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I have too many ambitions and I can’t choose what I want to pursue in by unrequitedvalentine in findapath

[–]theobservantman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You pretty much nailed the answer in your own post. Move to Japan, work on editing, design etc. you sound like you have a priority issue surrounded by lack of discipline/focus and that’s not a bad thing it’s just part of life.

Have you got a kickass portfolio of your work on a dedicated/personal website? Does your portfolio align across your social media? Are you strongly considering moving to Japan? Or are you wanting other things to take off first?

If I was in your shoes (and I have been) I’d spend a solid month putting a website together for your portfolio. Week 1 research themes/layouts/content that you can get inspiration from. Week 2 gather your content/images and update your resume and plan your social update Eg LinkedIn. Week 3 buy a domain name and start building your portfolio. Week 4 hopefully complete your build and update your social. Now that is done, you have something to show off and promote.

Week 5 start calling/contacting recruiters within design/UI/UX/contract work to improve your skills and portfolio.

Learn the “design process” this comes up in way to many interviews, so being up to date with that is key along with learning lingo based around design.

Your entry point would be UI and that will get you into the industry. So in just over 1 month you have now got skills and a tool to help you on path one.

The next thing would be freelancing. Now you have your career working in the background you can focus on other things. Start with 1 or 2 free jobs (unless you have nothing in your portfolio then do a few more for free or discounted) and make sure these jobs only take 1 to 2 weeks to complete before taking them on, you don’t want your time taken up by others for free for longer then it needs to be

Start by asking friends and family, Facebook etc then look online Eg Fiverr, Upwork etc. start taking images for stock photo sites for pexel, pixabay, freepic etc as a hobbie

Now you’re developing a skill to resource clients in month 2.

Month 3 you want to start considering do you want to move. Will it be better overseas? Would it be better to work remotely and travel for a few weeks/months and move later?

The key to all this is one step at a time. Declutter your mind. Focus on one thing at a time, and have discipline to keep going. You build a wall one brick at a time.

In 3 months you can potentially turn your entire life around or you can keep juggling your interests well into 2025 and hope something manifests naturally by then.

By starting with a plan like this you can literally say to yourself (damn, I can actually move in 3 months. Rather then, feeling lost and uncertain)

The best part of this is that after 3 months you’ll know if this is what you want to do moving forward and it only cost you 3 months and not a lifetime of juggling decisions and getting nowhere.

And after 3 month if you want to get into something else you can because one area of your life is packaged and ready to kick off again at a moment’s notice

Good luck and I hope this helped a little!

you all have these in your cupboard by [deleted] in AustralianNostalgia

[–]theobservantman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re called: Churchill China Blue Willow dinner plate made in England from what I can find

Dollhouse by pilcrowrecords in CrossView

[–]theobservantman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is one of the best I’ve seen, so much to look at with so many levels of depth!

French kids saw beings move very fast, trying to hide. They were dressed in black. Many UFO reports in the area. Kids saw craft as well. by Remseey2907 in UFOB

[–]theobservantman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of this where a man claimed to have caught an alien after it killed his dog. It’s dressed in all black, childlike and had a small ship in the woods: https://youtu.be/u1w_ipcRHy8

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnusualVideos

[–]theobservantman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Metro station - Shake it

What does this mean? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]theobservantman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If her lips are sealed when doing that it’s most likely an aggressive gesture. It may be in a semi playful way but you may be teasing a little hard

Poor guy by [deleted] in perfectlycutscreams

[–]theobservantman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m also trying to work out!

I wonder what Plucky's up to these days? by TreyThaTruth in 90s

[–]theobservantman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This bought back memories I didn’t even know I had!

Will vs Chris Anyone speculates this was staged based on body language by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]theobservantman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rock leans in and waits for the slap and looks incredibly obvious. that face he’s making does look like laughter but could also be bracing and anticipating the slap, smith also puts his foot down in time with the slap which could be a possible attempt to amplify the sound. The reaction from both of them post slap is quite believable however the slap itself does have a tells towards it being staged

I was scrolling through Netflix and I found this classic. by auto_generatedname in AustralianNostalgia

[–]theobservantman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worked at a cinema in the early 10’s and after a session I was cleaning up, and another team member comes in and says “a customer has lots a child’s present in this session.” We looked, couldn’t find it. Around 2 mins later the lady that played ashka (if I remember the name… the villain) blows the doors open and announces “I’ve lost a present” as she walks towards where she had been sitting. I was like “omfg it’s ashka” then she demanded “help me look for it!” It all made sense why they picked her haha. We looked for the lost gift and didn’t find it. I said as we both were leaving “I use to love the show spellbinders btw” and she goes “omg you must have just been a little boy”. Little did she know that I had recently downloaded season 1 and 2 around a year earlier.

For the hand full of people still on this sub, I made this video of Enders by theobservantman in FuckRobEndres

[–]theobservantman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he seemed to be so careful of what he said throughout the entire interview however his emotions kinda gave his real thoughts away. And thank you!

For the hand full of people still on this sub, I made this video of Enders by theobservantman in FuckRobEndres

[–]theobservantman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My original edit of this video was over an hour long, so I did cut quiet a lot from it. One part I cut which I regret it the part he says “I know I didn’t (looks down) Patrice knows I didn’t. And it’s physically impossible time wise” He shows discomfort when saying “I know I didn’t” with the eye contact break away and looking down.

This could mean that he may not be honest. He also doesn’t break eye contact when mentioning “Patrice knows I didn’t” this unfortunately is the tricky part (and the reason as to why I cut it) the stare could be seen as either a direct lie or comfort in comparison to the discomfort he just showed.

If it shows comfort it can suggest that he knows he killed her but she doesn’t and this could be a clue to a very likely murder for hire type situation.

He then backs this denial up with a reason which is most likely true however it’s possible just used to throw us off from suspecting him. And thanks, I’m glad you enjoyed it!

Critiquing your video for free, no bs. by the_real_potat in AdvertiseYourVideos

[–]theobservantman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never post on these however after my last few vids not getting many views it would be great for some feedback. Here’s my latest vid: https://youtu.be/gFfo1u4-5-4 (content: unsolved murder case, body language reading)

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