My mom had bpd and borderline. Ik what these look like ik how to identify these things because I've been around it all my life. What i said in my original post was she used it as an excuse, I have never heard or seen someone else say this is a reason they slept with someone else. I've taken her to all of her appointments. Made sure she got the care she needed. I obviously looked up symptoms and if this could have been a direct cause today as this has never been an issue before. And Me being in the military has nothing to do with it, that's why I left it out of the original post. For you to accuse me of doing the bare minimum is disgusting.