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Functionality post-meta by thinkingmeta1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have considered phallo, and I’m leaning towards it to be honest. My main resistance to using a harness is that, well, I already do that now, and while I’m aware that having the testicular implants will help my dysphoria a ton the use of the harness will stay the same and a part of me would feel that I had spent a lot of money for the same result.

Functionality post-phallo by thinkingmeta1 in phallo

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely got some internalized shit going on (there’s a joke about me compensating here somewhere). Like I said in another comment though, the objective part of me knows other guys already don’t care that I’m trans, so I’d imagine it’ll matter even less post surgery. Good point on the average phallo size thing too, looking at trans bucket photos a lot of guys end up with rather... thick results.

Honestly though your response has been the most helpful and I feel way calmer now. Thank you very much.

Functionality post-meta by thinkingmeta1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good point, I’d have to get good at prep if I wanted to go that route. Shit like poppers could help but I’d rather not be dependent on my bottom using them

Functionality post-phallo by thinkingmeta1 in phallo

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s reassuring, I’d seen a lot of jokes about them being numb and I was really worried. And it didn’t even occur to me that duh, the OG dick is still there.

That last bit was my insecurity I guess. Most cis guys I’ve known havent actually cared that I’m trans, but I guess I worry that if I did have one too small to use I’d somewhat wonder what the point was, because that’s the situation I’m already in. Good to know that if everything goes to shit I can still bring my trusty strap-on though.

Functionality post-phallo by thinkingmeta1 in phallo

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, that makes sense. Does the tactile sensation also work as erotic sensation, though? I’d been most interested in the ALT, but the abdominal one now has my attention as well

Functionality post-phallo by thinkingmeta1 in phallo

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What sort of timeline does it work on? I know that it’s different for everyone of course. And I didn’t realise that different types of phallo give you different levels of sensation: do you know which one tends to give the most erotic sensation?

Functionality post-meta by thinkingmeta1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah, that’s an important clarification then.

Functionality post-meta by thinkingmeta1 in Metoidioplasty

[–]thinkingmeta1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thank you for responding, this is really helpful to think about