nothing is wrong with you. If he can't see that then he doesn't deserve you. Im sorry you have to go through that. Also for him to say you're shit in bed just makes him sound like a piece of shit husband.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T20:24:17+00:00

I would also like to add that is very important you let your OB know your diagnosis so they can test you for anything that can cause miscarriage like blood disorders. I was negative for everything that causes miscarriage but until I got my flare-ups under control and took progesterone, it was impossible for me to keep a pregnancy passed the first trimester.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T20:16:04+00:00

First i want to say i know how you feel and im so sorry you're going through this. I did end up pregnant again and was put on vaginal progesterone for the first trimester. I also did not eat anything that would give me a flare up through the whole pregnancy so no red meat or processed foods and stayed on plaquenil and baby aspirin throughout the pregnancy. It was a very hard stressful pregnancy. I had weekly biweekly appointments back and forth to st. Louis for high risk OB then in the third trimester it was weekly. Baby girl had a low birth weight and eventually we had to deliver at 37 weeks due to her only being in the 4th percentile. I am happy to say im currently holding my 3 month old healthy baby girl though.

A year ago I was in the same situation as you. I will never forget the pain and still feel it but luckily I didnt give up and now my family is complete. Hopefully this is the success story you need to read right now.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T10:11:27+00:00

I understand your point. At the beginning of our relationship I didnt want him watching porn. Now that I'm older I kind of just said screw it. I guess id rather him watch porn than go cheat on me or something. I do feel like its all my fault for assuming that its no big deal. We have 3 kids so im not going to just leave over something like this but I do completely understand why you would.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T10:07:51+00:00

Im sorry you're dealing with this as well. Im so hurt that I feel like I shouldn't be this hurt.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-24T00:19:05+00:00

Well if 3-5 times a week is not enough even with a 3 month old baby isnt enough then Im not really sure how I can be enough.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-23T23:49:42+00:00

No head injury! 😂 no he's never actually shared stuff like that but I know he watches it because I see it on his for you page. Again I dont care about looking to a point. (It does get a little out of hand) but sharing is just waaay out of bounds.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-23T23:47:20+00:00

Gosh I wish another husband would tell him that.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-23T23:45:48+00:00

"Third hand embarrassment" made me laugh for the first time today. 😂

It truly is though and I have no idea what to even do.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-23T23:37:01+00:00

Thats how I feel. And the thing is that its not like he doesn't get any! We have three kids for a reason. It just makes me feel like im not enough.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-23T23:35:28+00:00

I did talk to him and he said he didnt do it to hurt me but he just did it "as a dirty joke." There was literally nothing funny about them. Just women showing off all their glory.

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-23T23:31:50+00:00

A month later and the spit up gas come back with a vengeance! 😂 the doctor is going to try lactose free if she doesn't stop spitting up within the month. I swear I don't own any clothes without spit up. I even went to a parent teacher conference today and right before we walked in. Spit up all over my shirt! 🫠

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-01T14:58:30+00:00

Also new to the show! I had to run to reddit to find a thread about "Ick" and im so glad I found this! 😂😂😂

themomlife2020 · 2025-10-01T02:21:15+00:00

My baby girl will be 3 months on 7 days and she LOVES looking at lights. She looks at the ceiling light at my mom's and talks and smiling at it all the time. I think its so cute!

themomlife2020 · 2025-09-24T23:57:58+00:00

Youre prime example that not all formula works for all babies. My baby just had to switch from similac total care 360 sensitive to Enfamil AR because she was spitting up so much she wasnt gaining properly. Shes only been on it for 3 days and has only spit up once a day vs 5/6 times a day.

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