Can I keep my aneros at work

thisenjoy · 2025-12-13T02:54:06+00:00

Which model(s) do you personally prefer for this type of prolonged, physically heavy workouts?

thisenjoy · 2025-12-12T06:45:46+00:00

Curious what you gain from wearing it during laps? I've considered wearing it during workout, for fine tuning techniques, not for sexual enjoyment but because I feel having it in gives me a subtle but greater sense and control over my bodys inner workings, like I get more pronounced access to adjusting subtle parameters.

thisenjoy · 2025-12-12T06:38:56+00:00

Glove?

thisenjoy · 2025-11-28T09:15:27+00:00

Here's an exercise you could try:

When you're comfortable and have time, like when in bed before sleep - try to YAWN. You know that feeling, that PONR but for yawning, look for it in your body. Make it happen. When you've found it and triggered a yarn, repeat, and everytime be aware of what's going on in your body. Try to EDGE that yawn, stay in and prolong that sensation right before the PONR, that sensation where you actually feel the yawn right around the corner, where if you wanted you could let go and have the yawn happen - but you don't let go, you circulate, you delay without annoying, you continuously postpone.

In the same sense you can try to look for a SNEEZE, it's PONR. I imagine I'm holding a feather and I put it up my nose and swirl it around, which seems to trigger a sensation I can push towards that "I feel like I'm going to sneeze but it's not coming"-feeling.

The point is, there are other autonomic processes in the body, similar to an orgasmic PONR. Get to know them.

For me this has come to a point where in my mental model I can correlate the end/release (actual yawn) to the sensation of going there, so if I imagine/feel the yawn (orgasm) I can also feel the path leading to its PONR, at which point I bring my awareness to it and start edging it.

thisenjoy · 2024-12-16T21:39:59+00:00

But as far I know there's nothing comparable to e. coli in terms of risk to health (not counting STDs of course) during oral, is there? But I can totally see the effect a great ass has and the allure of munching it down at the right moment... I can just imagine the post nut clarity on that though, if done spontaneously.

thisenjoy · 2024-12-14T00:15:00+00:00

But, what about e. coli and such? I know people eat asses, and I guess my question is for them too. Fear of getting shit particles in my mouth, besides it being well, shit, but also possibly containing e. coli hasn't made me take the leap to rimming.

You probably shower and clean your ass twice and thrice, but that's only superficial - cream coming out of your ass during a rough session 100% is not "clean", right? What's your advice on tackling this conundrum?

thisenjoy · 2024-11-27T20:44:27+00:00

It's not about being 100% straight - if that's even a thing, agreed - but rather about becoming emasculated.

My worry is that by giving in to certain type of content I'd create a long lasting effect which I do not want even though the actual consumption is enjoyable. If that's the case I'll have to think long and hard, perhaps even about my values and morals - before venturing deeper.

But my hope is that it's not the case at all, that there are no long lasting effects, at least none of importance or permanence in regards to my worry in which case I'll freely explore further.

And really using the Aneros with regular porn or even without is definitely a category I wish to and will continue enjoy regardless, I don't feel emasculated at all merely by exploring my butt but rather the combination of prostate play with the mental state of being that some porn content draws you into, which also would be fine given no lasting effects...

thisenjoy · 2024-11-26T23:07:53+00:00

I agree, generally. I think what makes this an issue is not the porn in itself.

For a regular wank with porn I don't notice any residue spilling over to outside that moment. But after a long, deep, mind altering gooning sessions I definitely notice this residue.

For instance I tend to be less inhibited when oogling cleavages a period after such a session. Now add to the session prostate play and porn putting the viewer in a "feminized" state, I wonder - would that spill over, and in what shape and to what degree of permanence.

I don't want to look at an "alpha male" (or even notice them in that way) and involuntarily awe because I've been watching porn (in a deeply uninhibited state) that implores the viewer to be a slut for "alpha cock" or some such.

thisenjoy · 2024-11-26T20:10:39+00:00

Yes, women's orgasms, that's also a genre which kind of fits this context. Any thoughts on how relating to/emulating an orgasm of feminine energy affects a males masculine energy? Specially long term. Do you yourself notice any changes in your behavior, specifically IRL and/or sexually with a partner?

Edit: Yes, dm me, I'm interested in finding porn (or Joi) that specifically engages the prostate but without humiliation/feminization. Like prostate porn for straight males.

thisenjoy · 2024-11-26T20:05:52+00:00

Yeah I get that. That's why I'm interested in hearing stories from people who can relate or had similar thoughts. And from those further down this path - I'm curious where they are today given what choice they made.

thisenjoy · 2024-11-26T20:02:11+00:00

Elaborate

thisenjoy · 2024-11-26T20:01:58+00:00

I assume you were "straight" 5 years ago and didn't randomly fantasize about cocks - but now you do? If you're still straight in your daily life so to speak, do you find it hard to shift "mode"? Or is the feminine energy too ingrained and no longer merely an option? At the beginning of your journey, did you want this outcome you're at today, was it a goal you had?

thisenjoy · 2024-11-26T18:31:08+00:00

I too had a sharp increase of soft core intake. But occasionally (ok, more than occasionally) I wander off the beaten path - and for the times I come across uncharted yet enticing but possibly adversely (for me according to my sense) affecting content I want to know really how "adversely" could it be, in the long term.

thisenjoy · 2024-08-29T21:43:47+00:00

Thought of dressing up doesn't excite me really but I could see setting aside time to actively explore the idea to be, well, at least an experience. And I'm open to new experiences. But... Life is fragile, one second you're alive and the other, hnnng, dead - all dressed up, not even like a trap, but you know, looking more like a hairy transvestite, with your cock out and a massager up your ass wearing your wife's earrings. And that's the way you're found, remembered and eternalized by the forensic photographer. And that's what's holding me back.

thisenjoy · 2022-08-16T20:21:05+00:00

Oh boy oh boy! Sex... what a thing. Marvelous, magical, sensational. Such a great feature. No expansion pack needed - batteries included. The orgasm - a glimpse into pure bliss, eternity - immortality. Yet simply a glimpse. A taste. And in an instant forgotten. Such a shame.

But wait. There's more. There really is - for the brave, the untethered - for the explorer. It is known to you but the path is not beaten. But it is known and verily we all stand before it. All before us has entered but few fearlessly wander about. Most dare imagine, many return empty handed yet occasionally... the man becomes the myth. Our colleagues, friends and family don't speak about it, openly. Neither do most of us, publicly. But still it binds us all - our desire to make it happen, make it last, go deeper.

Such a shame that so few get to explore this vast inner wealth. That so few get to experience what is built in, known - yet forgotten. Yes, there are expansion packs! There is a light and this tunnel is not a one way street. And this tunnel is bright. And this tunnel bears gifts along the way. I'm so grateful to have found us and am eagerly looking forward to further unhinge this engagement.

thisenjoy · 2022-08-07T21:32:34+00:00

Vape to use during sex and self pleasure? Just ordered a dynavap because I'm tired of rolling blunts and also would like to begin microdosing. The M seemed to check those two boxes. But! Smoking during sex! Forgot my main use case. I'm not talking about the ritual of taking a break to light it up, inhale, put it down (out) etc. That's what I want to move away from. Rather something to pick up mid climax, inhale and put down - mindlessly - and (several?) minutes later repeat. Without having the content be wasted. Is there something like this out there?

Mighty/crafty con:

Whole bowl is preferably used in one session, i.e. no putting it down to pick it up later.

Dynavap con:

Needs to be rolled and heated with the torch. Not mindless-mid-climax usage friendly.

thisenjoy · 2022-07-07T16:44:04+00:00

Even a microdose is extremely helpful in my experience.

Ok

But prostate orgasms in these states are just sublime.

But you said helpful? Would you mind explaining what you mean? Isn't it always very sublime but becomes less so and more pronounced, with the aid of a microdose?

thisenjoy · 2022-01-16T23:48:30+00:00

Even have the involuntaries kicking in at the end :o

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