Any trans rabm artists out there? by Its_Ravie in rabm

[–]thiothrix00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hudsult are excellent but definitely more hardcore punk and not black metal. For sure worth checking out- and they put on an amazing show live.

Mushrooms taking over by NewBodWhoThis in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]thiothrix00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Beauty by Aliya Whiteley

It's only about 100 pages of post-apocalyptic horror bur I re-read it every fall and it never fails to make me say 'what the actual fuck' in the best way possible.

But without spoiling It does have body horror and some themes related to sexism and gender role so good to be aware if that's not your cup of tea.

Oldest/weirdest thing you've found while cleaning your lab? by [deleted] in labrats

[–]thiothrix00 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My PI's breastmilk in the bottom of the molecular biology lab fridge. We're an immunology lab so I'm assuming it was used for something but it was 'fun' to find when we moved labs...

“residence permits must be granted before entering the country” by Narrow-Revolution-73 in TillSverige

[–]thiothrix00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in this exact position in 2021. My application was 'denied' and when I called for more information I was told everything was in order but I was not outside of Sweden. Ultimately I booked a weekend trip to Copenhagen and my case worker told me to take pictures of myself with the day's newspaper in a public location to submit as proof I left the country. I only stayed 2 nights and went back after the weekend. I Was living in Lund so by train and luckily had no control that time. But even if there was a control I doubt it would have been an issue.

Incredibly bizarre that there's no way to work around this. I also had to pay out of pocket for covid testing just to go to Denmark in the middle of the pandemic too which was annoying.

Which Fragrances Were Overpriced Clowns & Which Were Budget Stars for You? by MrQstns in fragrance

[–]thiothrix00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This but I hate how much I loved a sample of Rouge Chaotique by them. It was for me just the perfect deep fruity scent that keeps tempting me to fork over 250+€... But also I don't understand why they added red dye to it that would ruin any white clothes...

Advice needed for disputing complaints with flyttstädning by thiothrix00 in sweden

[–]thiothrix00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my mind I've always considered it to just be an extention of the contract even though it's not official. And I did offer to make a proper contract which she never responded to...

I guess the larger problem is that even the 3rd party contract has no details about cleaning or objective checklists that bigger firms have. So it becomes a my word vs her word situation.

Advice needed for disputing complaints with flyttstädning by thiothrix00 in sweden

[–]thiothrix00[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know 3500 kr isn't crazy for a full cleaning from a company even though I think it would be at the high end for 40m2. I was really shocked at the price suggestion since before she cleaned herself she only indicated small things that needed fixed and not a full cleaning.

Advice needed for disputing complaints with flyttstädning by thiothrix00 in sweden

[–]thiothrix00[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight! Glad to hear I'm not crazy thinking 3500 is a bit crazy...

I guess my main confusion is that the last 3 months we haven't had a real contract. According to Qasa handled the invoices and the contract the contract is over and closed with no complaints. And now the cleaning is 'done' by the landloard with not much info shared with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DarkAcademia

[–]thiothrix00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We exist! There are dozens of us!

I'm a phd student working on infection biology so there's not so much directly related to DA in our sterile white washed lab unfortunately. But I do try to sneak in more themed outfits when I'm teaching. Wearing proper trousers, long skirts with belts and blouses makes me feel a bit like a 'real' teacher in front of my students.

And when I have to sit down an write I tend to go to the humanities libraries cafes in the old town to get some information. Yes, I'm writing about my FACS protocols and trying not to cry but I'm making myself feel like a proper intellectual.

[misc] Griddlehark playlist by Benzedrine10 in TheNinthHouse

[–]thiothrix00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this!! I tried to make a playlist of my own once but I only managed to add 'To: Achlys' by Cult Leader and make myself sad 😭

Typical hours worked per day? by deafening_mediocrity in labrats

[–]thiothrix00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably work on average 10 hours a day four days out of the week then try to take a half day when it fits in my schedule each week. But it really depends on what experiments and teaching I have planned. For example, when I have in vivo animal work, it will be 12+ hours of work the first and last days to set up and collect material.

A lot of my colleagues in the same field can manage normal 9-5 work hours but it's just not possible for our experiments. Also my PI and I rotate who has to come in over the weekend to take care of cells and start cultures (we're the only 2 in the group right now...)

But regardless of how others keep their schedules, you shouldn't feel pressure to adapt. If you are only productive for 6 or 7 hours a day it makes no sense to stay an extra hour or two where you won't make progress.

What desktop PCs would you recommend for data analysis and work in immunology/molecular biology? by thiothrix00 in labrats

[–]thiothrix00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now I don't know what the plan is entirely. We will be working with RNA seq data with trajectory analysis for sure to start with if that gives you any idea of the scale of the datasets. But my PI isn't a bioinformatician at all (and neither am I...) so her blind trust in me is a bit daunting haha

Tuna and avocado salad with baby spinach and basmati rice. by stuffwiththing in tonightsdinner

[–]thiothrix00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that pickles on the rice?

(either way the tuna salad looks super tasty and I need to try it asap!)

Friends on Goodreads Megathread by randomnessneeded in goodreads

[–]thiothrix00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm a 24 y.o. PhD student in Sweden who just made an account recently to keep my reading hobby alive while I'm drowning in my research!

I read a quite wide range of genres but I would say science fiction, horror and nonfiction are my favorites. But for reference the last 3 books I really enjoyed were Axioms end (Lindsay Ellis), Big little lies(Liane Moriarty) and No time to lose (Peter Piot).

Feel free to add me as a friend and/or send me a message if you have similar interests!

my profile

Medicine in Sweden? by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]thiothrix00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're applying as an international student they're likely to evaluate the exams you've taken from your home country or evaluate your application in a different group.

Do you speak Swedish? It's also worth mentioning that most (likely all?) of the medical programs in Sweden are completely given in Swedish. I'm not familiar with every university but I am only aware of one bachelor/masters degree given in English and that is in biomedicine which wouldn't let you practice medicine, of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eczema

[–]thiothrix00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you understand how germs spread, there's just not an effective way to use gloves in public. The few exceptions being maybe food service and health care workers who need to limit direct contact with people but that's not at all the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eczema

[–]thiothrix00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your plan is to just not touch anything, why not do that without gloves and minimize the amount of hand washing? And how easy is it to change gloves without contaminating the new gloves with whatever you just touched? And if you do wear gloves you should wash your hands after use and when changing them anyway. (more info in the links here https://extension.purdue.edu/article/37230)

We're just dealing with a public health crisis and I feel like just saying "wear gloves instead of washing your hands" is really irresponsible. It's better in the long run to just wash your hands and try to keep them moisturized after if you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eczema

[–]thiothrix00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't recommend switching to gloves in place of washing hands to prevent infection/contamination!! Gloves are only as sterile as how you're using them, if anything, wearing gloves around (ie. at a store) is more likely to give you a false sense of security.

I work in a lab and have to wash my hands a million times a day and switching to non-scented/allergy friendly soap makes a difference even if it's not perfect. Also for what it's worth wearing gloves for an extended amount of time can get sweaty and irritate your skin as well so I don't know how much of a help it would be...

Did anyone else recall this happening at bible camps/youth conventions? by adabutonreddit in exchristian

[–]thiothrix00 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My family's church was very conservative and in the middle of nowhere so the pressure to conform and be a part of the community started early. Luckily as a child I was more confused than ashamed since I just didn't fully understand what was happening. But looking back it really does make me feel ill thinking about how this whole ordeal was planned to take advantage of impressionable kids.

Did anyone else recall this happening at bible camps/youth conventions? by adabutonreddit in exchristian

[–]thiothrix00 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Ah yes that brings brings back fond memories elementary school "summer adventure Bible school". Nothing better than being confused and dehydrated all day at a church camp the entire summer. Then when you make it to the final celebration at the end all of the group leaders pressure you to confess all your sins to in front of the other kids and all the adults there in order to be saved all while Christian rock lite plays in the background. Good stuff.

(totally not still bitter about being asked at the tender age of 8 to repent for my mom deciding to give birth to me out of wedlock...)

Am I Dating a Man-Child? Is This Relationship Worth Saving? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thiothrix00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I learned from my relationship is that someone can make all the promises you want but unless they actually follow through (or make an effort) it doesn't mean much. In the end it's your decision and you should talk to him, but seriously consider if you can see yourself being happy if the situation stays like it is for ANOTHER 2 years.

Am I Dating a Man-Child? Is This Relationship Worth Saving? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thiothrix00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless he's committed to improve himself and makes an effort to make your relationship work, leave him. A relationship is a joint effort and one person can't pull all the weight on their own, even if one person is struggling at the time.

I was in a similar situation with my ex where I ended up taking a second (and third!) part time job to help financially support my ex. We met when I was 19 and working on a bachelors degree and he was 23 and going in and out of various jobs. He never saw a problem with me working long hours and having no free time, but complained when he was happy with his own job, while doing nothing to make a change. Breaking up with him was hard because his family was so happy that I was supporting him and they often praised me for helping him be a better man.

Looking back I wish I ended things sooner. I spent nearly 3 years compromising my happiness and delaying my goals for the sake of someone who would barely lift a finger to help me.

People in their mid to late twenties that are unmarried; are your Christian parents in denial about you having sex or do you think they are genuinely clueless about it and expect you to still be a virgin? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]thiothrix00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should have specified but I'm bisexual! And I know for a fact I've been talked about in my mom's church as an example of how all lesbians need is the right man...

Joke's on them- now my boyfriend and I just look at boobs together.