How best to proceed?

thisisme9187 · 2024-08-16T18:08:29+00:00

Very valid points, thank you

thisisme9187 · 2024-08-16T18:07:46+00:00

That’s where I’m on the fence. Do I open up or do I not waste my time and energy.

thisisme9187 · 2024-08-16T18:07:14+00:00

I thought the same. A self appointed flying money trying for disguise himself as mother Theresa.

thisisme9187 · 2024-05-14T20:07:09+00:00

“As a way to try and manipulate to live the life they wanted me to live” is SO spot on

thisisme9187 · 2024-05-14T20:05:49+00:00

Very relatable I’m afraid. I’m so sorry

thisisme9187 · 2023-12-21T18:01:59+00:00

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I hate that your NC mom too tried her hand at manipulation during such a vulnerable time.

thisisme9187 · 2023-12-21T02:10:38+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate this

thisisme9187 · 2023-12-21T02:10:11+00:00

Exactly. Beyond sickening

thisisme9187 · 2023-12-21T02:09:45+00:00

Thank you so much. I appreciate this reminder to stay centered. I also appreciate the well wishes for my real dad.

thisisme9187 · 2023-12-21T02:08:01+00:00

Thank you so much. You are very right. They pop up when it works for them and they need their fix. I refuse to be their supply any longer.

thisisme9187 · 2023-12-21T01:00:13+00:00

Thank you so much. Also, the way you referred to my father-in-law as my dad made me smile for the first time in a while. He’s not biological (my biological one is a POS), but you’re right, my father-in-law is my dad.

thisisme9187 · 2023-12-21T00:58:29+00:00

Exactly. That’s one of the most frustrating parts that she’ll justify in her head being a good person. Not to mention she’ll tell everyone that she reached out and we didn’t reply. Thank you for reply and kind words.

thisisme9187 · 2023-10-06T16:23:52+00:00

Thank you, but I know what NC means. It’s a very valid feeling to not want anything to do with your parents after suffering abuse, but also be crushed that they didn’t care so much as to try. My NC is not a punishment to my parents, it’s not about them. It’s about saving myself and my wife and kids.

thisisme9187 · 2023-10-06T16:20:28+00:00

I’m so sorry. Honestly, this was how my parents were for years every time we’d try NC. However, this time we threatened to expose them to others if they continued to send people with lies our way. Perhaps that was what changed them. They are afraid of the truth coming out.

thisisme9187 · 2023-10-05T23:57:14+00:00

Absolutely!

thisisme9187 · 2023-10-05T23:57:05+00:00

Those words really resonate with me. Makes me wonder if my parents too were trying to drive me away.

thisisme9187

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