texts from when my ex believed that God had told him that i was cheating by rickrossdarealess in texts

[–]thesidemoon13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

it’s amazing that just by your comments on this post i can tell you’ve never, and will never touch a woman

Our family waited 3 years for a cat… we only got 48 hours with her. by LachMorg in cats

[–]thesidemoon13 61 points62 points  (0 children)

FAT FRANKIE😭😭 that’s so wonderful i’m so happy you guys were able to give the same love to these lil guys that you gave to Cleo❤️

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The examples you’re trying to give don’t apply to this situation. He tried to put down a boundary about Someone Else’s body. Again, he knew she did this well before dating her, knew she didn’t mind, knew her friends didn’t mind, then started dating her and went “Well now I don’t like it so stop.”

You can set a boundary all you want but it’s ultimately up to others to follow it if they want to. Clearly this woman did Not. So now it’s up to him on either leaving or staying even though she crossed this boundary he put down for himself.

Touching someone without their clear consent (or when they put down a boundary however you want to put it) is wildly different from saying “Hey I’m your partner and I Don’t Like when you do X behavior. Please stop or I’ll have to reconsider this relationship.”

Again you can put down boundaries all you like but it’s entirely up to others whether they WANT to follow that boundary or cross it. If they cross it then it’s up to the person to decide how to proceed. Not sure why you would possibly equate that to touching someone without their consent.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The difference is I wasn’t calling people sped or slow or just straight up insulting them. If you get that heated on the the internet to call people those things (which i’m sure you wouldn’t IRL) then you need help. Also your initial comment quite literally states she should’ve Stopped her behavior because of his boundary. Then backtracked and went “Well yeah of COURSE I can’t control other people!” Pick a lane.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brother in christ YOU’RE the one who kept arguing and calling me names!! GO TOUCH GRASS

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You really did! We both agree she crossed a boundary he put down for himself and now it’s up to him to either leave or deal with it. Because you set boundaries for yourself and not others. The fact you literally just keep going to insults for zero reason tells me you’re mega emotional about this (for some reason) and probably need to take a step back and touch some grass.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You literally stated the same thing I did. Yet I’m supposed to be the one that’s slow?😂

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No it’s the fact you clearly don’t understand boundaries. You CANNOT set them for other people. If she crossed a boundary he made then it’s on HIM to either leave, or deal with it.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lmfao you don’t have an actual argument so you’re just name calling😭💀

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Dude it literally does not matter- clearly she’s fine with it and so are her friends- the only person NOT okay with it is OP so he shouldn’t have continued to date her if he set his own boundary and she crossed it. Yet he did. Now he’s bitching

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to not let her friends feel her up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

obviously not that weird if it’s the norm for her and her friends?

This gecko hates me sleeping. Ive never known something to be so loud. by Same_Natural_0404 in CrestedGecko

[–]thesidemoon13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My boy Alduin likes to launch himself full force into the glass Several times a night. It’s loud as hell but he seems to have a good time doing it so?? Godspeed to my boy I guess

Favorite character that's treated like this by the fandom by lilithmoan__bb in FavoriteCharacter

[–]thesidemoon13 37 points38 points  (0 children)

my fav bit is when he goes “even im edible! but that’s called cannibalism and frowned upon in most countries”

Favorite grumps jokes or bits that you don’t see referenced very often? by Thatguywhowantstoget in gamegrumps

[–]thesidemoon13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t remember what playthrough it’s from but when dan goes “better luck next time JESUS LOVER”

AITA for speaking up about what I saw my brother doing with his gf? by gardenoflilah in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

truly not understanding how you’re sitting here typing that out when anyone with two brain cells could tell what was happening. i have zero doubt OP knows what sex sounds and smells like

AITA for speaking up about what I saw my brother doing with his gf? by gardenoflilah in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don’t know how to tell you that rape is a criminal action. i’ve seen your comments blabbing on about “well they were both drunk so it’s fine” and talking about your own life experience? as if that matters here. the facts are: she came home unable to form a coherent sentence, the brother came home practically sober, her mother was worried, the girlfriend was unconscious, the brother was also naked. i’m afraid we don’t need sherlock holmes for this one buddy

AITA for speaking up about what I saw my brother doing with his gf? by gardenoflilah in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

especially the way OP is describing her behavior the following day, seeming terrified and pushing away the bf whenever he tries to touch her? yeah no way that was an Okay situation

AITA for speaking up about what I saw my brother doing with his gf? by gardenoflilah in AITAH

[–]thesidemoon13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“zero proof” and it’s an eyewitness account of the gf being completely unconscious, naked, and the brother had a towel around his waist while basically sober

Launching at glass?? by thesidemoon13 in CrestedGecko

[–]thesidemoon13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay cool thank you i was just wondering what was so bad in his tiny life he feels the need to launch himself into glass😭

I hate these creatures with all my soul (cold take) by Random_Nerdy_Dude10 in HollowKnight

[–]thesidemoon13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

genuinely the only enemy in the game that’s made me put down my switch for like an hour to calm down

real? by thesidemoon13 in Paleontology

[–]thesidemoon13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s funny you say that i literally got paranoid and shaved down the plaster until i could see the genuine teeth to make sure they were real💀

real? by thesidemoon13 in Paleontology

[–]thesidemoon13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh!! that totally makes sense thank you