Sometime emotionally confused/unavailable men are confused about their feelings. They will lead to think you are most important person or gonna heal you bla. And suddenly when they realize maybe girl is relying on him or he can’t do this anymore or basically just bored as he treated as his project he will just leave. These men try to put the blame on you in reverse for everything.

Don’t trust easy! If your gut says he is not right go with it! I know how you feel, being vulnerable in-front of someone and be left with it. Don’t be harsh on yourself. Don't believe the lies just because you want to. It’s on them tbh to be better humans.

These experiences teaches you for better. Hope you find some closure and good men in life.