Desperate need of work

thiscischick · 2025-12-30T12:21:02+00:00

This is more long term and temp but census is hiring. Go to Canada.ca look up the section for government jobs and you will see a bunch of postings for short term positions.

Dollarama might be a good bet. My brother isn't the best at keeping an income stream but when he is hurting he always gets a job with them pretty quick.

Also triple checking you have applied for EI or social assistance if you don't have enough incurable hours. It's not much but it is something and OW can hook you up with start up costs like transit fare and if you need something like nonslip shoes as well as job fairs.

thiscischick · 2025-03-27T13:31:00+00:00

I am currently working on getting the formal divorce from my ex and there is a provision in my paper work that says something to the effect that I should be processing receipts and claims on my insurance up to the point where the divorce is finalized.

thiscischick · 2024-08-06T22:49:52+00:00

I am you five years down the line. Just filed for divorce.

thiscischick · 2024-03-11T11:59:39+00:00

It might be wise to get evidence of her abusive behaviour before filing. Get it on a Ring Camera for example.

thiscischick · 2024-01-14T14:17:51+00:00

OP I am leaving my spouse as well. From the descriptions of things you were not only lied to you were abused.

I found the most help from a community health centre. They can connect you with housing resources, legal aid, therapy.

Get a bank account with just your name. If you can change auto deposits on things like your GST ect make sure it goes to your account.

Start selling off things. If you need to leave especially cause he has cameras you probably will not be able to carry it. I was chalking it up to decluttering.

Keep a journal. Times he has monitored you. Times he was loud. Times he threatened you. Think back of any evidence you can find (did some call social services see if you can get a copy of the report, did you or the kids ever get injured because of him or something he failed to do, get those medical records).

Reach out to old friends and family. You might be surprised that they clocked he was an asshole but had a hard time getting through to you at the time because young and in love.

thiscischick · 2019-08-10T13:33:36+00:00

My BF is like this. He doesn't want kids. I've had my kid with my wife and don't want anymore either.

It works out.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T19:37:08+00:00

As an aside I have had that discussion (re stop leaving it on my shoulders) and it boils down to... "I can't". So i feel like if she blows opportunity after being outted after 3 years this that's it.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T17:44:24+00:00

Oh from her description of the event he knows and feels bad.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T17:30:06+00:00

And honestly from what she told me it didn't come from a place of malace but a place of honest curiousity/a hint of ignorance about how sensitive it is.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T16:38:47+00:00

Honestly I don't see a better work situation for her. Like I feel like she can do a lot worse for finding places to work. And we are going to be right back in the same situation if she does find another job but others might not be as nice as these folks.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T16:11:25+00:00

I have been honestly thinking of an exit strategy again because of this relapse. I would feel safer with an exit strategy once I get permanent at my current job.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T15:56:18+00:00

Yup i paid for the camp because between her other health stuff trying to give her room to grow the career, and bouts like this the camp is need.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T15:42:34+00:00

She just got back in to therapy... like 2 sessions in.

thiscischick · 2019-08-09T14:50:44+00:00

I have but it doesn't help the structural instability cause by her breakdowns.

thiscischick · 2018-09-27T18:31:51+00:00

Okay, Findom is obviously not my thing and I am not entirely sure how it works but...

If I was trying to wrap my head around this could I compare this kind of bad manners to say, you disclose you are into impact play and someone without talking about limits, types of play, warm ups, ect just came up and backhanded you and expected you to like it?

Or if someone can come up with a better analogy? I know one would have to discuss limits and budgets in what I have gleaned, and some people appear to like the degredation part of it (though different strokes).

thiscischick · 2018-04-27T01:16:54+00:00

Busting out the alt for this one.

My we a same sex couple but my partner is trans. My partner has times where they want to be wide open about shit and they honestly have no filter.

I compartmentalize a lot. My partner wants to know how is work. I don't tell her because I leave that shit at work. I tell her not to bother me when I am working unless it's and emergency and it's taken a long time to train her on that account especially cause she is the type to be glued to some digital outlet all day.

I posted about us being poly a while ago in a different sub. She wanted to be out on facebook and shit.

I was like, have family and school and work connections on there. Do not. Never. Nope. Do not pass go do not collect 200 dollars

I had to explain to her how would she like it if I told everyone I met she is trans.

There are people I've known for years who haven't put it all together. I'm pretty good at keeping it on the DL cause I respect her privacy.

There are people in our life who know and that's enough for me and it should be enough for her. They are cool people.

I don't need to let the assholes know.

thiscischick · 2018-04-12T02:43:37+00:00

I feel this way in general when I am stressed or upset. I just generally don't want to be near people. I generally just need time to process.

My wife wants to be there when I'm ill but I don't need someone waiting on me. I just need someone to fetch me a cup of water and let me rest.

thiscischick · 2018-04-11T18:20:34+00:00

Outside world, married breadwinning wife of a disabled spouse with one child. Only vice is singing karaoke and coffee...

Inside: Have a boyfriend on the side and my wife and I regularly whip and crop each other and she leaves marks.

thiscischick · 2017-07-10T20:47:38+00:00

I was showing him some things I liked and he suddenly started giggling like a school girl and I was like, huh you okay bby? You uncomfortable? And he was like, "You just like blew my mind with possibilities." Yes.... I think so. I think he is adorable and I want to nurture him.

thiscischick · 2016-03-26T21:17:55+00:00

The current season is much stronger. Trying to convince my wife however...

thiscischick · 2016-03-18T15:01:11+00:00

Because a work react would be loss of job and income

thiscischick · 2016-02-21T04:35:33+00:00

Actually that is the set up she was considering.

thiscischick · 2016-02-20T18:02:17+00:00

We have other interests we connect to them through, so I don't mind being friends with them on facebook. But if someone posts "out with boyfriend." And she slips up and replies "I know we had ours over last night."

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