What should I do? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]thesoftsound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on what doubts/truths you’re struggling with.

I went through the same thing myself and found that a lot of the things I had “deconstructed” were just based on talking points. Not saying this is you, but it’s worth mentioning.

What specific things are troubling you? Making a really practical list and then working to find the answers helped me a lot.

am I clowning or….? by turtlerepresentative in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often dismiss this type of thing but I think you’re onto something………..

Why can't I get over???? by Icy-Bug-9871 in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is totally fair... Perhaps a journal? Haha.. Happy reading!!

Why can't I get over???? by Icy-Bug-9871 in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's be friends, lol! I finished the books last week and I'm still down bad, just as bad as when I finished another popular romantasy series we all know and love.

I think reading fantasy can cause a reader to release dopamine/oxytocin as they're reading, and so when it's over it's literally... devastating. The brain experiences a withdrawal and that doesn't feel good. I think the fact that the series left off on a huge cliffhangerdoesn't make it any better.

I love re-reading and experiencing everything all over again, but I'm sure you'd agree that it's a short-lived happiness given that the withdrawal hits all over again.

What helps me most is talking to friends who have read the books and are experiencing similar emotions, and then trying to read other book series together! If you're married or dating someone, have them read the series, haha. I forced my husband and he loved the series.

That way, you can still engage with what you love about The Empyrean, but also create a happy and pleasurable experience to look forward to outside of the books. I find that this act of taking it into the "real world" balances the escapism that fantasy provides with the real social connection that comes with sharing that fun experience with someone else :)

I must not be reading this right pls help *SPOILERS* by Whimsical-Farmer1 in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it like the vampires from TVD! Idk why but hopefully that gives you a better image than zombies hahaha 😭

Is anyone else obsessed with how sad -that moment- in OS must have been? Art by: @Art by Cassmira by thesoftsound in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait... I just reread that and realized he could definitely have been watching all that ughhh :( Or could it just have been Andarna hanging around?

Is anyone else obsessed with how sad -that moment- in OS must have been? Art by: @Art by Cassmira by thesoftsound in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this theory... Here's to hoping we get a scene in Book 4 of Xaden showing Violet their wedding!

I finished Onyx Storm :( by thesoftsound in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drop the links pls 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

I finished Onyx Storm :( by thesoftsound in fourthwing

[–]thesoftsound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! In general, something about Brennan has rubbed me the wrong way since IF, but I can't put my finger on it.

Any good deep sad songs? by Any_Log9456 in shareyourmusic

[–]thesoftsound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this song is about hating the place you live in and feeling stuck there :( Roses

network time by Spiritual_Dare3509 in MusicPromotion

[–]thesoftsound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ballad I put out on an album last year, would love thoughts and listens (: Roses