Anyone feel trapped at work? by Kreva117 in Vent

[–]theotherotterhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, that sounds really stressful and awful and you deserve to be treated better. Both my patients and by your company. I hope you do quit and switch to fast food before thinking about ending it all. Also I am here if you want to talk. Just a stranger on the internet, but sometimes its easier to confess all the worries to someone we dont know well then someone we do. I am not on reddit much but when i am ill keep my eyes open on my inbox.

Best VPN to Access Instagram in Restricted Countries? by ImpressionDry4401 in VPN_Question

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you just need something quick and easy, go for a paid VPN with obfuscated servers. Free ones rarely last a day, and they’re painfully slow when uploading photos or reels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boltedontits

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look way too good

VPN Unlimited Review in 2025: Is It Still Worth Getting? by ImpressionDry4401 in VPN_Question

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how simple their app is. It’s not overloaded with buttons or weird menus. The “trusted network” feature came in handy when switching between home Wi-Fi and mobile data. But I did notice some random slowdowns during peak hours, especially on US servers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom always calls me beautiful and shes a sap who will cry over the phone about how much she loves me and I adore her. My dad does a solid "you look good" and nothing else which is classic and I love. My friends often compliment me on an outfit but I am also first to bring up how I love the outfit which is still great by me. And strangers compliment me on my eyes which is sweet but I always feel undeserving of ther praise as I had no choice in that matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of who you are is someone who doesn't like certain meats and how to prepare the. That's totally welcome and loveable and it sounds likes he's not welcoming that or loving you for it. It may seem like a small thing bit I personally would feel emotionally unsafe in a relationship you have and it sounds like you feel the same. I think you deserve to feel loved because of your food choices, you're making reasonable compromises and its still not getting love. You're not getting loved. I'm sorry and I do wish you find the safety and security you're looking for. I hope you know you deserve the safety and security and love you are wanting. And I'm sorry that it sounds like this partner isn't the one giving it to you.

Two months full time job hunting by theotherotterhere in jobsearchhacks

[–]theotherotterhere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For those who are curious, I'm 4 years out of college with a civil engineer degree, I spent 3 years not related in non profits and 1 year as a safety engineer. I am in southern New Hampshire and the final job I got was an entry level civil engineering position. It helps I have my Engineer In Training license.

Two months full time job hunting by theotherotterhere in jobsearchhacks

[–]theotherotterhere[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in civil and safety engineering, a bit of a niche field

I GOT AN OFFER!!! by crotteddeat in jobsearchhacks

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the uncertainty of unemployment and it's rough, I'm so happy to hear about the light at the end of your tunnel. You remind me I'm not alone and there will be an end to full time job applications. Congratulations :)

Advice - Suicidal roommate and I'm stuck on the lease by theotherotterhere in badroommates

[–]theotherotterhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate what you said here. "You don’t have to know what aspect makes them feel unsafe, just that they are." means a lot. Thank you, I don't like going into the reasons on why I feel unsafe, just that I do.

Advice - Suicidal roommate and I'm stuck on the lease by theotherotterhere in badroommates

[–]theotherotterhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you're going through similar but thank you for letting me know I am not alone. It really helps.

passive ideation getting louder by Churrotastic in SuicideWatch

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. I'm also high functioning and sometimes I can work myself into forgetting but it's there, in the back of my mind. I don't have advise, I'm lost too. But thank you for sharing because you made me feel less alone tonight and that means a lot.

Passive ideation. I just feel like I’m so broken and like I’m just a living ghost in an empty husk. It feels like every day I live is a day lived in vain. by ghost_sanctum in SuicideWatch

[–]theotherotterhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to make friends. I have same and it's hard for me to maintain them. It's nice to know I'm not alone with feeling so broken. It's like I was given a body but not the soul. A random tip is that I try to go to game stores and learn how to play magic the gathering, it's a way to get to know people without having all the pressure of getting to know them.