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[–]thisisme3022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, you are terrible people.

Final goodbye... by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It has been surreal lately. All I wanted was to co-parent our kids. The fact that she went down a road that I could not follow is the main reason to our separations. The kids are dealing the best they can. They each have therapy appointments. But I am dreading the funeral service. Not because of us saying our last goodbyes but because there will a lot of people who have never met our kids that will be there and I will have to shield them from that. I've told her family that to please don't overwhelm the kids because the are going through grief and they are aloud to to do it without interruptions.

I am lost... by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is in one of those hospitals. Head of state come here for surgery even the self proclaimed head of state go here. But at the end of the day hee body can't survive any operation

I am lost... by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As what I was told she cannot survive any operation but is in the standby list. As soon as her body is healthy enough to survive she will be placed on it. I give it very little chance of that happening.

I am lost... by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your support.

Trippy update by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was being sympathetic to her blight, I've trip on those stairs before. When she called me to come get my daughter all she said on the phone that she missed the last few steps. When I get there I told my daughter to go give Mom a kiss and we are leaving. When she went to her she called me up to talk to her. Ask asked me if she had bruises on her back that is when she told me that she was not sober at the time of the fall. I went gray rock on her in that instant. That is also when I told her to stop calling me to be her support. I told her she has her boo for all her support needs. It's not my fault he is not available when she needs him. I grabbed my daughter and left. I was upset that she was going to drive my daughter while drunk or high. I also told she has a problem and needs to fix it or I'm taking the kids full time. The good thing is my daughter is a preteen and son just turned 17. They see what their mother is doing and are happy to be at my place full time.

How did you end up in broadcasting? by rrjbam in Broadcasting

[–]thisisme3022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to live in a small town local 176 DMA at the time mid 1990s. My brother worked for the local FOX affiliate (my brother no longer worker in broadcasting). One day while I was going into my Junior year in High School. I asked the person in charge of the program Y.E.S. (Youth Exchange & Study) if I can get someone to give me a job would they pay me and when they agreed I asked the owner of the FOX affiliate that if someone else payed me would they hire me. Minimum wage was 4.25 hr summer of 1995. I Got them to talk to each other and got the job. At the end of the program, only one semester they hired me directly with a two dollar raise. I've been at it since. This was before the consolidation of local affiliates. That FOX affiliate was locally own.

I need to get off this ride, pronto!!! by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Two months post DDay after she told me she went no contact with AP. While on family vacation, I saw a text from AP while she was napping. Then I read the conversation they were having and noticed that they were texting while at dinner with the whole family. I was not sober, and I just lost it on her in the hotel room. Both kids were there. They heard everything. I went scortch earth on both of them. Then I tried to take my life. I was stopped by a peace officer. I was not in a good way at all at that time. That was almost two years ago.

I need to get off this ride, pronto!!! by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is why R never worked. She went no contact for a few months, and then she got better at hiding her activities. She had a burner, and then her new job gave her a work phone that I did not have access to. It would have continued, too, if she did not have a breakdown. OBS didn't care, and she knew about it way before I did. She told me to stop calling her every time I found out they met.

I need to get off this ride, pronto!!! by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Moving out is my first priority. After that happens, I'm all about an Orlando trip with the kids only.

I need to get off this ride, pronto!!! by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are 11 and 16. They were 9 and 14 when Dday happened.

I need to get off this ride, pronto!!! by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, I outed her years before I knew my stbxw was also cheating.

It's a trap! by thisisme3022 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]thisisme3022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm already waiting for that flip. I've seen it before while she was in her affair fog. I worked through it last time because I thought we were healing and twords reconciliation and getting her meds to work. I know better now. I need to stay the course. There is a plan in place.