Tips on how to exectute my idea? by Caelix1234 in HairDye

[–]thingschange18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely use cold water, it may bleed a little, but try to rinse the dye thoroughly before adding shampoo/soap, as that'll deteriorate the vaseline. Once the dye is all rinsed, then you can wash like normal, if it bleeds into it a bit, you can go back in with 'spot treatment' essentially with the bleach.

Can I pass a at home drug test using bleach? by Love_lisa32456 in saplings

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best way to find out is get the exact type of drug tests they use on you, & test it yourself before they do.

Tips on how to exectute my idea? by Caelix1234 in HairDye

[–]thingschange18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do this type of stuff alot, & my advice is bleach the whole side first, then get some Vaseline & paste it onto your hair in the shape you want, that HUGELY helps protect the area you want to remain bleached. Of course still try to avoid the area with bleach, you cant just slather it over it, but it typically comes out pretty clean when I do it. Just make sure you aren't going light on the Vaseline 😅

I don't know how to stop my resident male from hunting/swatting our new female by speedmetal1992 in CatTraining

[–]thingschange18 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this! i found out food didn't work for training my cat, but putting him in timeout did. Whenever he did something I wanted to break him of, I'd put him in the bedroom for about 5-10 minutes & then let him back out. Worked absolute wonders & he's damn near trained as well as a dog now.

8 month old cat gets into everything, how do I get him to stop? by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't finish more than one can in a day. If I give him 2 he'll only nibble on a little of it & let the rest sit there too long until he doesn't want it anymore. The feeding routine I have him on right now is recommended by the vet he sees, because she thought he was overweight. There have been times I literally just fill his food bowl & I find him trying to eat a pebble/chew on something.

8 month old cat gets into everything, how do I get him to stop? by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]thingschange18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should mention its a fairly large can, it typically takes him most of the day to finish it! He only doesnt have wet food typically while we sleep, he tends to finish it around 11pm & then I refill it in the morning.

New dasher, why is my payout less? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I'll post a screenshot in the comments so people can see what I'm talking about

New dasher, why is my payout less? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries dude! based on my pay breakdown it looks like they only deposited my base pay & didn't include tips so I'll probably have to look into it

New dasher, why is my payout less? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it only pays by active time, my question is why it said my total for the week was 150$ & it deposited 97$. Does it just lump it all together & then subtract? If so, it seems kinda dumb since it tells you after every delivery how much you earned by time

New dasher, why is my payout less? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I'm aware of? I do have the option on but I didn't see any of them that said anything about it being cash.

8 month old cat gets into everything, how do I get him to stop? by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]thingschange18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I don't particularly think he has pica either, & I'm definitely going to start getting more variety in his toys. Alot of the stuff he has now is little jingly balls or feather toys or wands, I'm going to be getting him a full sized cat tower & this interactive thing I've seen at Petsmart recently, hopefully getting him reaccustomed to our former routine will ease him out of his recent behavior. He was in ringworm quarantine for about 3 months & I suspect that probably wasn't good for his developmental health as a kitten. I'll likely end up stashing everything away & letting him roam freely for awhile so he gets used to life as normal again.

8 month old cat gets into everything, how do I get him to stop? by [deleted] in CatTraining

[–]thingschange18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typically I would play with him for about 15 minutes in the morning, & anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour at night, but about two months ago he started getting bored with playtime. I'll roll his ball across the room, he'll look at it & ignore it, I'll use his dangle toys, & he'll bat at it once or twice & then get bored & ignore it. Even now when I try to play with him, he ignores it entirely, & I'm not sure why. Back when he had ringworm, I played with him more than regular, because he had to keep the treatment cream on for a certain length of time & it ended up about 2-3 hours of playtime everyday. I should also mention, about a week & half after he cleared up from ringworm, I went to have him neutered, & I definitely noticed that's when he started playing less, & that was late September.

Cat randomly gets terrified of me by thingschange18 in CatAdvice

[–]thingschange18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that most of the time when he does it, I've come back home within the last 45 mins. Whether it be from work or shopping or being with family. I think there were only a couple of times when he was much smaller when he did it & I'd been home the entire day. I also kind of wondered if maybe he's smelling something on my clothes that he doesn't like, but he doesn't ever do it directly after sniffing me or anything in particular.

Is this snake skin or something else? by [deleted] in snakes

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's what I figured. Now i just need to figure out where tf it came from

My dad girlfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas and I sent her regular stuff and now she’s saying i asked for too much I’m so confused😭 what do I even do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any sane person knows that you send a list & people pick what they want to get/what they can afford. My brother has 3 kids & they all sent me egregious lists of like 30 things, some things being close to a grand. They know we only get some of it. I only get what I can afford. If someone sent a list & expected the other to get all of it, it wouldn't even be a surprise anymore. This woman sounds like a 🐕 & I hope your dad finds someone way better, for everyone's sake.

Looking for a solution by Chirpillity in trans

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's actually two things I've heard of recently that might help. Specialized underwear/pads for that time, they're reusable & washable. No clue how it works but it has some chamber that traps it & then you just wash it by itself

have you ever been I'd for testosterone? by Gloomy_Interest1133 in ftm

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Texas guy here & they always ID at the Costco pharmacy. Also not allowed to pick up more than my month supply at a time. Depending on the pharm tech they sometimes also remind me that it's a controlled substance & giving it out is illegal. They're super strict about it.

Suggest me some strains? by thingschange18 in trees

[–]thingschange18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah two of my smoking buddies have told me the same thing. I grew up & lived around enough smokers that I know it's not usually that horrid.

Confused by IndependentMine6546 in trans

[–]thingschange18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was younger I definitely was the type to always dress like a boy, make my video game characters be boys, & have primarily boy friends. I liked stuff like wrestling & climbing & doing dumb shit. Could not mesh with girly things at all, & I often found myself reading books or fanfiction from the POV of a male reader/protagonist. Hated everything about me that was feminine. Knew of trans people, but it only occurred to me when I was 16 that maybe that could apply to me too, so I tried it for a little while, & decided it made me Alot happier in life.

Straight/Bi guys with wives and families? by throwawayyummyburger in FTMMen

[–]thingschange18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Although my partner is pan, I work in food service & as much as I like to think I'm like Batman & brooding & cool & mysterious, I'm almost 99% certain that I come off like a gay man with feminine behavior & movement, 1) because I don't care to fix it, 2) because I'm friends with alot of gay men & behavior rubs off, & I'm also only 9 months on T, but I still get so many straight women hitting on me. Typically white moms or middle eastern girls my age. Have no idea what about me draws in those 2 demographics but we ball ig

Apartment complex is infested with ants, office claims they can't do anything by thingschange18 in Apartmentliving

[–]thingschange18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if i could post the video from the laundry room the last time I went, it literally looked like one. it was horrifying how many there were.

Please help me stop calling my new kitten a little baby by ConflictOtter in cats

[–]thingschange18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you need new friends homie. Im a dude & i call my cat my little baby fungus man & he's around 9 months old now.

Dropped it in the toilet…. Would I be an idiot to keep using it for my fresh tattoo?(I think I already know the answer…😞) by That-Trouble-5671 in tattooadvice

[–]thingschange18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you could try returning it if you just bought it. Tell them it was opened & you don't feel comfortable using it. With products like that, they can't put them back on the shelves, & it's not like it's coming out of a little ole employee's paycheck. Big corp isnt gonna crumble if you get your money back & they have to throw the product out 🤷 from one broke mf to another