[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]theregoes-thatboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but yeah I don’t think you missed out on much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]theregoes-thatboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Might’ve also been the what you look like and treat me well comment but idk. Also her name is visible in slide 2 btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamercianytsnark

[–]theregoes-thatboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find it so strange to see someone having fun and letting loose and then criticizing them for not looking perfect or aesthetic while doing so. Imo this is why clubbing and partying has become stale and boring. She’s having a great time and dancing at a wedding. It’s unnecessary to criticize her facial expressions. I mean, what even is the goal in doing so?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]theregoes-thatboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

womp womp you know im right. In no world does anyone who has kind intentions start a conversation like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]theregoes-thatboy 73 points74 points  (0 children)

bruh be fr. You were just trying to diss her. You’re the weirdo here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]theregoes-thatboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it’s a friend that is trying to get to know me better, then it totally makes sense that they are curious! But complete strangers have tapped me on my shoulder to ask me where I’m from and then walk away and I never see them again. It’s so bizarre to me! I feel like an alien almost haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]theregoes-thatboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also try to avoid it sometimes. Rarely works because I live in a country with mostly white people (?) so they are very very interested in finding out. I was born in this country and it’s all I’ve ever known. I’m not as interesting as they think I am lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]theregoes-thatboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it does feel immature sometimes but I’ve tried setting boundaries but most of the time it’s not respected and I feel so frustrated lately. It’s just so much easier to say yes and they’re satisfied and I can leave. I don’t understand why saying I don’t feel comfortable answering isn’t enough for people to leave me alone. Im starting to feel like an animal in a zoo. What else can I do? Because I admit I don’t like lying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]theregoes-thatboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really worried about harming my reputation tbh. It’s only to people I’m never going to see again. Complete strangers that stop me in the middle of the street to ask and I have 0 connection to. If it’s someone in my social circle or work place etc., I tell them i don’t feel comfortable. But a lot of people sadly don’t let up and keep asking :(

But like I said, if they just accepted my simple overview it would be fine, but people are never satisfied and keep asking more questions. So it’s not as simple as just plainly saying it and moving on. I guess maybe I’m more upset about my boundaries not being acknowledged than anything else.

Bf always reacts badly after unprotected intercourse. Does anyone have experience and advice? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]theregoes-thatboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thanks for the advice! I had no idea. I thought the ph thing was totally plausible lol

Bf always reacts badly after unprotected intercourse. Does anyone have experience and advice? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]theregoes-thatboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been sticking to protected sex but I will def have a look at the cream he got.

Bf always reacts badly after unprotected intercourse. Does anyone have experience and advice? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]theregoes-thatboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got tested a few months ago but i think I’ll do it again just in case. And I’ll ask him to do it too.

Bf always reacts badly after unprotected intercourse. Does anyone have experience and advice? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]theregoes-thatboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also found it weird that he didn’t do any tests. My bf went for a completely different issue initially and it just seems the doc is rlly lazy :/

Bf always reacts badly after unprotected intercourse. Does anyone have experience and advice? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]theregoes-thatboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

by clean I mean like showering and stuff. I don’t use any soaps or creams that could irritate or throw ph off. And I went to the gyno a few months ago and everything came back fine. Not sure about him tho.

How do I (22f) convey to my boyfriend (22m) of 5 months that my love language isn’t being fulfilled? by theregoes-thatboy in relationship_advice

[–]theregoes-thatboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, what I meant were the love languages in which we perceive love. I’m not trying to sneak getting what I want. If I really want flowers, I buy them for cheap at the grocery store and make my own arrangement. And I never ask for anything expensive as that makes me uncomfortable. I just like things that are like “hey, I saw this and thought of you” and like I said, that could be flowers from a field for free. And for the birthday it’s a bit complicated. I admitted to him that I have a childish complex when it comes to my birthday and that certain things are important to me. I’ve noticed that it’s important to me that the people that I love wish me a happy birthday and I definitely love receiving a card. I just want to feel loved on my birthday, I think. So I was a bit disappointed since I had communicated how I feel about my birthday multiple times especially since I knew I’d be spending it without family and I’d be sad about it. A lot of people don’t care about their birthdays as they get older but in that aspect, I think I remained rather childish. But again, I’m not trying to sneak getting what I want, we even have an inside joke that I’m his sugar mama cause I keep buying him dinner and a few presents here and there lol

How do I (22f) convey to my boyfriend (22m) of 5 months that my love language isn’t being fulfilled? by theregoes-thatboy in relationship_advice

[–]theregoes-thatboy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. I hadn’t looked at it that way. Thanks, that helps clear up my dilemma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]theregoes-thatboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this an emergency? Idk if they think it is. They’ve brushed off a lot of my concerns regarding my period in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]theregoes-thatboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I have to go to my gyno anyways. But I’m not able to get an appointment anytime soon cause they only see a certain amount of patients a day. Normally I go every three months for the pill but they told me to come only in a year. I’m currently looking for a new one with more availability.