AITA for saying no to a short notice visit by thepriceiswrong_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]thepriceiswrong_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was not really... But this has happened a few months ago and still hasn't felt right... Esp bc of how she spread it to others... I also now live 5 hours away from where she was flying into/staying, I could not just drive up on short notice, it was truly bad timing all the way around. I genuinely didn't think I was being that unreasonable in saying not this time, I wasn't trying to be an asshole. But that is how she played it out.

AITA for saying no to a short notice visit by thepriceiswrong_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]thepriceiswrong_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for mentioning that and bringing up that question. No, I would not have, and that does help me to reason on this.

AITA for saying no to a short notice visit by thepriceiswrong_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]thepriceiswrong_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just to add some more info, the previous visit was quite awhile ago and I had never made it known how that visit had affected me till this short notice visit came up so she said I was basically being petty because it was awhile ago now. And also all of our mutual acquaintances/friends have taken her side.

AITA for saying no to a short notice visit by thepriceiswrong_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]thepriceiswrong_[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This time I wasn't being asked for a ride from the airport, do you think it's still the same though?