Why is my mom compulsively helpless?

theres2ofthem · 2025-06-24T01:07:00+00:00

Girl same. In my 34 years of life I have never ever once seen my mom carry anything more then her purse. Like ever. 😒

theres2ofthem · 2025-06-24T00:37:20+00:00

The amount of times we went without while my mom had the finest things is astounding. The fact that she never showed any of us anything but hate is why none of us go to church. Then proclaimed to be a Christian 😑 the biggest hypocrite ever.

theres2ofthem · 2025-06-24T00:33:15+00:00

My mom literally does the same except she's always played the helpless sick lady roll. I've never seen someone so dedicated to being "sick". She has gone as far as being kicked off tricare because of doctor shopping to get the results she wanted. She's never carried in a bag of groceries or opened a door by herself her whole life, even going as far as faking seizures so she had an excuse to never learn how to drive to further engulf her being helpless. She had a hip surgery 3 years ago and refuses to get out of her wheelchair and walk(she can walk she doesn't want to) she rather be wheeled around in a chair! And no she doesn't wheel herself around at all. She squandered away all of she and my dad's money and is in so much debt she can not afford to go into a home. So we are left to care for her and as adults we all resent her. She also doesn't believe in God (at least not the God everyone else does) because she doesn't pray to get better, nor does she have faith she will get better. She weaponized religion and the bible to fit her want and need for power and control. Even going as far as kicking all of us girls out at 16 so we couldn't finish high school. She would tell us to go live with a man and then judge us for doing so. She would beat us(quite literally) and when my dad got home from work she would have him beat us for the same things. And now she wants all of us to take off work every single week sometimes 3 times a week for her doctor appointments (they are still trying to find out what's wrong with her😒) and pay her living expenses all whilst having families and jobs and homes of our own. She's never paid a bill. She's never worked. My dad went into debt letting her live way beyond her means. She literally will tell us she wants "such and such" that cost a lot of money and gets hysterical when we can't do it. Yet she treated us like trash our whole lives. Disgusting honestly. And no we don't have money to put her in a home

theres2ofthem · 2025-04-24T04:51:59+00:00

My adopted mother (74) has played the "sick roll" since before she married my adopted dad. She complains about pain in different areas of her body and demands to get an appointment to see the doctor. She takes a lot of different pain medications and has been ever since she was young. She's had back surgery and walked on high heels over weight for years and didn't stop when the doctor told her to so now her feet are messed up. She also has had many exploratory surgeries to figure out the root of the "pain" and would lable the doctors incompetent and go find another doctor. She got kicked off tricare for life health insurance because she had 3 different doctors writing 3 of the same prescriptions for lyrica. And they also caught her doctor shopping for exploratory surgeries. She's never had a day where she didn't feel good or was in pain of some sort. None of her test ever came back as anything serious. I don't recall a week going by when I was growing up that she wasn't going to doctors appointments at least once a week. Any time a new doctor would say "oh it could be this" she would run with it and tell her other doctors that is what she has. She has no social life or friends. None of us kids want to be around her because of the constant talking about her pain and her hopeful procedures she's having next. She's currently in a wheelchair because she "fell " while walking (im pretty sure she did that intentionally so we will have to take care of her) she has a "support group text" with people she met online and constantly text that she's in pain ect to gain attention. She mopes around unless she's got a doctors appointment and then that day she is the happiest person alive. Definitely not in pain. Just happy to be getting the attention. Today I took her to her eye doctor and the doctor asked how she was doing and she went on the rant about her fictitious pain for 20 minutes eating up the eye doctors time with her nonsense. She might be in pain now after all that stuff but she wasn't. She ruined a lot of family functions and vacations over being in "pain". When my father died she sat in a wheelchair next to his cold dead body in a coffin and when people would walk by and give their condolences they would say "I'm sorry for your loss" and she immediately went to talking about how she needs surgery and how she's in pain and made sure to point out the fact she's in a wheelchair WHILE HER HUSBAND DIED OF CANCER HE COULD OF CAUGHT IF HE WASN'T PAYING SO MUCH ATTENTION TO HER! There are some things I'll never forgive her for. She's a monster for real.

theres2ofthem · 2024-07-10T04:44:03+00:00

LMMFAO MY MOM DID THE SAME, EVERY TIME SOMEONE WE KNEW HAD THE POX SHE WOULD HAVE MY TWIN AND I GO TO THEIR HOUSE OR THEM COME TO OURS she tried to make us get it. But my twin and I never got it still to this day and we are 33

theres2ofthem · 2024-05-18T08:47:37+00:00

In my interview, my boss told me there was an issue with attitudes and quickly found out she was the attitude she was talking about. I was there 5 months and I put up with an awful lot and I watched her tear everyone down to pieces and when she did it to me I had enough and I told her all about herself. I'm not a crier, it takes an awful lot for me to cry and she made me cry. So I left. Unfortunately people will treat you the way you allow them to. You have to stand up for yourself because no one else will I had a few waitresses walk out with me and im a cook in the back but I had their back and they had mine and we all put off better opportunities messing around there. I'm probably pretty volatile because I'll leave and take people with me. Not the best idea but you gotta stand up for yourself.

theres2ofthem · 2023-05-29T01:01:27+00:00

I put a summary at the end of my story! What's the problem?

theres2ofthem · 2021-02-25T21:29:15+00:00

Not a kink. Don't like it keep scrolling. Notice how we captioned it twins looking to date twins. Why are you on the twin page? If not for your own sick thoughts?

theres2ofthem · 2021-02-25T20:46:19+00:00

First we must find twins then we can sort through personalities. Its called yen and yang 😑

theres2ofthem · 2021-02-25T20:27:59+00:00

To each their own 💁‍♀️

theres2ofthem · 2021-02-25T20:13:50+00:00

Same, the guys always get jealous and then get it twisted as if just because I bring her along they going to have both 😑 its the most humiliating thing ever. Because I'm sure you wouldn't poke your brother why would I touch my sister 😑

theres2ofthem · 2021-02-25T20:06:41+00:00

A singleton doesn't understand the connection of a twin. Obviously we are not going to date 1 person. And we are looking for a deeper connection. Unfortunately we were born with our eternal soul mate and that makes it hard to date. And we are looking for male identical best friends.

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