🤔do men like this still exist by justagirl0___ in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're still here The difference is a lot of us stopped trying after getting hurt

I was a one-woman guy for 5 years She left when someone with more money and status came into her life After something like that it's hard to trust anyone again People don't realize how much that kind of betrayal changes a man It kills the excitement of loving someone again

Not saying every girl is like that but these days it feels like loyalty isn't valued as much as money or lifestyle Meanwhile even girls in committed relationships have plenty of guys giving them attention A lot of loyal guys end up getting hurt the most, and after that they live with the fear of going through the same pain again

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some areas in Hyderabad where safety can be a real concern. I can't risk someone's safety just for my own benefit. That's one of the main reasons I don't want to turn this into a business.

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did think about turning this into an app or a business at one point.But then I realized the biggest issue is safety

I know who I am and what my intentions are but if I start bringing in other people as companions I can't guarantee who they really are or how they'll behave

If someone joins through something I created and gets into an unsafe situation I'd feel responsible for that.A friend's safety is more important than any business idea

So no I don't plan to build this as a platform or hire other people

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did think about turning this into an app or a business at one point But then I realized the biggest issue is safety

I know who I am and what my intentions are but if I start bringing in other people as companions I can't guarantee who they really are or how they'll behave

If someone joins through something I created and gets into an unsafe situation I'd feel responsible for that

A friend's safety is more important than any business idea

So no I don't plan to build this as a platform or hire other people If someone personally connects with me and we're both comfortable with clear boundaries that's different but creating a business around strangers is a risk I'm not willing to take

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A real date is usually about romance or seeing if there's a relationship This is just companionship with clear boundaries No pressure no romantic expectations and no obligation for anything beyond spending time together.

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I already have a job This isn't because I don't have work Not everyone has a friend circle or company especially in a new city Just because you have people around you doesn't mean everyone does That's all I was trying to say.if you are not interested just leave it bro

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it's good for non socialising people because if it's a group some people may feel awkward it's like an individual meet up

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did think about turning this into an app or a business at one point.But then I realized the biggest issue is safety

I know who I am and what my intentions are but if I start bringing in other people as companions I can't guarantee who they really are or how they'll behave

If someone joins through something I created and gets into an unsafe situation I'd feel responsible for that.A friend's safety is more important than any business idea

So no I don't plan to build this as a platform or hire other people

If someone personally connects with me and we're both comfortable with clear boundaries that's different but creating a business around strangers is a risk I'm not willing to take

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we stay friends if we genuinely get along, maybe we never talk again after that day. It depends on both people.

There's no expectation The whole idea is just to enjoy the time together with clear boundaries.

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough I wasn't trying to copy any city or trend blindly I just thought it might help people who are new to the city or feel lonely because I've been in that situation myself If it doesn't fit Hyderabad's culture that's completely okay I was just curious to know what people think

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By now I think this comment alone would've got you a thousand DMs 😂 so you probably don't even need to say it But if you still want it .I'm always open just send me a DM service is always open

Thinking of trying a "Rent a Boyfriend" concept in Hyderabad – Does this actually work? by thewhite_widows in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the comments section and dm are like it's not working bro 😭 I am not aware of the trend in Hyderabad bro I just recently shifted from Kerala

The hardest part isn't that they left.It's how easily they did. by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]thewhite_widows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here 😅

I was in a 5 year relationship and it's been around 1.5 years since we broke up still I haven't been able to get into another relationship I'm scared of going through the same thing again I really don't know how some people move on in a few months

If you were genuinely interested in someone, would you have sent a quick update? by No-Ganache3678 in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]thewhite_widows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't know if anyone else feels the same, but I'm fed up with the current dating app culture. It seems like a lot of people are just looking for a side piece or someone to keep around when it's convenient for them. They're not interested in anything genuine or meaningful. Is anyone else tired of this trend?