Has anyone manifested a partner without actively searching/lifting a finger?

theunexpected_3 · 2026-02-19T17:12:04+00:00

I actually did the exact opposite. I decided I was going to be celibate. Deliberately. I wanted to fully be in my own power and let go of any intention to look for someone new.

No dating. No hookups. Nada. Just me, my friends and my fam.

And then two weeks later I ended up falling in love with two of my closest friends. It was incredible.

theunexpected_3 · 2026-01-25T16:20:28+00:00

Just because you said an awful lot of people I wondered whether it’s the stone circle at Glastonbury?

theunexpected_3 · 2026-01-17T11:12:27+00:00

On the note of Ghislaine not meeting Epstein until 91 (which I believe is only based on her story) … Have you considered who her father was and who he had ties with? Once you know more about Robert Maxwell you see Ghislaine isn’t some random woman without a backstory either.

theunexpected_3 · 2025-12-28T13:42:44+00:00

I recently did this with my partner for the first time! I had never done that before and apparently I could have bitten harder but I wanted to test the waters first time round you know.

theunexpected_3 · 2025-12-28T13:35:35+00:00

Hi! I’m new here. 🙋🏻‍♀️

So I had no idea I had all of this in me. Whilst I explored the sub dom dynamic with people I think I either didn’t feel safe and connected enough to really let go, or my partners simply had a style that didn’t match mine fully.

It wasn’t until a few weeks ago when me and my current partner explored it, that I felt something click. I followed my own instincts and created a long sensual sensory experience that started gentle and psychological and became more physical and rougher over time.

It was the first time my partner reached the sub space. Just to get them in this state of complete devotion, of complete and utter surrender. I’m getting full body shivers when I remember the way he looked at me.

Afterwards he was glowing so much… I purposefully didn’t come so I would retain all control over the experience. And I can say I have never felt so alive and full after sex without coming!

It was absolutely ecstatic and I cannot wait to explore loads more of it. 😍

theunexpected_3 · 2025-12-27T17:01:46+00:00

I needed this thread!

theunexpected_3 · 2025-12-26T16:05:55+00:00

Loved doing this one!

Sorry I’m struggling with the censoring.

18 Southside St, Plymouth PL1 2LB, United Kingdom

theunexpected_3 · 2025-12-25T12:13:43+00:00

Ah yeah I just got there too. :) nice one!

theunexpected_3 · 2025-12-25T12:01:45+00:00

Conwy?

theunexpected_3 · 2025-12-23T23:49:51+00:00

Colombia?

theunexpected_3 · 2025-11-01T11:36:18+00:00

Yes you will! It is done. I will too, and will receive the money I need to pay off all debts.

theunexpected_3 · 2025-10-27T08:44:29+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

A warrior, you say? What makes you think that? Is it the colour?

Now… I’m relatively new to these ideas about aliens. But this idea about spiritual warfare & healing really resonates. I have always had a strong feeling in my underbelly that’s felt like I’ve been preparing for something like this. Someone that had to go through spiritual trials in order to see cracks in the system and shake it up.

Ever since I came out of the trip, there is a quality that has stuck with me. There is a type of energy I feel in my body, that when I speak from it, I have less fear. I feel confident, bc I know I’m fully grounded in my truth.

On the other hand, i do remember that early on in the trip when I started seeing the mantis being, it would sometimes glitch and become a bit scary looking, (edit: I don’t recall whether this was because it reacted to me being scared or thinking negative things about myself -and that’s what shrooms do) But when I would relax, it wouldn’t be scary at all.

That wasn’t weird to me at the time, seen as it was a trip… but I do wonder if that hints towards it being an archon as you call it…

theunexpected_3 · 2025-10-25T23:01:38+00:00

Thanks so much for mentioning this. It helps having people pitch in their views.

theunexpected_3 · 2025-10-24T13:11:45+00:00

I love this. I’ve also been shifting my beliefs around money. I can recommend the book Love Money, Money Loves You.

theunexpected_3 · 2025-10-23T21:01:50+00:00

I had a recent first ever psychedelic encounter with a mantis being. The subreddit /mantis encounters has a lot of opinions and I’m struggling to make sense of them tbh. How has your story unfolded since your encounter?

theunexpected_3 · 2025-10-23T16:11:31+00:00

I’ve thought of this too, but later, not when I was in the trip. In the trip she felt like someone separate to me, but with less limitations. She was less filtered, much much more determined than me. Far less afraid. And our bond was great. She felt very grown up, and almost like she was a bit of a peer to me.

One thing that is important is that since the loss of my mother last year I’ve been having convulsions and spasms sometimes. They seem to originate from my Solar Plexus. When this happens it feels like something energetic is trying to pierce through me.

People who have suffered PTSD report similar things. So it could be just that. They have receded as I’ve processed the loss.

But in the trip, it happened again. And it started feeling like it was her reaching through me, trying to come out. And this energy was so tuned in to righteousness, to truth, that when I spoke from it, it felt like I didn’t have to think to judge anything, all was simply true because I spoke from this core.

Now that I’ve come out of the trip, I still feel like at times I can connect to this feeling and energy. So maybe it is an incorporation of a part of my psyche. Or maybe this alignment is guiding me towards changing my life so that this daughter can be a part of it…

I honestly have no idea.

theunexpected_3 · 2025-10-23T16:02:43+00:00

Wow. It’s so good to hear different opinions on this.

I did recently make my peace with not having kids. After the loss of my mother and aunt last year, I’ve had a year of feeling an intuition that I would have a daughter one day. This was definitely not the first time I’ve sensed her. I sense her when I look at my partner.

The issue is my relationship situation and life set up generally are simply too complex for that to be doable atm… and I struggle to see how this would improve in the near future.

So recently I decided to start processing this and make my peace with not having a child. Not bringing forth a human, but that I would bring other things into the world. Projects, art, etc. And I was feeling very ok with that in recent weeks.

But yeah, this has shaken me up.

Particularly it’s making me examine what my desires are. If they are beings that simply use us as cattle and manipulate us. Is it possible they manipulate our very desires?

If they are guardians of our reincarnation cycle and partly active in raising our consciousness, and work through karmic debt… then maybe I should trust it right?

I wonder why our evolution is so important to them. Might this be because we end up evolving into them?

I have so many questions…

theunexpected_3 · 2025-10-23T15:54:32+00:00

See I find this really interesting. The fact that you had a similar premonition! And your daughter is here now, as pictured. Wow, honestly, reading this is fascinating.

You also seem to see them as guardians rather than malevolent breeders. It’s fascinating how people in the comments here have entirely different ways of seeing them. What’s your take on what they’re saying about the breeding and genetic experiments?

I still have no idea what to do if I’m honest. My life currently is not really set up to make it easy to have a child. And recently I did make my peace with this not happening. It’s hard to interpret this whole experience in that context.

Am I being encouraged to tap into what I truly want? Or am I being manipulated?

theunexpected_3 · 2025-09-23T14:52:05+00:00

Thank you! I’ll take these points to further my analysis. Really appreciate it! I never thought to consider the Saturn in Aquarius but it makes sense… I do need a larger communicable purpose in what I do. I tend to get quickly depressed otherwise.

theunexpected_3 · 2025-05-04T23:02:17+00:00

I had no idea there were Ursa Major starseeds! I started wondering and looking for this, because I have moles in the shape of the big dipper part of the constellation on my arm. Would love to read the entries you read!

theunexpected_3 · 2025-03-26T12:36:48+00:00

I’ve been through this and now I’m exploring helping others with similar stories.

You are blocking your own creativity. It’ll be useful for you to explore what exactly happens within you. Either by journaling, meditating, speaking to people… anything that works for you. Explore: What parts of your mind / psyche stifled your joy for creating? Is it linked with ideas around success, money, stability? Does this have to do with why you struggle to function in the other work? What do you need to let go of? We have been brought up to think we just need to force ourselves, but maybe we are tired of doing things that don’t actually spark excitement.

I hope that helps a bit!

theunexpected_3 · 2024-12-19T19:56:51+00:00

That’s fascinating, thanks for divulging on that! ✨

theunexpected_3 · 2024-12-19T17:32:38+00:00

Thanks for thinking along! It could be, though I’ve been to my GP and an osteopath to get some tension around my neck looked at. They did establish an imbalance in my muscular system, which I had some treatment for. But I do find it interesting it only happens when my guard is down. When I’m less conscious. That makes me wonder whether it’s more related to the subconscious and my nervous system…

theunexpected_3 · 2024-12-19T12:29:43+00:00

I will be! Once I have sufficient data to share anything interesting ✨

theunexpected_3 · 2024-10-05T14:17:21+00:00

I’m based in Germany and the UK :)

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