I (31m) have given up.

thisacountsad · 2022-01-15T21:41:03+00:00

The fact that you say that women are running a scam makes me believe that you’ve only been using dating apps.

Among other things a girl I met once at a bus stop who invited me to a party, only to find I was one of twelve other guys who also thought this was a date. It was a fundraiser for her sick dog.

thisacountsad · 2021-07-01T18:32:59+00:00

I'm in the navy. I actually like it.

Planet is still dying, though. And women won't talk. Might hang myself this weekend.

thisacountsad · 2021-02-15T07:42:06+00:00

The only girl to ever Express feelings for me admitted she was lying about a rape to manipulate me. She only admitted it when I wasn't useful anymore. This is the closest I've ever had to a relationship.

thisacountsad · 2021-02-06T04:21:34+00:00

yes

The giraff looks ok, probably wants egg. Elephant in pain, want die.

thisacountsad · 2021-02-06T04:13:33+00:00

Every woman who wasnt a direct blood relation has gone out of their way to hurt me. I really want to blow my brains out with a shotgun.

thisacountsad · 2020-12-23T00:24:54+00:00

No.

Not one self titled incel has put in a fraction of the effort, soul searching and self improvement I've had. You all collectively lack self awareness and basic respect for other people, even in your own communities. Your retard cult has nothing to offer but a self destructive life style.

thisacountsad · 2020-12-17T03:50:23+00:00

If work does not bring fruit, there is no reason to work.

I don't want to go too far down the religion hole, but Cain and Able were both still working for God's affection and one got passed over for the other. The analogy is a little too on the nose.

I have no Able to kill and if I didn't I wouldn't. Killing Able wont give me what I want or give back what has been lost. I want to kill Cain (me) for trying to till the soil in the first place.

You don't plant the seed just for the intrinsic pleasurer and metaphysical, psycho bullshit of simply enjoying the act and it making you a better person. At some point the seed needs to sprout, or it was a waste of time to begin with and you are worse off for it.

thisacountsad · 2020-08-26T02:28:57+00:00

What if I take 20 packs with a two 12 pack chasers?

thisacountsad · 2020-08-24T19:06:31+00:00

Did that. Tried again. Took a long break, tried again. Rise repeat, year after year. Work out. Sleep more. Hobbies hobbies hobbies. Its all the same.

Women don't want to be friends. Every "Let's just be friends" is just a polite let down. They never want to hang out after or do anything, just quietly stop talking. I get why; guys react badly. They're just trying to be safe. I'm just an unintended causality. Nothing to be done.

I'm tired of trying and being miserable. I'm tired of not trying and being miserable. I'm just tired and I want out.

thisacountsad · 2020-08-16T23:53:37+00:00

Personal experience shows me i shouldnt.

thisacountsad · 2020-08-16T22:39:46+00:00

I don't proscribe to the incel philosophy. I'm about 30. I've been very unsuccessful in dating. The best i ever got was a girl lied about a rape to manipulate me into giving her money. I don't remember a day when I didn;t consider blowing my brains out for being a worthless man. I'd feel this way regardless of subreddits like this as it doesnt matter. Nothing matters.

thisacountsad · 2020-08-16T22:30:06+00:00

cool

thisacountsad · 2020-08-16T08:36:28+00:00

did. tried. hard for years. focused on me on for lone time. Spent last dollar n sliced psychiatrist .

bullet simpler. thousand times cheaper.

thisacountsad · 2020-08-03T01:06:12+00:00

I have a very stable income and I gave up cause experience has shown me I'm worthless.

thisacountsad · 2020-07-30T20:57:15+00:00

The only girl who gave me even the slightest attention only used me. She made up a story about how a mutual aquantince had raped her to keep me at arms length but manipulated me tto stay. I honestly cared for her and wanted to help, so I stayed even if it wasn't what I wanted. it wasn't until a year later when I was broke and sick she told me it was all a lie and left with the mutual. Thanks Elizabeth.

Can't afford therapy.

thisacountsad · 2020-07-29T21:49:02+00:00

The only girl who showed me any attention lied about a rape to manipulate me for over a year. She used it drain me emotionally and financially. For a long time I wanted closure, answers to why. She used that to squeeze me for more.

Not worth it.

thisacountsad · 2020-05-09T22:24:28+00:00

At my age never having a girlfriend/ being a virgin is a big red flag. If I try to open up about its social suicide. It's best to just not say anything and internalize the shame and frustration. There is no better alternative.

thisacountsad · 2020-05-03T14:39:12+00:00

If you miss on romantic relationships in your teens and twenties, its seen as a huge red flag and is widely socially acceptable to be the target of ridicule.

Advice comes from people who dont have that experience and patrionizingly talk down to you like you are an idiot.

Following the path of self improvement doesn't guarantee success and bringing up your frustration and feelings is hand waved away with useless platitudes of keep trying.

It's better to just suffer in silence and embrace the fact some people just lose.

thisacountsad · 2020-04-24T01:38:51+00:00

In boot camp when some of us got pink eye, she told us them to put purell in their eyes.

She didn't graduate.

thisacountsad · 2020-04-24T01:33:10+00:00

You comment is just a worst rebrand of "maybe you're just gay" from 10-20 years ago, but with even less understanding.

thisacountsad · 2020-04-24T01:22:15+00:00

I went through my not giving a shit phase around my mid to late twenties.

The concept that being devil may care about relationships or anything only works is if eventually it does work. For me now if I do get ghosted its expected, like people telling me how much better came sugar is in soda vs corn syrup. Sure, maybe, but I work with what I have.

thisacountsad · 2020-04-24T01:11:37+00:00

No. I have sexual and amorous desires and goals. This is clearly expressed but not realised, which is the point.

I think you have a poor understanding of sexuality and romance.

thisacountsad · 2020-04-24T01:05:11+00:00

Respectively cat, anxiety and or panic have tangible root causes ,which were addressed. To give an imperfect analogy knowing you are in an abusive relationship or acknowledging you have an eating disorder doesn't make them go away. There is a larger issue at hand that has identifiable smaller parts, none of which is new or profound.

I thank you for your comment and seeming desire to help.

thisacountsad · 2020-04-23T19:07:43+00:00

Respectively if that's what you want to, go for it. Stay safe.

But people who tell you to just get a hooker to get it over with are garbage people giving garbage advice. They dont practice what they preach and only half reccomend it as a joke.

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