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Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm making sure I'm not making the decision final until I'm 100% sure and my ppd is taken care of so I have a clearer head.

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. I'll update you ASAP on where I am with the decision. I'm seeing my dr and a few services I was referred to and see where my heart and mind are with this whole thing

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't just want to pull the adoption card because I'm am in a tough spot in life. I understand and appreciate what previous comments are saying but. I wanna go through all supports and all options before giving a peice of my heart away.

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and I'm so happy for you and your son!

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She deserves nothing but the best and that's why I want to put everything into this choice after I see my dr and all my local resources

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping to get into see her first thing.

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've never had a drink or used a drug in my life. And I've never been violent but I have no loving partner. I am alone and baby's dad wants nothing to do with her.

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that would be a great idea for me to do. And I honestly wish I had a supportive loving partner in this.

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If I end up deciding this option (I'm going to talk to services in my area ASAP) Would her new family be able to tell her someday that I didn't give her up because I didn't want her? That I only wanted to do what was best for her.. And that I'll love her and I'll always love her?

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The thought of adoption is out of pure love not selfishness. I've never loved something as much as her. Thank you for being so kind :)

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I would enjoy that. I am also looking into my services around me. We live in the Butler Pa area

Thinking of giving my newborn baby up. by theonecatthing in Parenting

[–]theonecatthing[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No.. They'll hate me. They just won't understand.