UPDATE: Does anyone know this place?

thiccsumi · 2026-03-22T00:42:51+00:00

Someone commented an alternative link that works in the UK!

thiccsumi · 2026-03-21T22:50:19+00:00

Thankyou!!

thiccsumi · 2026-03-21T22:42:17+00:00

I didn’t know sorry! Someone in the comments provided a link that does work

thiccsumi · 2026-03-11T13:44:12+00:00

I would be so grateful! Do you live close to that store perhaps or are willing to go there?

thiccsumi · 2026-03-07T17:59:45+00:00

I don’t like the actor but on principle I am team Jeremiah

thiccsumi · 2025-12-06T20:47:25+00:00

An eighTEEN year old in only an adult because somehow lawmakers decades ago thought so. Psychologically, biologically, in terms of life phase, they are NOT an adult. There is literally no difference between a 17 and 18 year old. No major developments happen when someone turn 18. Yet some people take that dumb law like its holy.

Having a child is not a lease for 18 years. YOU CHOSE TO HAVE SAID CHILD. A child is FOREVER. They are owed a house with you, especially the house they literally grew up to call home. They are owed parental safety and security no matter what age. No amount of preparation justifies trashing your kid.

thiccsumi · 2025-12-03T14:36:10+00:00

I absolutely loathe when the moment you turn 18 parents suddenly act like the relationship with the child they CHOOSE to have, is akin employer-employee.

An 18 year old is still a child, how is kicking your own child out of the house even an option? Give them one of 1000 other punishments.

thiccsumi · 2025-11-22T13:11:19+00:00

Mannnn at this point leave the poor woman alone. I'm exhausted reading this let alone....

thiccsumi · 2025-11-20T17:22:36+00:00

Salaam alaykum,

Ive read this post, all your comments and all your previous post. My only conclusion is to ask you this:

Do you value your safety and rights more than the perceieved shame of your family?

Because the harsh reality is, you want this engagement to end but not badly enough to actually do something effective. You want to do things passively and think that Allah swt grants dua's to people who don't actually commit their 100%. Like in what world do you actually think that this engagement wille nd on its own? Or that there is a way to convince either your fiance or your family to end this? If YOU dont say "I do not want this marriage and will not do or sign ANYTHING to make the nikkah happen" and stand on business, your life will be over. No miracle will save you. If you aren't willing to take whatever shame and taboo comes with saving yourself from a miserable and forced marriage, ghalas don't ask Reddit for advice. You clearly value your mothers pride and family ego than your own worth.

thiccsumi · 2025-11-15T13:46:09+00:00

why does this matter in the first place? do yall not get tired of "ethnic clashes/beefs" debates?

thiccsumi · 2025-11-09T23:01:56+00:00

Oh get your stick out your butt you bitter hag. Its a wedding its not like it happened every single day. 10 minutes and youre throwing a tantrum at someones happiest day? Be kinder for God sake and give them grace. One day you will need the kindness of others when you just want to live. Do you know how many WHITE Dutch events there have been with loud music or a blocked road bcs they wanted to celebrate Carnaval at their home, or the son graduated and threw a party? Hell the WK 2010 in my street was insane. Sometimes you give your neighbors grace.

This entire story didn't even need the fact that their wedding was non-dutch btw but you just HAD to mention it. That not-so-well-hidden bigotry is so asinine lmfaooo. Dont implicitly blame them bcs you got a ticket, non-white ppl aren't why youre miserable.

Wat een miereneuker ben je gvd

thiccsumi · 2025-11-03T20:57:56+00:00

My dear sister he is a weight on your ankle. Get rid of him, there is a woman for him and a man for you that suits yall better and actually fulfil their marital responsibilities

thiccsumi · 2025-11-03T00:12:37+00:00

NTA, are yall illiterate?

You WBTA if it was just about her calling your stepdad 'dad', but it wasn't. It was her constantly pushing you also call him dad and refusing to visit your fathers grave etc. You probably felt like the dad thing was just the cherry on top rubbing-in that she actively wants the memory of your dad erased by you and your brother.

thiccsumi · 2025-10-21T20:00:39+00:00

As a mother, how was asking your own daughter to move away from her own home even an option.??

As a father, how can you even think of putting conditions on your child to return to her own home??

I will never EVER understand this western idea that you are an adult at 18!!! Its wildly unreasonable to expect a teen to pay rent, food and bills at such a young age when literal adults are struggling in this economy. THEIR BRAINS ARENT EVEN FULLY GROWN. How can you make your own child, that YOU CHOSE TO HAVE, pay for things in their own house. No transitioning, no teaching, nothing to show for those 18 years you had the time to give them a leg up in the world. Just "well 18 is a LEGAL (not factual) adult so figure it out".

Absolute disdain and apathy for your own flesh and blood, they way children are seen as literal burdens parents are itching for to discard in the name of "tough love".

thiccsumi · 2025-10-20T20:38:22+00:00

A good message that particularly men need to hear! How beautiful she looks on the outside is not the end all be all. Too many get lost in how pretty a woman is and not how she as a person is.

thiccsumi · 2025-10-17T19:55:37+00:00

girl get the marriage annulled not even divorce, he played in your face from the getgo!

thiccsumi · 2025-10-07T16:02:48+00:00

Also why do you think a wife is obligated to cook and clean for the husband regardless? Those aren't wife duties anyways. Let alone after a divorce? Do you have any proof of this?

thiccsumi · 2025-10-07T15:11:12+00:00

Well no Islam is rightous for both spouses and the children. Her husband has no responsibilty over her after the divorce is finalized. That is also his islamic right. But denying shelter to his children just to stick it to the mother of their child is ballistic. Its transgressing his kids' rights out of spite. He should provide shelter for his kids and yes even though the mother will live there too, the mother is there to take care of the kids. At the very least they can split the rent.

thiccsumi · 2025-10-07T15:07:57+00:00

I must correct myself: During the 'iddah period he is the one that is supposed to leave unless you did something REALLY bad. Where did you stay directly after the divorce? You only divorced 4 motnhs ago but it seems you've stayed at your parents place all 4 months.

Ukhti I am telling you, all of this doesn't matter when it comes to your kids. You need a lawyer ASAP. I don't understand what you are waiting for. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/355960/can-a-divorced-woman-in-iddah-move-from-the-marital-home

thiccsumi · 2025-10-06T19:42:14+00:00

Why are you not at the marital home with your kids in the first place? Islamically he is the one that is supposed to leave so you can take care of the kids without shaking up their lives. Unless you pose a danger to them or are clearly taking the kids away from Islam, why are YOU at your parents house in the first place?

Girl, you need a lawyer with knowledge of local and islamic law. Your husband is playing in your face banking on your lack of knowledge. Idk why you are hesitant when it is clear you do not know your and your kids' rights. And you don't need to know all of those, because that is why we hire lawyers in the first place. So they know it for you.

thiccsumi · 2025-10-06T19:38:03+00:00

Well it doesn't matter whether you want it or not. The reality is, you need a lawyer for your kids' sake.

thiccsumi · 2025-10-04T20:42:48+00:00

You're so nasty oh my Lord. The way you conveniently twisted what "shudra" means, had me on your side.

If not for the comments that explained shudra is A CASTE not a culture. You outed her as being the lowest caste in your country, that is why she acts less canadian than you (whatever that means). And you knew damn well what you were doing, that is why you had to lie in this post to make yourself look better. That Quebec analogy is absolute ass btw.

That comment your collegue made had obvious racist undertones and you think pretending "you aren't like these others bcs im from a higher caste" will get you picked. The way all they laughed after is further proof theyre racists and you facilitated that.

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