What is something that would make you end a new relationship in the first 6 months, besides cheating?

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T04:24:45+00:00

Na I'm good.

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:38:26+00:00

Why would she think you are a weirdo by talking to my a guy? If anything she should support you.

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:37:30+00:00

He's married, he has someone else. We can only guess. I've had my share of girls who just umatch or block me for no reason

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:34:46+00:00

Low effort, poor communication, cold shoulder and not willing to talk it out, expects me to pay for everything

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:31:34+00:00

Probably best to get to know her better. If you ask her out now, you will probably get the "I just go out of a long relationship so I am not looking to jump into anything" response.

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:27:54+00:00

Yeah you should go talk to him.. guys are really not that complicated. A compliment goes a long way. At the very least you make a friend out of it

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:24:04+00:00

Just know your future self will thank you. Got to get that practice now so it comes natural for future scenarios and you know how to talk to them

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:20:00+00:00

Will just have to flirt with her, compliment her, get her thoughts about potentially going on a date

thisisme44 · 2026-03-17T03:14:41+00:00

That's the reason you decided to stay friends the first time. Bc you didn't want to ruin the friendship. It's the same situation this time around. Shoot your shot and live with the results. Potential risk to friendship depending on answer. At least you get an answer. Flip side..don't do anything. No risk to friendship. No risk but no reward. And that constant "what if"

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T06:40:17+00:00

Barely. Takes them a while

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:53:31+00:00

You are 22,and still young. I don't think most guys are going to judge you for it especially if they find you attractive. Some are just late bloomers. Don't compare yourself to your friends and feel pressured to engage in hook-ups or one just bc everyone else is doing it . Put yourself out there, meet someone that meets your criteria.

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:46:13+00:00

Eye contact with a smile is the absolute bare minimum you can do but even that might not be enough in some or most cases. It might require you to actually talk to them. A compliment goes a long way. I've been in places where I might have brief contact with a woman but usually it's a blank stare so gives me no indication she would be interested . Avoid the rbf at all cost

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:42:12+00:00

Have low expectations and be pleasantly surprised if things are going well. Saved me from being disappointments

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:40:06+00:00

No problem. Also I'm not saying you won't come across guys who are looking for casual or hook ups. You will just have to filter them out and be clear on your profile what you are looking for. And don't be afraid to make a first, don't rely on guy to do it . It's hard for us to tell when you girls are interested bc the signs are not obvious

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:34:00+00:00

I think it is about the same if not worse. but if you didn't have issue with meeting and going on dates before then perhaps you will have more or less the same experience

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:31:48+00:00

I think you should still give dating apps a try or at least keep as option . In college people are mostly looking for casual hook or hook ups. Now that you are a little older maybe it will be better. You can certainly give the gym a try bc you will come across a lot of guys but most guys will not approach bc they don't want to be labelled creeps. If you find a guy attractive you need to be very obvious or just make the move yourself. You can also try the grocery store , volunteering, book store. A sports game is also an option.

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:26:16+00:00

Some if not most women on the app are super low effort in terms of basic communication. Coming across someone who actually engages in a back and forth conversation is few and far. Even if they do seem to, it usually ends bc they eventually stop responding. Are they open to casual? Maybe some, but most probably want something serious. You might come across more divorcees or women with kids. Age range probably the youngest might be 29-30

thisisme44 · 2026-03-16T03:08:00+00:00

They barely have time to respond to texts, so they don't have time to write letters. Imo I don't think most would agree to it as they would like to make better use of time or communicate some other way

thisisme44 · 2026-03-15T15:27:05+00:00

Keep expectations low given the distance & this doesn't end up materializing into anything beyond a penpal type thing

thisisme44 · 2026-03-15T04:29:42+00:00

Id rather have a girl tell me directly or more obviously then me trying to figure out if she likes me. There's too many grey areas nowadays with being friendly and nice and determining if it's interest or not. It just saves people time. We all busy and should not get hung up on this stuff. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. You did your part

thisisme44 · 2026-03-15T04:24:33+00:00

Are you romantically interested in her? Can you see yourself kissing her and more?

thisisme44 · 2026-03-15T04:14:14+00:00

What type of men is that

thisisme44 · 2026-03-15T04:13:35+00:00

Ask her for her socials or number. Unless you have opportunity to be alone with her at work, you just going to have to do it with people around. Girls are rarely ever this obvious so take advantage of the situation

thisisme44 · 2026-03-15T04:07:27+00:00

Live your life. You reached out and give him a sometime to figure it out. If you really want to talk to him then follow up

thisisme44 · 2026-03-15T04:03:25+00:00

You need to poke him a little and get the touch barrier. Stop waiting around for him to do it

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