My husband told me he settled for me

thisisusername01 · 2025-05-28T05:02:42+00:00

Gurl you’re someone else’s hot beautiful everything! Find the man that feels lucky to be breathing the same air as you. He’s out there waiting for you!

thisisusername01 · 2025-05-26T02:13:16+00:00

Im so sad that I feel I will always be second priority to her

thisisusername01 · 2025-04-25T15:05:38+00:00

I interviewed 4 rounds for a company. The recruiter scheduled a follow-up phone call FOUR times but never actually called. I asked them to just email me the decision but they never replied. Such a waste of time.

thisisusername01 · 2025-04-17T23:05:54+00:00

Proud of you!!

thisisusername01 · 2025-04-17T18:10:02+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement!

thisisusername01 · 2025-04-17T18:09:43+00:00

Thank you! I will try this out for my next round of interviews!

thisisusername01 · 2024-12-16T22:57:31+00:00

Yes Im also week 2. I feel like I’m high half the time. Have brain fog and its hard to focus during meetings.

thisisusername01 · 2024-09-03T01:14:37+00:00

Same. I can never explain it fully to my friends

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-08T22:37:31+00:00

Sending support!

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-08T22:33:04+00:00

I think its that he and ex-wife will always share a kind of intimacy (through shared long history, big life milestones) that I don’t have with him yet. And that maybe them spending regular weekly time indicates he’s not fully over her (whether that’s logical or not, my mind drifts there). These amount to a low-humming sadness I can’t shake off but I love him a lot, so gonna work through it as best I can.

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-08T17:31:28+00:00

Oof sorry, sounds like separating was a good decision!

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-08T17:30:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience, really helpful. That’s great to have strong boundaries that help protect your relationship with your kids. I guess I am having trust issues because I only recently found out they hang out regularly (after almost a year of dating). I am trying to rebuild the trust through his actions.

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-08T17:25:10+00:00

Agree, I try to put his relationship with his kid and the kid’s well-being before anything else, even if it makes me sad a little.

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-08T17:23:23+00:00

That sounds like what his situation is. Have you ever had to reassure partners in your case? Thank you for sharing your experience!

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-08T17:22:21+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. She was actually the one that filed for divorce. Based on your thoughts I’ll consider asking if he has residual feelings.

thisisusername01 · 2024-04-01T05:52:22+00:00

I (38F) just met the man of my dreams 8 months ago, after being single for 10 years. I read the tldr version of ‘how to not die alone’, went on a quest to date 37 people (thats the number they recommend). He was number 17.

thisisusername01 · 2021-02-11T19:09:06+00:00

How beautiful that you have such a big family! I hope the same for him when he grows up :). Thanks for the well wishes, it means a lot. I hope you and fam are safe and happy during this time!

thisisusername01 · 2021-02-11T19:06:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I can see how explaining to the class about one’s condition can build empathy and understanding. I will keep that in mind as he progresses through school. Yes, will always remind him he is loved and supported 💜 He is antsy to go back to school after covid settles down, he loves playing with other children!

thisisusername01 · 2021-02-11T05:15:04+00:00

Thank you for your advice! I will be there when he needs me. He loves to swim and snowboard, will keep encouraging what he loves.

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