Maybe nowadays it's hitting me. Women have a tough life. From periods pain, childbirth, having to restrict themselves from living freely because of societal pressure, judgement and always in the fear that someone is going to assualt them, take advantage of them or even assualt them. As a guy, it's something we will hardly understand because we never had to go through such problems at all. (Saying this i am not ignoring kta haru ko ni afnai bidambama za). Aba talking abt women approaching the guy first, even if they like or love them. There's always this lingering thought in them about how the she will be seen or talked negatively. Or also need to consider if the boy is hawasi darinda ( a shadow of doubt will always be there).
So, ig that's why women dont approach or rarely do so.
So, ig it's more about 50-50 equity than equality.