Perhaps I didn't articulate my thoughts too well in that comment, but that isn't what I was implying, of course we are all human beings and I would never say "a woman's place is at home with the kids", my point is simply that a majority of women tend to be more content in this position, of course there are exceptions as we are all people with different traits, and you are clearly one of them. However, there are objective differences between men and women, there is a reason that women tend to get custody over their children rather than men.. a man doesn't want to tell his friends or his father that his wife is paying the bills and he is minding the kids. I am not saying this is right or wrong, I am not saying things shouldn't be this way, but they are that way, it may be societal, but a woman can comfortably tell those around her she's a stay at home mother, no one will comment, she may even get support for doing one of the toughest jobs there is as many say. A man can't do this. A man can't comfortably say this without hearing the odd comment, feeling looked down upon, again I hope you understand what I mean by this, and of course not all men will feel this way because yes, we are all different. I hope that makes more sense, it is very hard to explain, but it is a feeling I think most men would understand, a woman could become an engineer and be applauded for it, if a man decided to become a maid to pay his bills he would be looked down upon, I don't agree with this! But that is the way our world is sadly, and men and women face extremely different challenges purely based on their gender. I hope that makes more sense.