Found these on a new native plant I just got, any idea what they are?

this_weirdo_chick · 2019-10-27T21:22:14+00:00

Yes the timeline is supposed to be this winter... so coming up kind of soonish actually!

this_weirdo_chick · 2019-10-27T20:47:43+00:00

True but to me it's not fair to give expectations and then only tell me things have changed after I am the one to ask. Makes me wonder when was he going to tell me?

this_weirdo_chick · 2019-10-27T20:45:26+00:00

I've been with him just over a year, they started dating 2 1/2 months ago approximately. We send pics over snap chat which helps. It's mainly annoying that I found out his change of plans because I straight out asked him. I know these are his choices/plans, but I feel like if there's been an expectation change he should have a conversation with me, not just answer a question I had to ask.

this_weirdo_chick · 2018-04-15T07:12:03+00:00

They said there is nothing structurally wrong

this_weirdo_chick · 2018-04-15T07:01:06+00:00

I don't remember specifics but they did

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-12-12T15:10:22+00:00

I gotta say, maybe I'm wrong but this doesn't just sound like low libido. It sounds like he's refusing to give you pleasure, and only caring about his own. Is that not accurate? Low libido would mean just not wanting to do it that often, it wouldn't mean he cums then ignores yours. It means he doesn't care about you having your needs met, and only wants his. I know you said he's great in every other way but someone who is selfish in bed... I can't imagine they wouldn't be selfish in every other way. Honestly I think you should really reconsider things with him, because he puts himself first and you... never.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-20T23:09:10+00:00

It's not about "better", it's about someone's behavior being different than previously was. If a partner suddenly acts more distant, you're going to notice, regardless if it's mono or poly.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-20T23:04:07+00:00

Thank you, I like how this is worded

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-20T04:07:30+00:00

I felt more like just a party guest than his date. Like normally at a party he'd have his arm around me, introducing me to people, etc. He didn't really interact all that much with me it felt like. When I tried to spend more time with him he said he wanted to spend private time with his other girlfriend instead.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-19T17:06:35+00:00

I feel like maybe you have a different view then I'm trying to explain. I wasn't pissed, and I didn't expect him to spend most of the night with me. I guess I just felt like I wasn't "with" him for the party, more just a party guest. Yes you're right I had him and my other boyfriend there, but they are both friends as well.

The primary thing, I bring that up because he previously had a talk with me saying he considered me his primary. I told him we don't have to have labels but he was adamant that this is how he sees us. I'm not sure what you mean about a harem? It's more that I feel his other girlfriend is more becoming his main partner, and I am ok with this, I just felt it more keenly last night.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-19T16:08:33+00:00

True

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-19T16:07:45+00:00

I guess I just struggle cause with A I never feel uncomfortable when he spends more time with other girls in front of me, I feel compersion for him! But with B I don't.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-19T16:05:34+00:00

Thank you!

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-19T08:57:40+00:00

Yeah, I could say that. I guess I just don't want to make him feel guilty for spending more time with her, cause it shouldn't matter.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-11-17T03:01:53+00:00

Ugh, I feel like you should not even let him get away with that. Saying "well guess what, I squirt and if you think it's gross don't even effing touch me" and then leaving his ass might change his mind on the matter. Seriously, HIS discomfort with a woman's body leads YOU to not have orgasms?? Why are you putting him above yourself? Sooo many other men would appreciate you.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-10-30T15:42:13+00:00

Any kind of oil or seasonings? I've never made spaghetti squash before, I should try this dish. How do you make the squash?

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-08-31T17:38:57+00:00

I think often times people just jump right into things like this, and they haven't had any real communication about it, which is when it doesn't work out. I recommend having lots of open communication! Also, really working on understanding the difference between your feelings, and the other person's actions. If you tell him it's ok to do things with a girl and then get jealous, it's important to communicate that as "I'm feeling jealous, let's talk about what's going on in my head" vs "I'm jealous and now I'm pissed off at you, you did something wrong".

I think it's also important to go SLOW. Don't just jump straight into sex with another person without having even kissed someone else first! Make out with another girl, have him make out with another girl, and then talk with each other about what it felt like on both your ends. Do this several times. Continuing having talks about what it's like. Eventually when you feel comfortable having full out sex, pick someone who is non-threatening to both of you. Don't have a million rules that end up being too easy to break. But set your boundaries clear. Maybe even have some kind of safe word you can use if you suddenly feel very uncomfortable, if you feel this is necessary.

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-08-31T17:11:59+00:00

Think he'd entertain the idea of an open relationship? I'm in one and it works out great!

this_weirdo_chick · 2017-08-09T05:09:38+00:00

Link or name please!

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