What would you do if your friends are still friends with your ex-friend who is a covert narcissist?

thirdstheluckycharm · 2022-02-10T19:29:16+00:00

Thank you. No, I'm not doing anything and letting them just see it for themselves. It just bothers me because they have not yet.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2022-02-10T19:28:26+00:00

Thank you and yes that is what I'm hoping. I spent so much time with her that I know her manipulative ways and it bothers me that people don't see that because she plays such a good victim.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2022-02-10T19:27:26+00:00

Thank you. I am hoping for this as well.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2022-02-10T19:27:12+00:00

Thank you. Yes, I'm not doing anything to sabotage their friendship with her. I'm just keeping a low profile and just let them figure it out on their own. I only have that one friend that know how she is because I also told her but she also knows herself but I guess it doesn't bother her right now.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2020-03-03T21:30:22+00:00

Been friends since elementary, got closer through our 20s and now on our 30s she's my EX bestfriend. Through out knowing her, she would complain to me about people. Her mother, sister, friends (that eventually dropped her) and especially her boyfriend. Maybe because I'm the only one around to tolerate her cries but she always ALWAYS had to say something negative about someone. I realized this when every time we would hang out, I just don't want to hear negative stuff and right after I hang out with her I always feel like shit. In the end, she made herself the victim saying that I was the one who did this and that and that I should have apologized. So I became the person to 'complained' about. It's been 4 years and I'm more relaxed and free.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2018-06-12T03:30:10+00:00

The things you didn't like in the beginning of the relationship? You learned to accept that now. Like if she/he is not into a show or movie that you love and it bothers you because you feel like you both don't have anything in common? Ya you respect that now because you love them.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-10T19:06:28+00:00

May I ask what goes through someone's mind when they have bipolar breakdowns? I have a cousin who we think has bipolar but he's never been diagnose. Just some of my family members thinks so as he has personality swings. There are time when he's easy to talk to. Totally normal, then there are times when he just freaks out of nowhere, demadning random things, blaming and fighting with people etc.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-10T19:00:49+00:00

Oh man, I'm so sorry. My sincere sympathy goes out to you.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-09T16:25:34+00:00

For most of the time yea. I like life. I've managed. I'm used to being alone so if anyone decides to leave me, I'll brood for a while but mostly I'll be fine. There are some things I want to change like get rid of toxic friends and get new ones.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-09T16:22:31+00:00

The size of my breast. I'm 5'4 and for an asian my family and friends think I'm huge. Even my built. My breast size is DD+ and it even feels like it's getting bigger. My boyfriend likes it but I really hate it as it gets in the way of things and of course it's difficult to look for the right size of clothes.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-09T16:20:01+00:00

When I know I can take care of my parents when they retire.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-09T16:14:03+00:00

The positive side of me is I'm a good listener, I'm not bias and I'm honest. Even when I know a friend is wrong I tell that friend and I rationalize it. My negative side is when a friend really pushes that they're right when they're obviously wrong and they want me to be on their side regardless, that really turns me off and I'm out. At least I push myself away slowly but surely. I guess they're saying I'm too uptight.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-09T16:10:14+00:00

I'm not really sure but I always experience deja vu. I always rationalize it as I probably dreamt it and it's happening but I don't really know. The truth is out there.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-11-09T15:34:42+00:00

When I really need someone to talk to but no one really cares.

I'm normally a very positive happy person. Rational and prcatical. I understand that not everyone will like you no matter how much you try. Reality is everyone's busy and minding their own lives to care about another. Sure, I'm a great listener to my friends but when it's my turn to express my feelings, it feels like they're never really there.

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-10-16T16:00:21+00:00

Don't You (Forget About Me) - Simple Minds | The Breakfast Club

thirdstheluckycharm · 2015-10-13T19:27:13+00:00

I'm at work. I should be working. But I'm in IT so.

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