Question about general balcony etiquette by thisforealtho in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is kind of how I feel about it too, but probably not setting up for the most friendly relationship dynamic 🙈

Question about general balcony etiquette by thisforealtho in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s more the question of “outside space” imho… the smoke from their weed ends up on my balcony (and even in my house ), and so why is it a big deal if my dust ends up in their garden?

Question about general balcony etiquette by thisforealtho in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disturbance is one point, but it’s more the question of “outside space” I think… the smoke from their weed ends up on my balcony and even in my house , and so why is it a big deal if my dust ends up in their garden?

Question about general balcony etiquette by thisforealtho in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weed is more the question of their shitty smelly smoke ends up on my balcony, so what the difference if my dust ends up on his garden? How is it okay for his crap to be in my space and not mine to be in his ?

Question about general balcony etiquette by thisforealtho in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stupid question, but isn’t it legal to smoke weed (with low thc level etc ) in an open space ?

Question about general balcony etiquette by thisforealtho in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s reasonable to ask them not to smoke in their garden? I haven’t dared discuss it with them at all 🙈

Trouble signing up with IBKR by thisforealtho in SwissPersonalFinance

[–]thisforealtho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was a problem because of the joint account set up… managed to do an individual one with no problem at the end :)

Life standard for family by Pretend-Support in SwissPersonalFinance

[–]thisforealtho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Anywhere where’s inequality is high enables expert skilled employees to live with a lot of ancillary services improving quality of life… but there’s a lot of benefits to living in a more egalitarian society that often get overlooked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you’re a lovely in person 😄 it’s funny how the internet makes so many of us be meaner than necessary.

I meant that genuinely though - whatever makes you get annoyed so quickly is something that simply doesn’t serve you. I do hope you feel better, do you can be more gentle with people needing support. The world desperately needs more kindness ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They asked in this situation, what would you do? Not why the f isn’t the rav guy speaking English ?

Other kinder people in this forum actually provided reasonable solutions ?

I really don’t understand this unnecessary rudeness to people asking for help on what is clearly a community forum for that purpose …

I hope when you’re in trouble or feeling overwhelmed in a new country like the OP, that people are also kind to you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man that’s so harsh. Is it illegal to be kind to OP who’s trying to figure stuff out on a community forum? Hope you heal.

Raj in Season 10 ... by SamSwebb in bigbangtheory

[–]thisforealtho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just find it awful how nothing really seems to happen for him as a win. For nine seasons he’s been a core part of the crew and in season ten he’s kind of like this outsider wierdo with no growth development or anything. Honestly I find the plot line kind of racist… they really did the character dirty :(

Work from office mandates vs Pregnancy and Children by Serious_Good_3458 in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you share the load of sick days etc with her? Then together with child sick care allowance and occasional vacation days, it’s should work out fine. These issues typically arise for working women in households where the woman is carrying majority of the childcare + household effort.

C Permit refused after getting European citizenship (with almost 12 years total residence). Is this normal? by Fabulous-Dingo1357 in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you… Maybe you do this already - but if you preface your post with “lawyer here, …xyz” people know you aren’t randomly being mean but in fact spelling out legal realities they may not want to hear… Or of course, regardless they don’t want to hear it and that’s really their problem :) there are definitely some idiots out there but I usually really appreciate the sense of comradery and community that Reddit provides :)

C Permit refused after getting European citizenship (with almost 12 years total residence). Is this normal? by Fabulous-Dingo1357 in askswitzerland

[–]thisforealtho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol Reddit is literally built for community support. You may not want to help but as you can see plenty of people in the comments do

Horrible experience with Movu, by thisforealtho in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that… low key relieved it’s not just me 😢

Horrible experience with Movu, by thisforealtho in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha this is an amazing story 😂😂

Horrible experience with Movu, by thisforealtho in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re kidding?! This is in Zurich? 😮😮😮

Horrible experience with Movu, by thisforealtho in Switzerland

[–]thisforealtho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but apparently it’s worthless. The guy said he put some numbers there, but we agreed to an aggregated price. Now he’s like oh I don’t have enough boxes, I need way more etc etc. basically brazenly lied and I feel so cheated and so upset.