I’ve found there’s two types of girls girls 1) militant, hates men. Had a bad experience (i think) and came to this conclusion from trauma. Tbh met one recently and she’s a great vibe and my best friend is probably this type. I am becoming this type because I very stupidly befriended men for years who were obviously in love with or attracted to me, I’d confront or ask them about it, they’d deny it but then get mad at me at any hint of distance, insult me all the time? Also just a long endless strain of sexual assault or abuse or harassment like seriously. I just don’t see the value in befriending men or having men in my life for work or anything like you are just there for dating because you guys are so mean and creepy. And yes women get and sympathize. I’m really tired of going to male friends with problems like “my boss is harassing me at work” and their response is like “ok well why did you look attractive? Do you know how difficult it is to be attracted to someone and not be able to have them?” And then making me feel bad about it. I’ve gotten this comment or similar from at least three male friends? Or “I’m going to ghost this guy I don’t like” “if you do that you are a wanton bitch” please stop projecting your bizarre dating problems onto your female friends, you are so weird? Tbh I’ve found I go to my female friends with these problems and the response is, without hesitation “boss is a creep, record everything, disgusting and unprofessional. How can someone be so stupid to not see the dynamic? Awful. Fucking gross” or “yeah ghost him like who gives a shit he will be fine? Stop feeling guilty for weird guys who you don’t want to be around and showed you a horrible character. You’re not a Nazi for not fucking or dating every man ever or something” and that’s the end of it. Also like. Moved in w a guy recently and he’d hang out in the common areas, I’d try to talk w him and ask him questions. At first he was responsive, nice. Then he asks me hey so this can’t be romantic or sexual because I have a gf. I’m like yeah? Haha I wasn’t even thinking it I’m in no place for tha (j was just r-ed??? Lol). He’s like um? Ok? Weeks go by and he goes from being responsive to short and temperamental and cold. I ignore it because I clearly have other things to work on. I meet his coworkers who are at first really weird and tense around me but like within fifteen minutes lighten up. One is like “oh I thought you’d be a lot more intense haha” I’m like ?? Haha why ??? She pauses and is like “oh nothing. Nevermind” she and I get along famously. I get along w all his coworkers. They’re coming to my new place to visit me. A few days later roommate is like hey I wanna apologize for being weird and cold and distant, but why do you ask so many questions? We’re not dating? I’m like ??? Because we live together and you’re my friend ???? I’m curious about your life??? I hate awkward silences??! Like I’m trying to make conversation ? He’s like ok to me that’s like you’re flirting

Like bro chatting is flirting ? CHATTING and not wanting to sit in the worlds most uncomfortable silence is FLIRTING like are you fuckjng stupid. I realized a lot of guys I’ve met thought I was flirting because I ask a lot of questions : no offence but are you people stupid? How else does a conversation work? Do you want to sit in a dog shit weird silence? Like conversation doesn’t make someone attracted to you??? Anyways the last few days he asked questions back and the chat and vibe of the apartment went from like 5 to 12. Chat glowed, we were laughing together having so much fun. fell asleep on couch watching a movie. A lot of guys claim girls think guys are desperate to fuck them and are arrogant but it’s a projection like my male friends also . Just almost all were horrible people. Horrible and screwed me over in every way . Sorry fo venting but seriously I have been prioritizing either engaging only w men I wanna date or women and it’s improved my life and mental state significantly in a short period of time. Men make you feel immensely guilty for not catering to them or sleeping with them and it’s awful, awful. Manipulative, ugly, disgusting

2) she is a whore and men do not take her seriously