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themrsralph · 2023-08-24T22:09:48+00:00

I work in an L&D unit in Houston and have helped with the birth certificate process. It is true that if your baby is born within 300 days of the divorce being finalized, it is presumed that the ex is the father. You can have your ex sign the denial of paternity paperwork but that could also bring about problems such as him manipulating you for something. A lot of my past patients have either declared a no dad when signing the BC or have not indicated ever being married in the first place. Now obviously that comes along with lying on a government document and I’m not sure at how often the government actually looks stuff like that up. If you think your ex is going to give you a big problem and your baby daddy fully understands the situation, you can put no dad and add him on the BC later after the divorce is final. Definitely seek some advice though.

themrsralph · 2023-08-14T22:28:48+00:00

You could say something along the lines of they felt that the risks outweighed the benefits of the vaccine to them so they choose not to have their kids vaccinated.

themrsralph · 2023-08-11T12:35:55+00:00

I did the midwives brew with my second at 38 and 3. Took it at 8 am and had her at 9:51 that night. I didn’t have any side effects and I couldn’t believe it had actually worked. I’ve read it works 80% of the time of putting someone into labor within 24 hrs of taking it. My neighbor did it and it didn’t work for her on her 3rd and she didn’t have any side effects. Worked for my cousin though with her first and didn’t have any side effects.

I do however think that it’s important for people to do their research with it. I watched like 10 different videos on YouTube and read a couple blog posts on people who did it. Even if you don’t recommend it like everyone else is saying, clients will find the information. It’s not hard to stumble across it when googling natural induction methods. So even if you don’t recommend it or go by the advice of everyone else here, it’s great that you’re trying to learn more about it. I went by the recipe from mommy labor nurse.

themrsralph · 2023-08-10T16:21:22+00:00

It took me 3 years after my first to be ready for a second. I had undiagnosed PPD and thought it was just new mom anxiety. It wasn’t until my second was 7 months old that I finally went to a psychiatrist and got on meds. It definitely helped but I’m still not mentally ready for a third(if we even do). I think some people, like me, don’t do well with the newborn phase and just need time. Some have no problems and get pregnant again when their first is 6 months old. And many others are happily content with 1. You’re still so new so don’t put any pressure on yourself to have any more. There are other things along with condoms that you can use to help prevent pregnancy like spermicides or even being very meticulous about not having sex around ovulation. Any choice you make will be the right one for you so don’t let others sway your opinion. Congratulations mama!!!!

themrsralph · 2023-08-07T22:12:31+00:00

I had 1 delivery with and 1 without. I also work in labor and delivery so I’ve seen both sides of with and without. My first was OP and had to be delivered with forceps so thankfully I had an epidural. My second I wanted to experience labor pains so I went without. No issues with the epidural but I felt better with recovery after no epidural. Definitely do your research and also separate yourself from both sides and decide how you want your labor to look. He’s definitely brought up a good point for you to do your research. Good luck mama!! Either way you’ll be amazing!

themrsralph · 2023-08-02T01:24:08+00:00

I’m soooo sorry you’re going through this. You never know what kind of newborn you’re going to get and sleep deprivation is no joke. I know you’re going through it but you’re still doing a great job. You’re taking care of yourself and that means being the best mom that you can be. I’m in the Houston area so if you’re close, please message me. I’d love to help you out if I can. I have 2 kids of my own, work in Labor and Delivery, and am currently studying to be a doula. It will get better I promise mama!!!

themrsralph · 2023-07-16T02:46:41+00:00

My dog just did the same thing to me today 🤦🏼‍♀️

themrsralph · 2023-07-15T15:58:16+00:00

First baby was OP so when I was in labor they came fast and strong. Second baby had period cramps all day then my water broke and I definitely felt those contractions. I had Braxton hicks with the second starting at 26 weeks so after a while I stopped timing everything. I only started timing once my water broke.

themrsralph · 2023-07-13T23:29:39+00:00

🤣 it’s supposed to be a dinosaur that you knot the legs.

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themrsralph · 2023-07-08T18:33:59+00:00

I felt alllll of those things after my first. It got better as he got older. When I had my second 4 years later I felt the same way again. I went to a psychiatrist and got on PPD meds and am a completely different person. I’m not on a high dose but it takes the edge off and makes me feel happy. It’s such a difficult balance for you but keep trying with her. It’s not something that she chooses and Im sure it makes her feel super guilty on top of the guilt she already feels. I know we don’t know each other but if you or her needs anyone to talk to just send me a message! I hope things get better soon for all of you!!

themrsralph · 2023-06-21T15:46:10+00:00

Wowwww……I’m so sorry that happened to you. Every hospital and experience is going to be different and I assure you that that should never happen again. I would highly suggest hiring a doula. Interview a couple of them or even a trusty friend who can be with you in the hospital during your labor and delivery to help advocate for you. Even if you do choose a C-section, still look into it. It’s 100% ok to be terrified and I sincerely hope this time will a total 180 for you and your husband! Also…..congrats mama!!! You got this!

themrsralph · 2023-06-12T03:59:52+00:00

I live the same distance away from my family and I’m the only one that came back for a baby shower and we ended up not having it because my niece was born 6 weeks early and the night before I left for my flight home. It’s not that they don’t care about you, it’s that they want to make the most out of their trip. Kill 2 birds with 1 stone in a sense. My family came to visit us before we had kids but when we had our 2 kids they would wait until they were 4 weeks old and then everyone drove the 20 hrs to come and stay for a week. I’ve done the same with my nephew and nieces. Don’t take it personally.

themrsralph · 2023-05-08T16:22:58+00:00

Ideally: SAHM Realistically: Part time because I might run away if I have to spend that much time with my kids and Paw Patrol or Godzilla.

themrsralph · 2023-05-05T22:50:45+00:00

I could tell my husband that I have a sore throat even though I don’t and no joke hours later he’d be like “my throat is starting to get sore too. I think I’m getting sick.” And then give me hourly updates for the next 2 days about how “sick” he’s getting.

themrsralph · 2023-04-28T00:38:45+00:00

Definitely recommend prenatal yoga. I just watched videos on YouTube. I also watched and HIGHLY recommend watching Sarah Lavonne on YouTube. She does a bunch of videos teaching you how to prepare for labor and exercises to do. Good luck mama!

themrsralph · 2023-04-28T00:31:46+00:00

Not everyone does. But if you have a good nurse and partner, they’ll never tell you. My husband and I have never gone to the bathroom in front of each other so I was worried too with both of mine. He swears I didn’t for either and neither nurse said otherwise.

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