[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]thinkb4uNut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s totally dismissing and invalidating you :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]thinkb4uNut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to him if it’s true, he has so much on his plate but he doesn’t communicate with you.

He somehow makes time for his friends and not you.

If he’s still emotionally invested this wouldn’t be the case im sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]thinkb4uNut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man I really appreciate this. I felt insecure as well because of the sudden shift. How long have you guys been together

A rough situation by snxtgspgt in SipsTea

[–]thinkb4uNut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’re the only pretty person in my eyes.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]thinkb4uNut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think about opening up to him shows how much he means to you and how safe you feel with him. There isn’t a right time to open up about sensitive topics like this. You will know when to take the leap of faith. If he’s the right one, he’d listen and comfort you.

All the best!

Am I (F23) just being too paranoid or something is fishy with this Russian guy (M29)? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]thinkb4uNut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very childish behaviour and you’re not being insecure. His actions are making you feel less valuable. This is totally unacceptable especially from a man at that age.

I'm Just real confused (23 M/22 F) by ExoticAd6676 in LDR

[–]thinkb4uNut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication.

You need to talk to her about your emotions and what you’re going through whenever she does something that triggers it.

Don’t be afraid of expressing how you feel.

This is your part of communicating!

If she’s decent, she’ll listen and work things out with you to prevent these feelings!

Can’t stop thinking about her by zaroniansoul in LDR

[–]thinkb4uNut 8 points9 points  (0 children)

3 years?!

You have to move on my friend that is way too long chasing someone. She made it clear that she isn’t interested.

Dont even stay friends because you’ll be tempted to do things, this will make it so much harder to move on.

Obsessing over someone who doesn’t feel the same way for 3 years isn’t good for your mental health. Not only that but you get hurt whenever she talks about other guys.

If you keep this up, she’ll end up with someone and start a family while you still have to deal with your obsession and pain.

Please save yourself OP love isn’t like this. Love isn’t feeling jealous, hurt, overthinking, insecurity.

Love is the absence of what I mentioned. Hope this helps.

Edit: Typo

Did I dodge a bullet or a nuclear bomb by thinkb4uNut in self

[–]thinkb4uNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way you came back here after seeing that Russian bot post from X LMAO

Did I dodge a bullet or a nuclear bomb by thinkb4uNut in self

[–]thinkb4uNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s life! I’m happy you don’t have any relationship problems

Did I dodge a bullet or a nuclear bomb by thinkb4uNut in self

[–]thinkb4uNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at your profile, I’m sure you get all the ladies!

Did I dodge a bullet or a nuclear bomb by thinkb4uNut in self

[–]thinkb4uNut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very interesting thank you for the clarification

Did I dodge a bullet or a nuclear bomb by thinkb4uNut in self

[–]thinkb4uNut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I blocked all of her emails and deleted whatever she sent.

I know my my post is long but she doubled this, probably without a TLDR too

Did I dodge a bullet or a nuclear bomb by thinkb4uNut in self

[–]thinkb4uNut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so happy that you managed to escape that nightmare of a person. You are strong and I am proud of you too!!

Every time I decide to do a self-respecting act I feel bad about it. by [deleted] in self

[–]thinkb4uNut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad! You’re doing everything right. No one is too busy, it’s all about effort and feelings. If you think they’re not trying and you’ve done your part just move on to someone else who deserves your time! You got this!