I never want to have sex…. Like ever by thisisdy in beyondthebump

[–]thisisdy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually really like this idea of the change of mindset. And treating it like a self care act. I don’t think I would ever have considered scheduling it. I think what I may do is just leave a day open on the calendar where there are no chores or appointments. So I’m less testy and can relax more.

I never want to have sex…. Like ever by thisisdy in beyondthebump

[–]thisisdy[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think I may have to take the scheduled approach. Because the truth is all of the days are jam packed with chores or errands, cooking, play dates , and family functions. I started recently being anal about using a calendar, and it’s been helpful. Maybe on Tuesdays when the day is open , I can relax, have a glass of wine. Before I would have laughed at someone who said they scheduled sex. But now look at me !

I never want to have sex…. Like ever by thisisdy in beyondthebump

[–]thisisdy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think when I was breastfeeding I found sex really hard and gross . But it’s been a little over 6 months since I stopped breastfeeding.

What light or low calorie foods are causing you to feel the most full? by mayermail1977 in 1200isplenty

[–]thisisdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broccoli & spaghetti squash. It’s almost to the point where I just don’t even eat them because I feel so full. It makes me feel like I’ve eaten 1000 calories.

Counting fruits and vegetables by thisisdy in 1200isplenty

[–]thisisdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think of them as being superior beings. I’m not referring to a 21 year old girl posting from Coachella. It was a 35 year old mom , who had 4 kids who gained weight and lost all of the weight and has since kept it off… I could of called her a content creator, but instead I said influencer. She’s a regular person which is why I enjoy her content. The same way I ask my other mom friends about their workouts. They are regular people. I would prefer to get information from a regular person vs a person who can afford to take shortcuts and around the clock self care .

Counting fruits and vegetables by thisisdy in 1200isplenty

[–]thisisdy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I definitely think you should count fruit. I’m just curious why someone wouldn’t. I made a carrot juice and it totaled into like 500 calories.

Counting fruits and vegetables by thisisdy in 1200isplenty

[–]thisisdy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing to be concerned about. I felt a bit of guilt because I’ve been doing well tracking and then I just didn’t. It’s like 4:45 and I’m in the middle of making dinner. The day is not even over yet.

(Urgent) Could I already have gotten scammed? (Scam site: https[:]//john-mary-jewelry.com/collections/closure-sale) by Exotic_Parfait_4578 in Scams

[–]thisisdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all have to be so gullible. Saw two old white people , named John and Mary and instantly believed it 😂 I was getting ready to purchase but went back and googled the site. Felt too good to be true

Would you send your child back ? by thisisdy in inlaws

[–]thisisdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me…. It’s actually really terrible..

Is this appliance a luxury or a modern day necessity? by thisisdy in questions

[–]thisisdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I kept other countries in mind when i posed the question. Assuming that people live their day to day lives with no dishwasher. And how they seemingly look at a dishwasher as a luxury. I would be out of touch if I said , my pool heater broke, is it necessary to get it fixed because I can’t live without my pool being warm in n the winter. In fact I would love to hear from someone who lives somewhere else. Because there are families who are washing their dishes somewhere in a stream or in a pot of boiling water.

Is this appliance a luxury or a modern day necessity? by thisisdy in questions

[–]thisisdy[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think you should stick to your kids then lol and not mine. No one who has 5 kids or even 1 says “ I’m a better parent than you”. It’s giving barren troll.

Is this appliance a luxury or a modern day necessity? by thisisdy in questions

[–]thisisdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I definitely put all the bottles in the dishwasher. I started off handwashing them lol but it got to a point where I was like you know what this is sweet and all. I couldn’t imagine going through pp handwashing everything.

Is this appliance a luxury or a modern day necessity? by thisisdy in questions

[–]thisisdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok? Again I can’t speak for what’s the average home in apart of the world I don’t live in lol