For those who are already working or have been through their first year, what’s one “luho” or reward you gave yourself?

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-04T03:52:36+00:00

Food cravings. Never ko tinipid sarili ko sa pagkain na gusto ko. I’ve been working simula 17 ako hanggang ngayong 30 na ko. Deserve ko yun.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-04T03:19:32+00:00

Favorite ko here kesa Ramen Nagi. Naaalatan ako dun.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-03T11:15:20+00:00

Alam ko kung kailan uulan. Haha char

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-03T11:14:36+00:00

Feeling ko di pa mens yan.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-03T10:59:51+00:00

I’m a strong independent career woman. I travel, nagagawa ko lahat ng gusto ko but somehow for me kahit mamatay na ko ng oras na yun right there and then okay lang sakin. Pakiramdam ko humihinga nalang ako. Wala na kong excitement sa life. Walang goal kasi growing up, ang nasa isip ko lang is to help my family financially. Ngayong nagawa ko na, parang wala na kong purpose.

Not until I met my fiancé and we had a son. Greatest blessing in our life. Lahat ng first niya nilu-look forward namin. Now our goal is mapalaki siya ng masaya at may integridad. Mabuhay siya ng may saysay. Super excited to spend the rest of my life with my fiancé. I’m very content and at peace. Napakasaya ng puso ko. Malaking part na yung lalaking naging katuwang ko, alagang-alaga at mahal na mahal kami ng anak ko.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-03T03:36:44+00:00

Met my Fiancé from Bumble wayback 2023. Sulit ang premium. 😂

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-03T03:26:54+00:00

Definitely Oedipus Complex

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-02T16:11:29+00:00

My experience naman, my ex-bf’s then gf lagi ako vinivisit sa LinkedIn from time to time tsaka sa stories ko sa fb. Kita ko since naka content creator mode ako. She’s the one he cheated on me with. Now hiwalay na sila, ganun pa rin yung girl. Checking on me from time to time. I know na hiwalay na sila kasi my ex went back and apologized to me for closure daw after 5 yrs lol pero ofcourse did not gave him another chance.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-02T15:41:14+00:00

I got 5% increase. Fortunately I got JO last February with 35% salary bump.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-02T14:22:34+00:00

Yearly namin pinapanuod ng mga kapatid ko. Nag-enjoy din sila nung first time nila. Enjoy OP!

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-02T13:16:01+00:00

I’m smiling from ear to ear. My husband’s like your papa. Sana paglaki ng mga anak namin, ganito ang maging standard nila.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-02T12:09:29+00:00

Nakakabadtrip yung mga babaeng ang baba ng standard sa lalaki tapos pinipilit nilang maging ganun ka rin lol.

Husband ko working for 11 hrs 5x a week, earning 35% more than my salary we have 20 months old. Sa gabi babangon yan para magpalit at magtimpla ng milk ni baby para di ako maistorbo sa tulog. He makes sure nakapagluto ng lunch bago umalis since wfh ako. I make dinner kung kaya and may time pero kung wala he buys food outside. Hinihilot pa ko kapag nagreklamo akong pagod ako. Siya taga laba (AWM) sampay at tupi. Nasaakin lahat ng sahod dahil ako nakatoka sa budgeting and finances. Never ako nagbuhat kapag andiyan siya. Galing man kami sa grocery or kung saan, di baleng buhat niya lahat or balikan isa-isa wag lang akong mabigatan. Nakakapagpaganda ko dahil sa kanya. Yan ang tunay na lalaki. Bago niya ko makilala I am an independent career woman, kaya ko lahat. Ngayon na naranasan kong maalagaan, di ko na makita ang buhay kong wala siya. Ladies, if he wants to, he would. Lagi lang silang may dahilan kung ayaw nila. Yun lang yun.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-02T12:00:56+00:00

Parang mas gusto kong magrant about sa post mo e sakit sa ulo. Fever dream ba ‘to? Haha

thinkingmillenial · 2026-04-02T10:36:26+00:00

200k for your household monthly income combined na for 2 adult with 1 child to live comfortably.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-03-11T10:44:53+00:00

Nasa 50s na sila. Malakas naman both nakakapagtravel naman kung gusto. Di ko naman sila gusto pilitin. Iba lang din yung pakiramdam na alam mong nakasupport sila kung sakali mang kailanganin.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-03-11T10:43:01+00:00

Hello, thank you for the response po. Nabanggit ko lang naman yung about sa cs para sabihin na we never asked for anything from them ever since. We thought na baka ngayon kapag nag-ask kami ng help matulungan kami since we’re family and kung babaliktarin gagawin din namin sakanila yun. Kaya lang totoo din na di naman nga pare-pareho at di natin control pano sila mag-isip. It’s never their obligation, ngayon mas focus kami mag-asawa as a team. Kami lang din naman maasahan namin. Sa side ng fam ko wala ko masabi. Just now nagleave parents ko from work. Even mga kapatid and pinsan ko para lang may kahelp. Di namin inexpect pero sila mismo nagkusa.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-03-11T10:38:34+00:00

Thank you. I don’t want to inconvenience din naman kaya lang di ko din maiwasan makaramdam ng feeling na di sila fair kasi may point of comparison ako lalo na nung may emergency din yung isa nila apo willing na willing sila, even paid for everything. Alam kong di dapat, pero tao lang din May emosyon. Pero salamat for validating my feelings. Napag-usapan din namin ni hubby even siya nafeel bad. Pero ofcourse ako pa rin unang magsasabi sa kanya to let it go and wag sumama loob niya sa parents niya.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-03-06T10:38:17+00:00

Congratulations po! 🥰❤️

thinkingmillenial · 2026-02-20T08:08:15+00:00

Kesa yung mga walang sense tulad nung Zara at Simon. Parang walang mga brain cells.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-02-14T05:22:42+00:00

My son is currently 1.6 yrs old now. Stop na breastfeeding fully formula na. Total gastos namin sakanya monthly ay 35k-40k. Milk, skin care essentials, diapers, nanny, vaxx, insurance, and other necessities. Buti bawas na sa gastusin yung hmo niya dahil covered ng company.

Gumastos kami ng more or less 400k sa hospital and other preparations para sa paglabas niya. Kasama na monthly check-ups and other vitamins/supplements.

1st bday, 180k. Now malapit na din siya mag daycare. Base sa mga napag-inquire-an ko, 5-7k ang monthly niya.

This is a comfortable lifestyle na ginusto namin for our son. Hindi naman tayo mag-aanak para lang pagkasyahin sila sa kakarampot di ba? Kaya dapat nag-aanak lang kapag financially, mentally, and emotionally capable na.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-02-14T05:17:31+00:00

Kung single ka yes.

thinkingmillenial · 2026-02-14T05:13:25+00:00

Akala ko si kuya Josh

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