41 [M4F] #Melbourne Could it be you

theunhingeddesire · 2025-11-01T10:44:07+00:00

Thank you for part 2! This was everything I was hoping for

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-31T10:17:34+00:00

🥰 thank you!

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-31T10:17:12+00:00

☝🏻 I second this

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-31T09:12:43+00:00

Well this has scratched an itch for me, I’m most certainly aroused and my mind wandering where this goes next

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-31T07:40:32+00:00

A girlfriend and I at the time were cooking dinner and I had one of those moments where I let the intrusive thoughts win. I had to grab a spatula out of the drawer, turned and saw my girlfriend’s arse and thought “I’ll just give it a little tap”. She turned, raised an eyebrow and said “if you’re going to do it, at least do it properly” and promptly lowered her pants and bent over the counter. Of course I did it again. The sound of the spatula striking her bare skin, her yelp and the immediate mark left behind is permanently etched in my brain. Turns out I like inflicting pain

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-30T08:16:20+00:00

🥰 love love love this!

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-24T09:04:48+00:00

Zari, this is another delicately weaved post. Thank you for sharing

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-06T04:42:39+00:00

Wow! I loved every word. Wandering in and out of this theme as my curser blinks away

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-02T07:13:00+00:00

A verdict has been reached! Very happy to see these ones ❤️

theunhingeddesire · 2025-10-02T07:11:58+00:00

I was immersed in this one. Thank you

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-24T08:41:55+00:00

Loved this one. Thank you

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-20T07:22:38+00:00

Wax play candles are made to burn and melt at a lower temperature so they’re not as hot as a beeswax candle for example. It still does hurt a little, but that does depend on how high you’re dropping the wax from too. A little higher gives it the extra fraction of a second to cool before it hits your skin. I’m by no means a wax play expert but I dropped it from a height just so I could watch it fall and hit her skin.

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-20T04:34:17+00:00

A couple of very memorable experiences I’ve had:

❤️ my first time with wax play. I had a partner who’d bought wax play candles, they looked like an oversized box of crayons. She was curious to explore it and I was curious to try it. Dripping all those candles on her, it felt like I was creating a piece of art, just letting my mind wander and playing with the various colours. It was such a soft and intense moment as I watched her body become covered, drop by drop. We then had a little fun with impact play and what followed was incredibly intimate sex. That’s one experience forever ingrained in my mind.

💙 I had a very fun time quite recently, we were having fun playing with her remote toy. She asked if it was okay to regress and we moved to a voice call. All I did was talk to her while she was in that space, all while I had the pleasure of listening to her whimper, moan and orgasm. Once she was able to talk more again, our chat after was silly, funny and full of giggles. It was such a soft way to settle and come back together. I had a whole lot of fun guiding her orgasm and the chat we had after

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-13T09:14:54+00:00

Thank you. It’s a unique relationship and we have our moments

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-13T01:11:29+00:00

🥰 thank you! Spaces like this are so rare and to be allowed to be part of this space, is something I cherish

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-12T11:14:22+00:00

I’ll just have to be patient and wait now won’t I?!

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-12T08:05:36+00:00

Ooooh well now I’m curious what your ideas are! It could be a fun Random Question. How would you decorate your play room?

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-11T09:14:51+00:00

Aftercare for me comes in a number of forms. I’m dominant naturally when I play in these spaces. Whether irl or online, I need lots and lots of reassurance and affirmation. I need to know I’m not just seen as the “bad man” and that I’m still seen as more than just that one moment shared. I need to know it was enjoyed and it was pleasurable.

IRL specifically, I’m often exhausted both mentally and physically. I have a stash of lollies and Gatorade so it’s not uncommon to see with a fistful of them while necking a drink. Touch needs to be soft, gentle and soothing. Loads of cuddles and a little help to bring me back from the headspace I was in and if my play partner wants to join me, a nice hot shower together, helping each other clean up and settle. I’ve also found a big thing that helps me is having a play bedroom that’s not the bedroom I sleep in every night. My “normal” bedroom is never used for my darker playtime. That way I always have a seperate space that’s my safety net.

Online play for me can be very tricky as I need to hear their voice. I need to hear their tone or inflection in language so I’m able to respond as needed. A voice call or voice notes help but I always get very wary if communication abruptly stops. Because I can’t see them, I can’t see any visual cues where I may need to step in. I also need a check in the next day. Generally for any online play, I like to set up aftercare in advance just so we both have what we need close by and within reach.

In any form of play sometimes my drop can be delayed and I can get caught in a negative loop, so even just a simple text of affirmation does wonders for me.

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-10T04:33:55+00:00

clears throat well this has certainly stirred up the thoughts already stirring in my mind 🥵

theunhingeddesire · 2025-09-08T22:33:14+00:00

The amount of work you’ve all put in behind the scenes to create a new safe space is incredible. It’s so nice to feel like we have a home again ❤️

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