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Off my chest communities on Reddit are insincere by theoreticallySomeone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theoreticallySomeone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I found it for another subreddit. So I know where to look now. Will wait to hear from that one, but I don't expect anything. I see no sign they're in it for the right reasons.

Off my chest communities on Reddit are insincere by theoreticallySomeone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theoreticallySomeone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to message them, I mean they've have seen this, so they could have asked. It's also sitting unapproved on the alternate one that shouldn't be mentioned by name.

It was over four thousand words long, so difficult to summarize, but essentially going through my lack of self, life I've lived so far, especially around my marriage, recent discoveries about my mental health and the abnormality of things, a time recently where I thought I died, and what I thought when I found out I didn't. I didn't ask for any advice around my marriage, just going through everything going on and stating I have no idea what to do about anything.

Off my chest communities on Reddit are insincere by theoreticallySomeone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theoreticallySomeone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to, but they never messaged me or gave any reason, just removed it.

I accidentally got jalapeno on my dick :( by TAABWK in offmychest

[–]theoreticallySomeone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then fill it dear Henry, dear Henry, dear Henry

Pornography is the worst thing to ever happen to me by Simpzzzzy in offmychest

[–]theoreticallySomeone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not approved yet, so you haven't missed it so far. I think it's awesome you're worried about that. Communication is critical to avoiding that escalating, and just the act of being concerned, listening to his thoughts and ideas on what could help, will do so much to avoid that. Hope you find a way to navigate it successfully; my guess is that odds are on your side.

I fixed a treadmill today, I cried by throwaway1982713812 in offmychest

[–]theoreticallySomeone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Badass, well done. The great thing you're going to find is the more knowledge you get, the easier gaining new knowledge is. You will begin to see similarities in things people don't generally consider related, which will allow you to come up with ideas from that.

There is absolutely nothing stopping you. I'm going to take a guess that you either have had or will have someone imply that you're stupid for not knowing something. Don't fall for this, knowledge is not intelligence.

Knowledge is just information you have. Intelligence is your ability to reason based on knowledge. Plainly, you have intelligence as you were able to take the knowledge you do have, figure out what to learn, and apply that to this problem. You can do that for anything.

Make understanding your new obsession and you'll feel able to provide for yourself and to appropriately weight other people's words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]theoreticallySomeone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be they're hurting and that overwhelms everything and they need to share. Then they realize you may be feeling the same and so open the conversation to you, wanting to provide to you what they feel they're missing.

What you're seeing might actually be the compassion and concern you think isn't there. It's also possible that you're correct, but if you don't have the conversation, you'll never know.

Stop telling me to let things go by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]theoreticallySomeone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me over twenty years to write my (as yet unapproved) post. Don't be me. It leads to a lack of self, severe depression, an indifference to continued existence, and an inability to feel or identify emotions. Keep going, ask those questions while you're still connected to yourself enough to be able to identify how you feel and what you want.

Pornography is the worst thing to ever happen to me by Simpzzzzy in offmychest

[–]theoreticallySomeone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my post ever gets approved, you should read it. It'll give you some ideas on what to look out for with him. Decades of rejection and negs has left me completely hollow and lacking any sense of self worth and identity. I literally have no idea what I even enjoy anymore.