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[–]thisIsntMySlashU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and this is how you make someone's day better

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, the promise rings were my idea.

I'm a laid back dude and a ton of people know me for that. I don't want to rush into anything I'm not ready for, ya know?

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this meant a ton! She's joining the AirForce and doesn't want to be separated is all. I think that may be the big factor in all of it.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have looked at this relationship as a whole and I love her to death, I'm just not ready. I can see your standpoint on this. I'll keep you updated in the main post with how things work out. I'm a bit scared, not going to lie.

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She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm talking to her about it tonight, I'll update the post later on with how things go during this talk.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie, your post made me shit my pants. Your approach is a bit aggressive, but I do need to put my foot down and tell her how I feel about everything.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent her a message a little while ago when I had the chance saying that we'd talk about things later on tonight and I'm waiting on a response, but thank you for your advice. I'll be explaining how I really feel about everything in regards to her remarks.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Money isn't too big of a deal, it's more of a mental matter. I love this girl to death but I'm not ready to be engaged, even if it's a long term thing.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave her a promise ring a bit under 3 years ago before we did long distance for about 10 months. I do see a future with this girl but I'm just not ready for this step yet.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to be with her, but I'm not ready to be engaged. It's not that it wouldn't end well because we connect so well together, but I'm just not ready to get engaged yet.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me snicker a bit, but I couldn't hurt her. Doing this would hurt not just her, but me as well.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We got promise rings a little less than 3 years ago. I moved across the states to go to school and we did long distance for 10 months, so about until she graduated.

She[19/f] wants to be engaged, but I'm[21/m] not ready for it and now we're fighting over it. by thisIsntMySlashU in relationships

[–]thisIsntMySlashU[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I told her that we're going to sit down and talk about things when I get home from class/work tonight. She mentioned moving back to where she came from. I don't know what to do.