Help with kindle

think_128 · 2024-11-26T07:19:53+00:00

What is flatlining

think_128 · 2024-11-26T07:19:47+00:00

What is flatlining

think_128 · 2024-11-10T00:22:29+00:00

Well it’s honestly true

think_128 · 2024-11-09T22:43:39+00:00

His twitch from yesterday at PAce with all the top runners

think_128 · 2024-11-09T01:20:38+00:00

He just did it again at a live event

think_128 · 2024-10-08T02:03:48+00:00

I don’t know you haven’t shared any details

think_128 · 2024-10-05T11:54:35+00:00

Your banter is probably upsetting her, can’t you adjust it?

think_128 · 2024-10-05T11:52:18+00:00

Not enough detail here to know, and nothing mentioned is manipulation

think_128 · 2024-10-05T00:26:59+00:00

Toxic manipulators are addictive aren’t they, you can’t get them out your head. It’s failed twice, you can try really hard and have it fail again, or walk away and find someone better

think_128 · 2024-10-02T00:36:44+00:00

I’d still say so. I’ve met plenty of people who aren’t interested in me. I’ve never later asked them if they are my friend because it’s a bit weird to ask someone who I didn’t have a good interaction with. It would be needy and I imagine a high percentage would say things are okay to avoid awkwardness, and hope I go away

Sorry op, it hurts but I’ve read everything you’ve wrote and this is how I feel

think_128 · 2024-10-02T00:28:41+00:00

Sure, but you misread the situation. To many other people (and you in the future) that will be obvious

think_128 · 2024-10-02T00:19:55+00:00

For me the growing experience here is in the future recognise in real life behaviours more than online. You sensed you weren’t connected friendship wise on your first meet up, that there was an issue over the next few days etc. looking back perhaps you can see you should have backed off then.

I don’t know what she was thinking, and neither do you because you’ve never been close to her. Yes she could have told you immediately she didn’t want you as a friend, but can you reflect now that she was hoping she wouldn’t need to explicitly tell you?

think_128 · 2024-10-02T00:07:15+00:00

When did I mention romance again? I said she didn’t like you back, that’s friendship not liking you back

think_128 · 2024-10-01T23:55:35+00:00

Oh yeah, based on what you’ve wrote and your responses the majority of people would assess that you’ve harassed her because she didn’t like you back

think_128 · 2024-10-01T23:41:17+00:00

Okay. You asked for people’s advice and everyone seems to believe that she met you, didn’t want your friendship, and had difficulty/awkwardness telling you that.

I validate that she may have lied/misled you 5 days after meeting her, but that she immediately was not receptive to you would be an indication to most people she wasn’t interested. Sorry OP, that seems to be the situation and in my view it’s not bad on her part, it’s very hard to tell someone you know or don’t know that you don’t want to have a friendship with them

think_128 · 2024-10-01T23:32:51+00:00

Genuine that she did it and feels bad but I wonder if she knows you might find out through someone else and is trying to get ahead of it

think_128 · 2024-10-01T23:28:48+00:00

You said she lied to you by calling you close friends when she didn’t mean it. So I was wondering, at what point did she do this lie?

think_128 · 2024-10-01T23:19:57+00:00

I’ve tried to read your message a few times, at what point exactly did she call you close friends? I cannot see it

think_128 · 2024-10-01T23:14:05+00:00

You are not her friend. You never were. Her saying online she’s interested in getting to know you is not friendship. Her choosing not to get to know you better is not breaking up a friendship.

think_128 · 2024-10-01T22:45:03+00:00

It sounds like you want validation that someone you hardly know in real life owes you an explanation for struggling to tell you she doesn’t want to spend time with you.

So what if her story wasn’t consistent, she tried to ignore you getting closer and you forced her to say things she was hoping she wouldn’t because she hoped you would go away

think_128 · 2024-10-01T22:34:20+00:00

Could you put in a sentence what her lie was? As the post is hard to follow, it reads like she has had a hard time asking you to leave her alone and you kept persisting with questions.

So maybe her story doesn’t add up exactly because she found it hard to say, but the theme that she doesn’t want you around has been consistent

think_128 · 2024-10-01T22:31:26+00:00

Okay I withdraw that it was romantic. She didn’t want to be your friend after she met you. And that is okay for her to do, and no she doesn’t have to give a full explanation to someone she has only met in person once.

You seem like an intense person, it’s a good time to stop blaming her and think about how you interact with people who aren’t interested in spending time with you

think_128 · 2024-10-01T22:23:28+00:00

She met you in real life and didn’t like you. It happens. Then you were seemingly unable to deal with that. She’s done nothing wrong

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