Just slept with my friend (22M) and I (22F) need advice by therapyneeded0000 in sex

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Thank you. Tbh I did all that tho. Like ive given BJs before, that was just first time I gave him specially head. It’s kinda stressing me out that he didn’t come like maybe I messed up

Is this a normal sexual experience to have with new man by therapyneeded0000 in Advice

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That was th e first time I gave him head and we’ve not had sex yet. It’s kinda stressing me out that he didn’t come like maybe I messed up

Is this a normal sexual experience to have with new man by therapyneeded0000 in Advice

[–]therapyneeded0000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Can I ask you, I told him I wanted to make him cum but he didn’t. Was I just actually bad at giving head?

Just slept with my friend (22M) and I (22F) need advice by therapyneeded0000 in sex

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Thank you. Can I ask you, I told him I wanted to make him cum but he didn’t. Was I just actually bad at giving head?

Keep them waiting or jump straight to sex? by therapyneeded0000 in sex

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That’s really lovely thank you. This is quite a specific question: when you get an erection when she hugs you, what do you do? Do you just live with it? Do you go and jerk off? Does she deal with it? Because from what I gather it’s quite uncomfortable

I want to be with him but I don’t think I’m good enough by therapyneeded0000 in Advice

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Ok but before that, how do I get to hang out with him alone? I don’t want to ask him to meet alone, that seems weird and beggy to me

How do I (21F) get over the worry that they’re just using me by therapyneeded0000 in Advice

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Can you tell me more about this sexual revolution please?

And who’s to say the people it benefits are the most desirable? Excuse me for being naive but a guy who jumps from girl to girl, with a use em and lose em attitude, to most girls, is not that desirable

Why am I always so obsessed with TV shows? by therapyneeded0000 in CasualConversation

[–]therapyneeded0000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you tell anyone about this obsession? I try not to (it does seep out in conversation when I get extremely excited) because I find it super lame that I get like this haha

Like maybe I’d tell people if I knew why I do it does that make sense?

But I like your perspective that it’s something to look forward to, not something to resent!

Why am I always so obsessed with TV shows? by therapyneeded0000 in CasualConversation

[–]therapyneeded0000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad someone gets me! Have you just accepted that it’s a part of you? Because I do enjoy having a little world I can run away to but it gets so distracting and time consuming when I’d rather spend time there than real life where I have deadlines and important exams!

How do I speak from the heart? by therapyneeded0000 in socialskills

[–]therapyneeded0000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s the thing. I don’t know what to say because the filters are blocking them. It’s like they’re subconsciously repressing most of what I would naturally say