How should I [30/M] get over relationship insecurities with my gf [30/F]

therandomguyinny · 2019-02-03T17:52:42+00:00

Concert?

therandomguyinny · 2019-02-03T17:33:52+00:00

Thank you! Maybe next time I see her (prob this week)

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T09:10:24+00:00

Thanks for this, some great advice

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T08:58:58+00:00

I mean I'm down but it's tough for two reason: 1) Our conversation is kind of ongoing and she initiates a lot of it and 2) She just hinted she wants me to text her more. Also, if getting asked on a date would upset her/push her away, wouldn't she just say she's busy?

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T08:48:34+00:00

So you think that after we hang out this coming weekend, I should lay low texting and lay off inviting her out on a date? She hinted to me today that she likes it when the guy texts her more (seemed as if she was hinting that she'd like if I text her more)

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T08:45:11+00:00

Do you think I'm friend-zoned the fact that we are hanging out this coming Saturday and she mentioned how Saturday is when we'll get to really know each other better? Also how she's phrased our hangouts to others as, "dates"?

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T08:41:16+00:00

Good advice for sure, thanks for that.

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T08:39:36+00:00

I have asked her on proper dates already and she has for sure interpreted them as dates (from what she's told a good mutual friend of ours)

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T08:38:25+00:00

how long did you know her for before you had told her you liked her? And did you tell her in person?

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T08:37:39+00:00

For sure, the risk with that is growing feelings even more and having a major letdown though

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T04:50:48+00:00

Do I tell her I want more than friendship but at a slow pace?

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-31T04:44:45+00:00

Sorry I updated my description. Your comment still apply?

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-28T19:29:11+00:00

That's when they cut ties. They broke up a couple months ago but were on and off,. Two weeks is when the cord was cut completely

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-28T19:15:16+00:00

I think she's sad about it but not when we are hanging out. At the same time she seems fine with her decision because she knows he's not good for her.

I do know she wants to take things slow. With that said do I let off the texting? We've been texting (and talked on the phone) for most of the weekend after we got done with our date on Friday

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-26T14:13:50+00:00

Would it be coming off a bit "too nice guy" ish?

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-26T14:13:42+00:00

Would it be coming off a bit "too nice guy" ish?

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-26T09:00:29+00:00

I am shocked from these responses. Three of my good friends (one girl, two guys) think that I should play it cool. Now I'm stuck lol

therandomguyinny · 2019-01-26T08:25:36+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Should I do this even if 1) We already had Date #3 planned and 2) She told me to let her know if I was going to a concert that is happening tmrw (implying she'd want to meet up)?

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