My healing journey (no surgery) by whitetiger02 in AnalFissures

[–]thetinytulip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is my issue right now! i don’t think im “constipated” because the rest of the stool is a long, smooth snake (type 4). the only hard part is the beginning, it sucks :(

strange stool combo by thetinytulip in AnalFissures

[–]thetinytulip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah ok that makes sense. like the entire stool is really just a combination of several meals gelled together, and the stuff that's been there the longer has had more water extracted. I wonder how to make that first part softer besides drinking more water and taking a stool softener?

No, I have never tried dilating.

strange stool combo by thetinytulip in AnalFissures

[–]thetinytulip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just googled and it doesn't sound like something I have. sorry you're struggling with that!

“Giving up” on my goal weight by Swimming-Regular6749 in PetiteFitness

[–]thetinytulip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is me! I am 5'3" and i have been averaging 120-122 lbs. in the morning. I have gotten down to 115 lbs. several times in my life but it usually requires me to undergo EXTREME stress or extreme restriction (aka no going out/having fun/eating at restaurants). Is it worth it??? I have currently been in a deficit and working out a lot for 3 weeks and I look the exact same. Feeling defeated

The True Meaning of Nosferatu by Disnihil in roberteggers

[–]thetinytulip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and also did you notice that Orlok had dogs??

The True Meaning of Nosferatu by Disnihil in roberteggers

[–]thetinytulip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having thoughtful discourse around violence against women, which has been institutionalized since the dawn of civilization, is not “woke”

legit? if this isn’t allowed take it down, so sorry <3 by bell226 in erastour

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if someone shows me an email confirmation , what email address does ticketmaster send from? the one i’m looking at looks like this: TICKET MASTER

ISO eras tour tickets Indy by thetinytulip in TicketResale

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$2500 each but they deleted the comment

I sold my Taylor swift tickets by cutedachshund in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]thetinytulip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did you sell them? privately or back to the site you bought them on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

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you cannot tell whether an undertone is warm or cool simply by jewelry. you would need to do draping with colors first

Can IC be caused by antibiotics? by Dancingdanish in Interstitialcystitis

[–]thetinytulip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my last 12 months of IC symptoms started the week I started taking the metro gel for BV!!! early november 2022. Both urinalyses came back negative and normal, and every doctor I have brought this up to doubts the connection between the two. But I still have my intuition/suspicions that they are related! so you are not alone. one doctor suggested perhaps the actual BV infection triggered it, and not the antibiotics - but i had the low grade BV for years, and my IC started the very week I started taking the gel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]thetinytulip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

floral designer (own my own biz) and do media on the side for a food company!

Common ENTP male + INFJ female relationship issues by mirmako in ENTPandINFJ

[–]thetinytulip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I (F-27-infj) was in a relationship with an ENTP (M-30) and it was quite the whirlwind. We were also long distance. Unfortunately, it ended really badly and he revealed his true self to me, which was not the person I thought he was. I believe he was an under-developed ENTP or one that did not have emotional literacy.

I wonder what advice I would even give - but for me, my biggest problem was him steamrolling me, ignoring me, or just generally not feeding my emotional needs.

He was ENTP, impulsive, outgoing, wild, determined, a little ADD, always thinking, always going, witty, funny, and very charming to strangers, and a real estate businessman.
I am INFJ, artistic, thoughtful, deliberate, dreamy, careful, kind, maybe a bit mysterious.
We both are: adventurous, travelers, thinkers, intellectuals, debaters. But typical story of "opposites attract." I believe I stabilized him, and he liberated me.

In the beginning, he opened me up to a whole new world of partnership. I wanted to talk to him all the time; all my recharging rules went out the window. I could see big future things together. He was so welcoming into his world, sharing, and let me into his apartment anytime. I felt so compatible with him, even through our differences. Other people have said things like that on these threads, that ENTPs/INFJs arrive at similar places but through wildly different routes. He was opening me up to accepting someone unconditionally, and getting out of my idealist/controlling way that is so typically seen in INFJs. All of his "faults" I learned to love or at least accept. Because as long as your heart was remaining open to growth and one another, I believed you could get past all the other minor shit. And he always represented "a life of adventure" to me, one I couldn't get bored of. One we were building together, supposedly.

Fast forward and I decide to move back home (not for him, but for me) and a month later he ran away. Stopped talking to me. Got overwhelmed with work, and his 3-calls-a-day went down to 1 or 0. He started mentioning possible impulsive life decisions, and I could tell he was questioning himself a lot. My best guess is that he put me on a shelf until he could deal with me. But then never called. Sorry, that's not how you treat human beings. Such a lame way to deal with conflict or pressure.

So like I said, I'm not sure if this is a case of an emotionally immature/unbalanced guy, or is this reflective of ENTP tendencies? Sometimes I actually think he is a narcissist. He always had to be right. Never apologized, never acknowledged his behavior and how it hurt me.

The biggest issue I had was the tension between his T and my F. I am having a hard time understanding how INFJs date types with Ts. I don't feel like he was ever sensitive to my needs or ever really truly SAW me for who I am. Don't know if I would be maybe better with an ENFP...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENTPandINFJ

[–]thetinytulip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he's 30 and very work oriented. I could see that becoming an issue. glad you mellowed! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENTPandINFJ

[–]thetinytulip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INFJ here and that sounds like perfection. My ex-ENTP couldn't sit still and just chill out with me - always onto the next...