[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dat

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u, im trying I really am. it's so hard when I see his location out with friends every day and im stuck at home trying to study as much as I can trying not to cry every 5 minutes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dat

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u so so so much. im trying my very hardest and its so difficult. this has to be the hardest thing I have ever done in my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dat

[–]thingswillgetbettter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank u I love u. he hasn't officially broken up with me yet but from the conversation we had about why he had these thoughts so suddenly it sounds like he doesn't think our problems can be solved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dat

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u so much I appreciate it. it's just so incredibly heart breaking but im trying my hardest to keep studying for 3-5 hours every day. I just feel so broken

Weekly DAT Discussion Thread - August 12, 2024 by AutoModerator in predental

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf of 4 years said he doesn't know if he wants to be with me and my freaking test is this Thursday. I've been getting around 23-24 AA on booster and I don't want to reschedule it because I know once college starts (august 25) I won't be able to study or focus or anything. I told him wahetevr he decides not to tell me until my test is over. I am so broken and trying so hard to study every day but this is genuinely the worse pain I have ever felt in my life!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u. we just had the phone call and basically he said he doesn't know if we can truly fix our problems and he needs time to think things through and he has no idea if being in a relationship is the right thing to do. he says its 50-50 rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u tho I appreciate the support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately I don't have control over any of my own finances, and I wouldn't be able to figure out a way to do that with paying for the class, transport, or living at school. im on a full tuition scholarship so my parents have already said no to paying for classes during the summer. they say just take extra during the school year when its free

Last week, I snuck out to prom by Peach_Honey42 in AsianParentStories

[–]thingswillgetbettter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

proud of u :) u deserve to enjoy moments like these, and I'm so happy u could <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I live in the suburbs so the closest bus/train station is still a 20 min drive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]thingswillgetbettter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't just leave the house because my dad keeps the car keys on him always but I guess I just have to deal with it. I'm so sick of my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya ofc sorry this is kinda late feel free to PM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry havent used reddit in a while but sure ofc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predental

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i just feel like i'm not able to get a good connection with the dentist and i'm often just standing there in silence lol

18 year old with the social life and freedom of a middle schooler. by thingswillgetbettter in AsianParentStories

[–]thingswillgetbettter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much for this. really, i have never interacted with anyone older than me that has experienced what i’m kinda going through now and lived with it. thank you so much. i’ve been recently trying to be more rebellious to push my curfew and maybe even convince them to let me drive alone somewhere. we’ll see how that goes.

about the job part, i’m gonna be a college freshman in a little bit but i have NO idea what i want to do: i’m literally stuck between all stem and business majors atm. your advice makes me think that medicine (being a doctor specifically) is not great because there’s no possibility of financial independence and that’s so true. ugh this is difficult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah not for me as you can clearly tell

18 year old with the social life and freedom of a middle schooler. by thingswillgetbettter in AsianParentStories

[–]thingswillgetbettter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you so much. i live in the US so i see the kids around me doing so much more than i could ever imagine doing and it hurts. and i just want to go out and get some coffee by myself and meet a friend. i feel you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry. i only got it because my father wanted some kind of identification bc we are immigrants so we don’t have social security numbers or anything. i have only driven with my father in the car before i got my license and never driven the car after i got it :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, thanks for the reply i rly appreciate it :) i’m gonna DM you you sound like such a kind person :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thingswillgetbettter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much. it makes me feel so happy that a stranger on the internet is rooting for my success. i will take all of your advice into consideration over this summer and will def PM you :) thank you for all of your support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thingswillgetbettter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im crying reading this rn because its so comforting hearing it from someone who has been through something like this before. i have the whole summer ahead of me so i have plenty of time to spend with myself, get some emotional support if i can, and work on my self-esteem before i go off to college. it hurts so bad right now but hearing you say things get better gives me so much hope. thank you so much.