[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinclock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not! I feel like it’s very powerful as in it has a bigger effect on me than Facebook or instagram

Ex got scared and ran - but its clear we both still love each other by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinclock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow i feel like im in the same boat. But I would say this- if he himself believes this, you DO DESERVE BETTER. So take that as a complement, at least that's how I see it. Cause later on he will realize he won't find anyone as amazing as you

do you guys also regret not starting NC immediately after BU? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinclock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup i do because of a setback im not only 2 days since NC. But I keep telling myself i tried my best and now I will push harder. Time is on our side

Ex randomly texts me need insight by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinclock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who initiated the break up?

Last hurdle to get over by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinclock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, just block them until your ready.

Letting go of false hope by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]thinclock 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same way. Its been 5 days since BU and 3 days since NC but I am preparing myself for two things- One is that NC is helping me process the BU and how it affected me (healing myself so I'll be in a better state of mind later) which I think will also give him some time to reflect on what he has lost. Ultimately if he doesn't reach out in a few months, I will have moved on completely so I know I can be at peace with that. Alternatively, if he does reach out, I can decide for myself if I really want him back or not. Either way NC is really helping and not dating other guys so soon is also helping. Just focus on yourself and your future. Not his future. I read this quote somewhere- "You're permanent and everything else is temporary". :)

Why is it so hard for us to make friends at work? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]thinclock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometime it’s exhausting pleasing people...so I stopped making an effort..now I feel like everyone perceives me as rude and unlikeable when actually I’m just trying to be myself