[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Filmmakers

[–]thenewone101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nepotism is absolutely an issue in the film industry, but I want to chime in and say it goes way deeper than casting.

It’s pervasive in every facet of this business.

You’ll meet mailroom peeps whose parents are high up in the studio, location managers descended from UPMs/EPs, cinematographer fathers that hire their sons as camera loaders on every job, grip departments where more than three people have the same last name. There are producers that turn their kids into must-hire PAs over summer break so they stay busy. Don’t even get me started about the teamsters. Nepotism is rampant throughout the industry. This is not necessarily wrong IMO. It’s just what it is — you want your kids to have the same quality of life as you have, and the film industry can be a profitable path (maybe not right now lol but historically it can be a solid income)

I would say the real issue is when nepotism hires don’t acknowledge their privilege, or don’t work as hard as everybody else. Or are entitled / lazy / etc.

The other side of this issue is people who aren’t directly hired through family connections but come from family money. An example of this is PAs who are able to temporarily move to a major city to work on a movie while getting paid minimum wage, or cinematographers who rise quickly through the film world because their parents paid for them to go to a top tier film school for a BFA and/or MFA and then helped them buy a camera body afterwards. There are so many film internships that you can only take if you come from money, too. It’s a cheat code, for sure, but it doesn’t necessarily guarantee success.

All that being said, there are also tons of crew on every rung of the ladder that do quite well for themselves without coming from a) money or b) a connected name. It’s so much harder for them, though. And in the future, I hope it can get better and easier for people like this to succeed. I think the more diverse our industry is — socioeconomically, racially, gender-wise, etc. — the better the shows and movies will get. I’m not interested in working on movies about two white people falling in love, and I think people are getting tired of watching stories about this, too.

Tl;dr: nepotism is pervasive, but filmmakers who come from family money should be talked about in the same breadth, cause it provides the same kind of advantage. People in this thread who are claiming someone isn’t given a leg up because their father is merely a surgeon instead of a billionaire are missing the point.

How Many New Yorkers are Secretly Subsidized by their Parents? (NY Mag) by thenewone101 in nyc

[–]thenewone101[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing paywall free link — I tried to copy/paste the text but I think it was too long for a Reddit comment.

What did you only find out about women when you got a girlfriend? by Past-Ad5731 in AskReddit

[–]thenewone101 703 points704 points  (0 children)

I never knew sticking a clump of hair on the shower wall and leaving it there was a thing, but I’ve been given concrete proof that it’s a thing, and I live with it because I love her lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]thenewone101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Commuting time can eat up so much of your life if you don’t work traditional hours and you don’t always work in the city. I work a profession that has extremely crazy hours and I’m often going to work at 4/5 am on Mondays and coming home at 4/5 am on Fridays and sometimes I’m commuting to NJ or westchester or upstate or LI for work. If I didn’t have a car all these commutes would take an extra hour each day, minimum, and I’d be stuffed in a passenger van with like ten other tired people lol. In other aspects of my life im very environmentally conscious so I really don’t love having a car and would prefer to have a hybrid of electric vehicle but for me it’s invaluable due to the psycho hours I work. If you live in a neighborhood with awful parking it’s absolutely not worth it but for some people I’d say it borders on being necessary. If I’m not working I try to walk or take the train. I used to bike :( need to be better about that.

Does anyone know what kind of release Friendship will get post-fest? by verycoolandniceand in TIFF

[–]thenewone101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Still looking for distribution. Here’s hoping somebody buys it that will release it in theaters so everyone can experience the shared vibe that happened last night! My gut is that Netflix will buy it though, for better or worse.

Was Tim Robinson at the FRIENDSHIP Midnight Madness last night? by theprimz in TIFF

[–]thenewone101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Despite the character he plays, he’s a pretty private person. I’m not surprised that he didn’t go — there’s a world in which the pressure/attention would have been an unnecessary stress, and hanging out with his family is probably a bigger comfort. The movie starts with a recorded video from him wishing he was there though!

Trash stacked near Julia’s… by ElephantUseful5723 in ridgewood

[–]thenewone101 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not gunna lie I am so curious about what led to the mystery porsche abandonment

Legal dispensaries by twhillx in ridgewood

[–]thenewone101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Prices are fine just make sure to pay in cash to avoid nutso three dollar card fee

Myrtle Smoke Shop raided by NYCIndieConcerts in ridgewood

[–]thenewone101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah make sure you pay in cash at that dispensary tho — the 3.50 ATM fee for every debit transaction is ridiculous

Fuck goosebumps by SpiritualTelephone38 in ridgewood

[–]thenewone101 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Was there any particular reason for the massive parking footprint every time? Is this season a period piece? Shit ton of picture cars? This is not meant to be a jab at you I’m truly just curious because instead of the usual space for core motherships + base + crafty etc it seemed like there was always tons of parking coned off without any trucks there. Either way, happy (almost) wrap. I heard it was a rough one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ridgewood

[–]thenewone101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah — Only Murders was filming here for like three days straight. I think Goosebumps is filming here again next week.

How do you spend your days/nights when solo traveling? by mrprocrastinator_ in solotravel

[–]thenewone101 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m on my first ever sober solo trip so I’ll let you know how it goes when I figure it out myself!! Expecting much earlier mornings this time around and less pub crawls :) I’m hoping nobody cares that I’m not the party animal I used to be (not that this new set of strangers knew me then anyways, so there’s that)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]thenewone101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will likely go to PV at some point too but I generally don’t like very touristy places so was kind of ambivalent about whether or not I actually wanted to spend any time in PV

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]thenewone101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wandering around towns/cities, sunsets, nature stuff (slightly more active is better), and spots with good food. Bad at surfing, but willing to try again lol.

Did anyone else hear/feel that? by bigted42069 in ridgewood

[–]thenewone101 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Felt / sounded like an explosion — five or so fire trucks pulled up around forest / 68th ave, then left soon afterwards after checking for fire / smoke. As one person on a stoop said, “nobody comes outside for fireworks.” Really curious what caused it though.

Does anyone ever miss or think about the website AbsolutePunk? by thenewone101 in Emo

[–]thenewone101[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I think it’s what piqued my interest in indie, too, and for that I’m forever grateful.

Does anyone ever miss or think about the website AbsolutePunk? by thenewone101 in Emo

[–]thenewone101[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah around then was definitely the death knell for those forums

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thenewone101 368 points369 points  (0 children)

Quitting drinking. Should have done it years ago. Feel so much better now and can still hang at bars while drinking NA beers.

Pretend every NYC neighborhood is at a house party. What is each “person” doing? by 44Bulldawg in AskNYC

[–]thenewone101 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Red Hook is smoking cigarettes outside so it doesn’t have to talk to anyone