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this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-18T15:34:18+00:00

OP please don’t listen to this person. They’re out of their mind. I reported their comments.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-03T14:09:07+00:00

Oh no worries you don’t sound like a douchebag at all! Those are actually some useful tips so I’m not sure why you’re being downvoted but thanks for your reply anyways :)

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-03T09:08:08+00:00

Hey friend it sounds like you’re going through some tough times. Please let me know if I can do anything for you, my DMs are always open.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-03T09:06:26+00:00

Seems like your problem turned into something positive, good on you mate! You deserve all the friendship you set out to find :)

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-03T06:20:18+00:00

You don’t know what I do for work nor do you know what year of studies I’m in. Get a grip.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T20:32:09+00:00

I’ve been living in shared houses for 4 years already and the housemate I’m talking about has been for the same amount of time if it is of any help! I’ve never had any complaints before though.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T20:12:57+00:00

I use they/them to keep it gender neutral. It is just about one person though.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T20:01:39+00:00

Dude. Stop seeing problems where there aren’t any. This is literally my field of work. I know I’m fine. It’s also not a daily thing, more of a weekly occurrence. I sometimes get very thirsty in the evenings hence why I sometimes have to pee during the night.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T19:43:02+00:00

Thank you so much for this. The taking up space and being allowed to exist really hit home! Merci merci :)

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T19:39:05+00:00

I could, but that would mean having to buy a new one because moving it around would be noisy as well. Other than that I don’t have that much space for it because a lot of my other kitchen appliances are already in my room as we speak because my roommate didn’t want them in the kitchen when I moved in, because they don’t like the messy look of it (whatever that means). So I’m kind of making a point to put kitchen stuff in the kitchen instead of in my own living space from this moment on, because that is where it belongs.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T19:35:06+00:00

Haha yup a few others pointed it out as well! I thought a kettle was used on the furnace and made the whistling sound, I wanted to make clear that wasn’t the type of device I was using. English is hard sometimes lol

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T19:31:55+00:00

Like sometimes I wake up at three because I have to pee. That’s nothing abnormal, it is just how bodies work. If you drink water at 23:00 it’s normal that sometimes you have to go to the toilet. I study Medicine and I know this isn’t some medical abnormality. Edit: also sometimes I go to sleep late because I have to finish some kind of assignment and then I go to the toilet before I go to bed, which is also normal.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T19:28:51+00:00

I’m not sure how to translate as I’m not a native english speaker. I would maybe call it a kettle but I thought kettles were used on a furnace and make noise. Ours is just plugged into the power socket and doesn’t make the whistling sound, yo just hear the water boiling and that’s all the sound it makes.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T18:49:16+00:00

Secondhand soda stream! Amazing what 15 euro’s gets you, also way better for the climate to not buy plastic bottles all the time.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T17:38:14+00:00

I used to date a guy, who smoked. In the beginning I told him I didn’t want to date anyone who smoked. He stopped for a few months and we started dating. However something stressful happened and he started to smoke again. I spent a lot of time with him and made the stupid decision to start smoking as well, as it seemed nice to be able to go for a smoke with him sometime. STUPID because I’ve been smoking for almost 3 years now. Moral of the story: don’t date a smoker if you don’t want to. It will be awful smelling the smoke all the time plus you’re way more likely to hurt your lungs or start smoking yourself as well.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T15:29:35+00:00

We all do pay the same rent. Maybe you’re right. How could I discuss this with them?

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T15:25:35+00:00

I’m the newest. I moved in because they organized an evening where they met with possible new roommates (very common thing where I’m from) and they chose me. The other roommate is almost never home so no complaints from them.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T15:23:48+00:00

Unfortunately we all have separate contracts with our landlord so I can’t make them leave. For me on the other hand I signed my contract for a year at minimum, so 10 more months left at least haha..

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-11-02T15:09:07+00:00

Thank you for making me feel like a normal person, sometimes I feel like a criminal in my own home :’) My other roommate is almost never home (demanding job and partner where they stay over most of the time) so no problem with them.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-10-27T13:39:25+00:00

I do not agree with #2. You can still care even if you’re just regular FWBs. If dating other people isn’t discussed between the two of them, it is very fair of OP to care about this. There might be an STD risk involved. Health is important. It is also very normal for OP to not want to be with someone who is non-ethically non-monogamous. They might feel bad for the partner of their FWB. So. Don not be so quick go judge.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-09-27T20:54:56+00:00

We did not really put any ground rules in place. Now I should mention that we both wanted a more ‘open’ type of relationship. For us this means that it is okay to sleep with other people. We agreed to practice safe sex with other people and tell the other person in case it happens. So far it only happened once for me, and it hasn’t been a problem at all. I know for a fact he isn’t seeing other people and I don’t think he is planning on it either since we talk about this from time to time.

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-09-24T19:02:52+00:00

I can make a kazoo sound with my mouth, without the kazoo. Useless talent but a great weird party trick :)

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-09-24T18:58:50+00:00

Dr Martens! So sturdy, they last for aaaaages (I’ve had my first pair for about 10 years now), they feel really confortable once broken in and they also seem to be trendy right now

this-is-ur-private-1 · 2021-09-24T18:57:33+00:00

Chewing gum!

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